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Old 05-18-2011, 12:21 PM   #61
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You just need an application for your iphone or droid that goes off with "YOUR TIME IS UP MUTHERFUCKER, NUT ALREADY AND GET THE HELL OUT".....that should solve the problem quite nicely.
That sounds like something my friend London would say. ahahahahahaaha!
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Old 05-18-2011, 12:33 PM   #62
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Sweet N Little, you are too fucking funny. I need to come get my hour's worth.
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Old 05-18-2011, 12:51 PM   #63
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When you walk into a shrink's office, you've given the 1 hour that you pay for and nothing more. Any other profession where you pay by the hour/2 hours/whatever, do you expect them to give you more time for free? My massage therapist doesn't give me extra time, she wraps up at the hour and that's it.
Of course, those professionals accept the responsibility for wrapping up the appointment. I don't keep track of the time, with them or with escorts. However, I have no problem whatsoever getting up and leaving as soon as the lady hints that time is up. Several ladies have been comfortable enough with me to be very blunt rather than hint. As long as I do that, I figure it's her choice of whether to spend a little bit more time. Theoretically, she might choose to do so. And if she makes that choice, as long as I respect that it's her choice, I don't feel obligated to pay her for the next time increment.

Of course, I . . . ummm, I mean "some clients," yeah, that's it . . . usually finish with the main event well before the end of the scheduled time together. That extra time is cuddling, or talking, maybe even giving her a massage, rather than sweating up the sheets. So I wonder sometimes when I see threads like this: do the ladies feel differently about this question depending on if the extra time involves more carnal activities or more relaxation? Not necessarily because one activity is more "valuable" than another; perhaps just because it's easier for the ladies to interject that hint during conversation than while fucking. Is that the case? Are your complaints really about guys who ignore the hints, or are still "working" as the ending time approaches, or initiate round 2 too close to the ending time, as opposed to those of us . . . ummm, I mean "those clients" . . . who don't/aren't/don't?

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Everyone has a different opinion of what a clock watcher is, just like everyone has a different opinion of what PSE truly is. But, then again you didn't give your opinion as to what a clock watcher. So, I'm going to assume that you mean ladies who are constantly watching the clock.
It's got nothing to do with keeping track of the time and letting the client know when time is up. It's an attitude. Like the guy in an office job who not only normally leaves around 5, give or take, but dislikes his job so much he focuses on the time obviously, watching the clock instead of doing his work, so that he'll know as soon as it's OK for him to leave a situation he detests. Or think of the scene in Risky Business with Joel sitting in class, his entire attention on the clock and almost exploding when he imagines the minute hand moving slightly backward. As long as a lady doesn't give me the impression she's eager for the scheduled time to be up so she can kick me out, she's not a "clockwatcher" -- even if she never seems to spend more than (or in some instances spends less than) the scheduled time together.
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Old 05-18-2011, 01:40 PM   #64
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If your nice and attentive I've found that the clock is not an issue. Providers like to have fun. They like to be treated well. Don't try get away with extra time. I really havn't found a provider that hates orgasms yet. Relax and have fun and the rest will take care of itself
The number of times the lady has an orgasm during a session probably equals the number of times a politician tells the truth. Like, almost never?

Anyway, concerning the topic...I always look around for a clock before the session starts. I try to keep track of the time myself because it can be awkward to tell a guy when he's heading into the last lap. It doesn't bother me to life my head out of her lap to glance at the clock.

If no clock is visible, I ask the lady to remind me when there are 15 minutes left in the session. I've trained myself to be really good at time management and have never had a problem
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Old 05-18-2011, 02:31 PM   #65
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The number of times the lady has an orgasm during a session probably equals the number of times a politician tells the truth. Like, almost never?
too funny
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Old 05-18-2011, 02:37 PM   #66
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To the ladies that say they don't watch the time: Instead of having 1hr 200 , 2hr 400 on your website .. why don't you just do a $200 clock free rate? (Sarcasm)
hahaha thats funny and true
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Old 05-18-2011, 02:54 PM   #67
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^ Well said
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Old 05-18-2011, 04:27 PM   #68
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Discreetly.


I guess it depends on her clients. I tried to schedule enough time to not have that sort of problem (2+ hours). The only time I ever ran over was a 2 hour appointment that I didn't realize had run over. However, right after she left, I realized I had run around 30 minutes overtime and I immediately called her and made arrangements to get money to her to cover another hour. Had she set an alarm and left on time, she'd have been out the money for another hour and I would have been less satisfied with the session. I guess it's a judgment call that requires a little intuition on how to best handle the session.
you are the exception, not the rule. I'm glad you didn't take advantage of the womans generosity and you paid her accordingly.
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Old 05-18-2011, 05:52 PM   #69
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As long as I'm getting fucked good there will b no clock watching
+1!

This is the reason why I try to schedule only 1 for the day, or if by chance I end up with 2 sceduled, there are hours between them!
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Old 05-18-2011, 08:24 PM   #70
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you are the exception, not the rule. I'm glad you didn't take advantage of the womans generosity and you paid her accordingly.
It's an interestinjg question, probably case-by-case. "Generosity" almost suggests spending extra time was for his benefit rather than mutual, but without any expectation of compensation; "taking advantage" almost suggests an expectation of compensation, a confidence that if offered the option he would have willing paid extra $ for extra time. That was clearly the case in npita's situation. But I think it's better to have a clear understanding, particularly for those ladies who deny any responsibility on their part to to track time and wrap things up. Otherwise, some risk that the lady would assume the client is willing to pay for extra time when in fact he's not.

Unless I've signalled that I'd like to extend, I wouldn't want a lady to extend (which almost always means just more conversation, not extra "play"), if doing so would make her feel "taken advantage of" without extra compensation.

Note: I also don't expect extra time, or feel taken advantage of if I don't receive it, as a result of a tip. Which is a good thing, because I rarely get it.
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Old 05-19-2011, 09:37 PM   #71
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I have come to my decision....I will simply use the alarm on my cell phone as well as wear a nice watch. I'm not a clock watcher, thats rude and just weird. But, I do need to know when the time is up. When the alarm goes off, we BOTH know time is up. If I chose to stay, so be it. To answer your question Chevalier from an earlier post, I would never donate time unless it was for chit chatting/relaxation. I'm not sweating up anyones sheets unless it's on the clock. I'm an escort, ya know?
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I had a doubles earlier today, and was playfully chastised for checking the clock after awhile. As much as I'd love for the session to just keep going, the gentleman in me doesn't want to take advantage of ladies who may not watch the clock as closely as I do.
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+1!

This is the reason why I try to schedule only 1 for the day, or if by chance I end up with 2 sceduled, there are hours between them!
I you, Tiff...in a "fuck me hard" sort of way. LOL
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Old 05-21-2011, 01:58 AM   #74
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Here you go. Try this and see how it works.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=227062
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Old 05-22-2011, 01:33 PM   #75
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I don't ever look at the time. I have my security let me know when our time is coming to a close by setting off my phone with a cute tune. I always explain the process ahead of time. Never had any issues. Never had it disrupt anything either.
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