GIFTS two...

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by Charlotte Breeze

Please. There is very little a man can buy me that I can't buy myself, and even less that I would prefer him to.Sure there is..

Do I like getting candy? Of course I do. It's candy. But when someone brings a gift, it's not for me. If it was, I wouldn't have 500 pieces of lingerie sitting around that I'll never wear again. Even gift cards limit me to going to that one particular store within a certain amount of time. I'd rather have the extra $50 to put into savings, as I am sure most people would. But, some like to bring presents, because once again, it just adds to the experience for them.

And no, if a client starts expressing feelings that go beyond what is appropriate, the gifts had better not start getting more expensive. That would only make me more uncomfortable, and lead to him getting cut off faster.

So by that rational if a trick had a certain amount of money he had to spend before the physical year was up and he bought you a Mercedes S65 you would turn it down and send him packing? Yeah right..

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by ronjeremy

if i want to pay 800 for a dinner date thats my biz. not in love with her because i want company to eat with.

No...you're not in love...you're just...sad...

Paying someone to keep you company while you eat...that's...just sad...

[ronjeremy]

saying guys who buy dinner dates in this forum are sad, is like going into the catholic church and acting shocked there is communion. nothing sad about paying a provider for a dinner date vs. trying to get her to do it for free. i would take a free dinner if she offered, but i see nothing wrong in paying for one either. grow up.

[Wakeup]

Hey London...you might want to cool it...you don't want to get some more of what I gave you a few years ago do you...

"BANNED" and "retired" looked pretty good on you after the last time we hooked up...

[Charlotte Breeze]

Originally Posted by bladtinzu

So by that rational if a trick had a certain amount of money he had to spend before the physical year was up and he bought you a Mercedes S65 you would turn it down and send him packing? Yeah right..

You are missing the point.

If someone decided to give me a car, that'd be cool. It'd also be totally cool if they didn't, as I have one of my own and can purchase a new one if I need it. Contrary to what you keep trying to get at, No. I don't care either way, and would much rather purchase something on my own, after I have handled all the real world stuff like bills and savings, and I have decided it's definitely something that deserves a space inside my tiny apartment. We are not all just money grubbing bitches you know, some of us are normal people too.

Expensive gifts are just like inexpensive ones, more for him than for me. Guys who give cars as presents (and they are out there) do so because they like being big spenders, they like the flash, and they like knowing that they are the only ones who are gonna get her THAT! It's part of the thrill for them, and makes their experience better. What is the difference between giving a $100 gift, and spending $100 extra for a PSE? Nothing, just what that particular person gets off on.

Like it or not, the ability to provide for and please a woman is a pretty natural instinct, some are just less hung up on the idea that we are hookers and don't deserve a penny more than we're getting than others, and allow themselves to have a good time the way they like.

And, like it or not, some people can separate gift giving and emotions just as easily as you can call them foolish here on the internet. If a guy can give me a car free and clear, fine. If he's doing it because he has a Pretty Woman fantasy, trust me. We can tell, and we have different ways of handling that completely different situation.

[Charlotte Breeze]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

No...you're not in love...you're just...sad...

Paying someone to keep you company while you eat...that's...just sad...

Is it sad that he is ok with maintaining boundaries? That he recognizes that her time is what she's paid for? That he doesn't see her as just a real life blow up doll? Or is it sad that he has the money to do it, and still has the nerve to have a good time and go on to do it again?

That's the thing with these types of discussions. You have the people who do what they like no matter what it is, and then you have the people who have a need to call them sad, or mangina, or pathetic. Never an actual argument as to why, just random insults. But always an insistence that there is only one way to enjoy such a personal experience.

Any man who judges what kind of man he is based off of a stranger's fantasies is sadder than one who knows what he likes and just goes after it.

[Guest062217]

Originally Posted by Charlotte Breeze

Is it sad that he is ok with maintaining boundaries? That he recognizes that her time is what she's paid for? That he doesn't see her as just a real life blow up doll? Or is it sad that he has the money to do it, and still has the nerve to have a good time and go on to do it again?

That's the thing with these types of discussions. You have the people who do what they like no matter what it is, and then you have the people who have a need to call them sad, or mangina, or pathetic. Never an actual argument as to why, just random insults. But always an insistence that there is only one way to enjoy such a personal experience.

Any man who judges what kind of man he is based off of a stranger's fantasies is sadder than one who knows what he likes and just goes after it.

Congratulations Charlotte...you've just had a taste of the Eccie's biggest fucktard....aka - Wakeup.

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by Charlotte Breeze

You are missing the point.

If someone decided to give me a car, that'd be cool.

No your missing the point. You said earlier if the gifts were too big you would bail yet..

When properly baited you were all over it.

Going into how you can afford ect ect..

Like we really fucking care.

You were done with the part I quoted you on above.

So utterly common and typical.

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by Charlotte Breeze

Is it sad that he is ok with maintaining boundaries? That he recognizes that her time is what she's paid for? That he doesn't see her as just a real life blow up doll? Or is it sad that he has the money to do it, and still has the nerve to have a good time and go on to do it again?

That's the thing with these types of discussions. You have the people who do what they like no matter what it is, and then you have the people who have a need to call them sad, or mangina, or pathetic. Never an actual argument as to why, just random insults. But always an insistence that there is only one way to enjoy such a personal experience.

Any man who judges what kind of man he is based off of a stranger's fantasies is sadder than one who knows what he likes and just goes after it.

Or he could be like me. Not pay them for sex but pay them to keep the menial chit chat to a bare minimum and leave when the time is up.

After all this is a business and I treat it like one.

[Charlotte Breeze]

Originally Posted by bladtinzu

No your missing the point. You said earlier if the gifts were too big you would bail yet..

When properly baited you were all over it.

Going into how you can afford ect ect..

Like we really fucking care.

You were done with the part I quoted you on above.

So utterly common and typical.

Give it a rest.

You said that if emotions became involved, the presents had better get bigger. To which I replied, that is a different situation, and if the presents became bigger in addition to that desire for something more, it would lead to him being cut off faster. Why? Because that is just wildly uncomfortable, and a pretty solid nail in the coffin when coupled with other indicators. From the very beginning, I have made that clear.

The only thing you have baited me into is repeatedly pointing out that you refuse to acknowledge is clearly written in my posts. Who knows? Maybe if I treated you like an adult capable of a conversation, you would eventually start behaving like one. Maybe someday you still will.

[Charlotte Breeze]

Originally Posted by bladtinzu

Or he could be like me. Not pay them for sex but pay them to keep the menial chit chat to a bare minimum and leave when the time is up.

After all this is a business and I treat it like one.

He does too, just in a different way than you do.

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by Charlotte Breeze

Give it a rest.

You said that if emotions became involved, the presents had better get bigger. To which I replied, that is a different situation, and if the presents became bigger in addition to that desire for something more, it would lead to him being cut off faster. Why? Because that is just wildly uncomfortable, and a pretty solid nail in the coffin when coupled with other indicators. From the very beginning, I have made that clear.

The only thing you have baited me into is repeatedly pointing out that you refuse to acknowledge is clearly written in my posts. Who knows? Maybe if I treated you like an adult capable of a conversation, you would eventually start behaving like one. Maybe someday you still will.

And maybe one day you will find out the trivial bullshit in your posts like how you can afford a car and no one has to by it for you are about as boring as watching paint dry and no one gives a shit about it.

The only thing we care about is you saying you would refuse if the guy made you feel "uncomfortable".. By that rational wouldn't some schmuck buying you a car you could never afford make you feel "uncomfortable"?

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by Charlotte Breeze

He does too, just in a different way than you do.

Giving a hooker gifts like she is your girlfriend is not good business.

[Wakeup]

Paying them to eat is "maintaining boundaries"? Boundaries, stupidity...you say potato, I say potato...

[ronjeremy]

that's so original wakeup. last i checked heard she did dinner for free.