Review: TS Tia-Phoenix was my Birthday Cake and I Snuffed out her Candle

[Solemate62]

Originally Posted by Beauti

I just wanted to say.... I think if a man messes with a TS... he is definitely gay...

Considering 30 of my 31 Reviews are of female providers, I must reject the title of 'Gay' but if some wish to stick that name on me, I ask... for the woman who enjoys sex with a TS, what should we label her? Straight?

[shooter6.5]

That was a great review Soulmate. Takes a lot of spirit to write such a good review. Glad to see that you had a great time.

Elizabeth- Gotta tell you that I have read many of your posts as a MOD, and you do a great job. You definitely are the opposite of me. You are peaceful, and gentle in your comments. You know how I was/am. Best of luck to ya here.

Shooter6.5

Back for a while and then gone again !!

[crashkopf]

Suck a cock one time, and your a cocksucker the rest of your life !

No respect around here !!!!

[Solemate62]

Originally Posted by crashkopf

Suck a cock one time, and your a cocksucker the rest of your life !

No respect around here !!!!

Because of this reply that apparently will stand unchallenged by anyone who contributes their thoughts to Another Realm topics, this will be my final contribution to the review I first posted nearly two months ago. In the past week I have been labled'Gay' and now a 'cocksucker'. I no longer will be posting reviews in Another Realm nor contributing thoughts and opinions on any other topics within this forum. To those who have enjoyed my Tia review and who have posted supportive comments, I thank you so very much. Goodbye to all!
Sm62

[ZedX79]

Sad how closed minded some men and providers are on here. They come into a thread knowing what it is and start labeling people or are making half ass attempts at trolling. Sad people actually. There are some trannies who are better looking than many providers on here. Kalena Rios comes to mind. I never saw Phoenix when she was in Houston and would have loved to have sucked her cock, fuck her ass and have her cum on my face.

You don't have to respect or like a person because they enjoy trannies, but just keep your mouth shut. This section is called another realm for a reason.

[ElisabethWhispers]

I have been watching this topic carefully, but I'm not here 24/7. Just saw some responses and have written a few PM's.

Could it be that crashkopf was writing about the irony of labels? I saw the post as him suggesting that there is no respect to the original poster, which he deserves the accolades that he's received for such a great review.

Solemate, you've written a first class review. The majority of responses here are positive, including an excellent comment from someone that I admire from afar. I hold shooter in very high regard and he's a tough guy! (Thank you so much for your compliments and thoughts on this topic!)

He wrote a glowing response.

Being a sexual maverick isn't always the best seat in the house to be in. Others will chime in with negativity and others will follow along like children following a Pied Piper.

When someone has the grit (and balls) to present a review such as you did, it's important to know with that, you're taking a chance of having someone (or three or four) take dumb potshots at it.

Heck, guys will even criticize others for seeing girl A, instead of woman B. It's part of the whole and this is part of the back and forth of a sex board.

My final words of wisdom for you are these:

Illegitimi non carborundum or "Don't let the bastards grind you down".

Sometimes, that's all you need to know.

Best,
Elisabeth

[crashkopf]

I apologize if my comment was taken the wrong way !

First, I am totally cool with anyone experiencing whatever sexual explorations they desire. Without judgement or labeling. That is one reason why Another Realm is my first stop on Eccie. I love the sexual adventure, not only within, but discovering what others find arousing and satisfying.

Second, I am not a closed minded, hateful man. Well, maybe there is a bit of some self loathing, but I am working on that.. Perhaps I used the wrong personal pronouns. If ONE sucks a cock one time, then One is a cocksucker the rest of their life.It reflects judgement society has against anything other than the ' norm ' most sheep flock to. Might be better language I could use. It was a comment I heard not too long ago at a bar by a good friend, which I found amusing. To myself : " Yea, just like on Eccie. People admit they indulged in TS's or MFM bi play, and now they life sentenced to being gay, a cocksucker, a fag, or whatever red necked label applies " Truely, that was the internal dialogue at the time my friend made that comment. I found it highly amusing because the truth(s) within that statement are too damned accurate.

It was a joke on my part to reflect the prejudices which occur daily on this board, particularly against bi-men and TS's. If one indulges in a foray into what might be regarded as alternative sexual encounters, then "ooo. wierd, sick, gay, " whatever labels are put on that person. Not me. I find it delightfully entertaining and additional items to reflect upon.

So yes, mea culpa in perhaps not being clear enough with a jocular perspective. I DO NOT hate Trannies, Bi's, or gays, not even one bit. I embrace everyone's sexuality as a journey, and as a tool for personal self discovery, in a screwed up world.

I apologize profusely to those who took offense at my comments, becasue it wasn't meant that way, and I don't feel that way in my heart of hearts, at all. It was not my intention to judge anyone's proclivities, nor hold them to any standard other than their personal freedom resulting from self discovery. Yes, it was meant to be ironic, sardonic, and a goose at some who would truely think to label this as wrong. Instead, it backfired on me which in retrospect is cool as it causes me to reflect upon my choice of words and delivery thereof.

Pleae accept my apology. I ask your forgiveness.

Thanks !

[Solemate62]

Noted - Understood - Accepted!