A Provider to a John, "I love you"

[MajorHands]

I once asked a provider if it was okay, "within the limited context of our time together" to tell her I loved her at that moment, and she replied that I could if I didn't mind her telling me, within that context and in this moment, that she loved me too...(it was actually sweeter than it reads here...lol).

The thing is, while I haven't seen her in over a year, and probably never will again, I will always have some love in my heart for her.

[jokacz]

Gee, it's hard to guess who was peddling that shit!

[offshoredrilling]

na I will save that only for ones I see a lot. mmm or use to.

[guest032013]

Who I truly love: strippers, waitresses, bartenders and escorts.

[Doove]

Originally Posted by jokacz

Gee, it's hard to guess who was peddling that shit!

But what about this shit?

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by Doove

But what about this shit?

That's called sport fucking. You should try it sometime.

Originally Posted by naughtynikki84

i make it a habit to tell all my clients i love them

I guess she forgot to tell you.

[Doove]

Originally Posted by jokacz

I guess she forgot to tell you.

Didn't ask. Though to be honest, i'm not sure what your point is anyways.

But she did tell me i rocked her world!

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by Doove

But she did tell me i rocked her world!

Originally Posted by Doove

Are you sure?

[Doove]

Seems you're missing my point.

[jokacz]

The feeling is mutual.

[Doove]

Originally Posted by jokacz

The feeling is mutual.

You had one?

My point is that in the hobby world, there really is no difference between "i love you" and "you rocked my world" when coming from a provider. Oh, we can argue the relative sincerity of each individual provider at any given point in time, but in a general sense, you really can't make a blanket statement that one set of words out of a provider's mouth is any more filled with bullshit than the other.

Me thinks you simply wanted to slam whichever provider you think Majorhands was referring to.

[jokacz]

My point is that in the hobby world, there really is no difference between "i love you" and "you rocked my world" when coming from a provider.

I’m not talking about words.

Me thinks you simply wanted to slam whichever provider you think Majorhands was referring to.

Genuine sexual response is identifiable and quantifiable with enough experience. I’ve yet to find a woman who can fake a squirt, for one obvious example. Fake affection is another matter. I think if you take equal parts of undergraduate psychology and amateur thespian training to concoct a bitch’s brew of bullshit and market it as a substitute for genuine affection, you are treading on much more dangerous ground than bare back full service ever was or will be. I would go so far as to say that such behavior is the lowest form of prostitution and I will bash its perpetrators at every opportunity. But I really don’t need to because Karma is one bad mother fucker, even if you’re too clever by half. The mind is a dangerous place to play.

[GP]

Wow! that was deep!

[Doove]

Originally Posted by jokacz

I’ve yet to find a woman who can fake a squirt, for one obvious example.

Porn stars do it all the time.

Fake affection is another matter. I think if you take equal parts of undergraduate psychology and amateur thespian training to concoct a bitch’s brew of bullshit and market it as a substitute for genuine affection, you are treading on much more dangerous ground than bare back full service ever was or will be.

Affection, even "fake" affection, is in no small way what these girls are selling. I can't believe that even needs to be said, and your hatred and criticism of girls for doing exactly that shows that you have either an inability or a refusal to grasp the realities (or in your case, limitations) of what's going on here. The problems arise when you're not here seeking affection, but rather, when you're here seeking a girlfriend. Or a reasonable facsimile of one. And given my dealings with you personally, as well as my knowledge of your dealings with certain providers, it's clear that you fall into the latter category.

One thing that everyone, particularly you Jokacz, would be wise to keep in mind is this. No matter how much off the clock time you receive, no matter how many flirtatious (or even serious and personal) emails you receive, and no matter what she might tell you on a personal level, as long as you are paying for her services, you should always leave yourself some room for doubt about the sincerity of her affections. Always. If you fail to do that, and if you allow yourself to cross that juncture and drive yourself over a cliff because of it, chances are you have nobody to blame but yourself.

That's not to say that sometimes the affection isn't truly authentic. But even in cases where it is, some level of skepticism will help keep you grounded.

I would go so far as to say that such behavior is the lowest form of prostitution and I will bash its perpetrators at every opportunity.

You are one angry and bitter hobbyist who, frankly, needs to take one long and hard look in the mirror. I suspect I know the names of two or three providers you have in mind when you make these comments. To my knowledge, nobody seems to have a complaint about them in this regard except you. And given your actions that turned them against you, I mean, really. They were giving you what you wanted, even what you were paying for. You, in turn, outed them, spread rumors about them, and now blast them publicly on the board.

But I really don’t need to because Karma is one bad mother fucker, even if you’re too clever by half.

Let's hope.

[jokacz]

I'm happy to report that all the damage you attempted to create has long since been been repaired. Find something new to fill the void in your life.