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Originally Posted by Old-T
Your posts leave me--and I assume many others here--shaking my head.
You are a poor speller, you do not use spell check, but you then complain that people attack you for your spelling--even when they don't. But you have no problem repeatedly saying that other posters "talk shit" because they disagree with you. Personally I find the latter to be more hostile.
You continue to describe the vast majority of ladies on here--and the vast majority of ladies in the business--as cold and heartless, especially towards each other. And when people point out numerous examples counter to your narrow world view, you either ignore the post or you say they are wrong.
Personally, if you have the same attitude when you interact with people in person as you do here, it does not surprise me that you have a negative view of folks in general. It certainly does not match my view of the ladies I have met. They tend to be more generous, more understanding, and more giving than the average member of the broader community I have met. At least the ones I have had the privilege of meeting. THAT is the main reason I tend to be more generous giving them gifts be it at Christmas, their birthdays, or for no special occasion.
Yes, I easily believe that Grace helps some other ladies with rent and food, because I know many who do exactly that. I have a friend who was struggling to make ends meet, but put a homeless man up in her outcall apartment because he was injured and not in any position to live on the street until he was well. That put a severe cramp in her income for a month, and threatened her being evicted. It was other ladies and clients who collected enough money to cover her rent for the month the homeless man was in her incall.
Another lady I know--a former madam--rents apartments to two of her former ladies who are on hard times because of poor life choices not connected to this work. In both cases she is renting to them at a loss because she knows they can't afford more.
So it does not surprise me at all when ladies like this get gifts from men who appreciate their service, but also know that they are themselves generous people at heart. So no, they don't fit the narrow stereotype you seem to have formed of ladies in the business.
But to bring it back to the OP, which in many ways YOU hijacked while accusing others of doing precisely that, here are some of the Christmas presents I have already bought and am waiting to hand out to different ladies closer to Christmas:
--Books for a lady to read to her children (this one always brings a huge smile. Shel Silverstein is one of my favorites to give out and best received
--A food basket--fancy things I know she likes but usually can't justify buying
--A gift certificate to an art supply store
I am sorry for you if you don't understand, or if you think these things are anomalies. They really aren't. There are a lot of wonderful ladies here, and men actually enjoy giving gifts to ladies they like.
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Hookers out here trying to make living.Hooker work not steady hours like most employment. Hookers Giving their money to another hookers for rent .christmas.Clients want to give gifts and pay professionals rent and bills and hourly rates.Go for it clients it's your dime.I want to sign up for clients buy me gifts and pay my rent and bills and hourly rate.