The subdued benefits of being charming......

[Guest061511-2]

I don't think its neccesary to bring gifts. Although, just like anything else, if you set yourself apart in some positive way it's bound to pay off in the future. This is assuming the lady is appreciative. Of course their are going to be those that try to take advantage of kindness. That is in ANY business on eithier side. That's why doing homework is important. All I know is this business is such an intimate one that there should always be mutual respect and kindness. A single flower or even a little card does go a long way. I had someone ask me if I wanted a soda before our appointment. That's it.. simple as that and he will always be remembered!

[Hottassamelia]

Originally Posted by Yssup Rider

Certainly not what I'm saying, Whispers! And definitely not what I'm about. I'm not a gifter or a tipper. Don't expect either in my business, which is in many ways similar to the business we celebrate here. But I'll be damned if, for a change, you haven't chit in the punch bowl again with the insulting labels and annoying generalities.

Do you ever walk out of a session without having felt cheated? How about the gal with whom you've had the session? Do they smile when you walk in or when you leave? Are all your sexual encounters as combative as characterized by your inimitable writing style? Do you even enjoy being with ladies, or just lust for the triumph of a good hunt (over a willing prey, I might add)?
Just sayin...

LOL! I just spit my Moscato out my nose, I laughed so hard..

[Yssup Rider]

[saj1000]

I bring books...5-6 good authors. And , if they like the style, they can hit the used bookstores and have years of enjoyment reading the authors I suggest.

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by Yssup Rider

Do they smile when you walk in or when you leave?

Originally Posted by Hottassamelia

LOL! I just spit my Moscato out my nose, I laughed so hard..

Amelia, dear... every good provider makes you feel special from the time she first sees your face to the time she's watching your ass leave, which includes that smile. If we all act as gentlemen, should it matter if that client is me, Whispers, or Yssup Rider?

Editorial comment:
I feel I should complain about the continued negativity on the board.

[Hottassamelia]

Originally Posted by ztonk

Amelia, dear... every good provider makes you feel special from the time she first sees your face to the time she's watching your ass leave, which includes that smile. If we all act as gentlemen, should it matter if that client is me, Whispers, or Yssup Rider?

Editorial comment:
I feel I should complain about the continued negativity on the board.

OH ZTONK...Thats right! and YOU always act like a complete gentleman.
Thats why we love you...I have never had the pleasure of meeting Ysssup Rider or Whispers..so I cant speak intelligently on there gentlemanly skills.
But yes,as long as they act like gentleman,Im game.
And yes,I too feel that there is WAY to much negativity on the board, so IM SORRY I SPIT UP MY WINE.
but that was just soooo funny I couldn't help myself.
Do I need a spanking???

[Yssup Rider]

CHIIIITTTT GIRL! I'll take you around the world in 10 seconds!

[maxieryan]

Originally Posted by Yssup Rider

Like something 15-20 inches long to blow? Like a musical instrument?

He was nice enough to show me how well he can play.......

[maxieryan]

Originally Posted by Whispers

So if a guy wants a reference the $200-$300 he pays is not enough... Gifts are needed.....

Certainly these ladies need more and more [SIZE=6]and more!

OK.. CHARMING = GIFT GIVERS/TIPPERS

None of this is accurate.
It's unfortunate you took it that way.

It's just that for people like me that have drank away a good deal of their I.Q points, if you want to be remembered for a quick ref, a silly little gift or a cheap bottle of wine is a sure thing!

A great sense of humor and some corny jokes does the trick too (Yussup Rider!!!!). Hahahaha

[maxieryan]

Originally Posted by levibob56

Is the orchid still alive ??

Alive????? It's got it's own zipcode now! And I finally got one to bloom. THAT is a scientific feat in itself.

[Yssup Rider]

Originally Posted by maxieryan

He was nice enough to show me how well he can play.......

Not that there's anything wrong with it!

[maxieryan]

Originally Posted by saj1000

I bring books...5-6 good authors. And , if they like the style, they can hit the used bookstores and have years of enjoyment reading the authors I suggest.

What a SUPERB idea!!!! Keep America reading.....

I have turned down MANY tips from gentlemen. I say "your return visit is quite enough for me". I say tipping is not necessary or expected. I make ENOUGH money, thank you. AND I am very grateful to be able to have this job. So no, this thread was a public service announcement. NOT a thread about how you should 'tip more'. I don't really believe in tips. I set my rates and that's that. But orchids DO make me remember you!

[Dagny D.E.W.]

I have really enjoyed the ones who TELL me of their favorite authors, don't even need to bring the books, but would I love that!!!!

and tell me of your netflex faves. I have my family tell me (they don't know where) that I have the most unusual picks on the netflex. problem is... I have 100 on the list so by the time it rolls up to the top, I can't remember WHO recommended. LOL

Love most of them. some .... not so much...sorry.

[Yssup Rider]

Would that include stuff pre-Gutenberg, Dags?

Sorry, just couldn't help myself.

Still trying to sort out Aesop's Fables!

[Hottassamelia]

Originally Posted by Yssup Rider

CHIIIITTTT GIRL! I'll take you around the world in 10 seconds!

Give me 20 seconds and you have a deal