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Originally Posted by Mrzip
This is a complex issue with many moving parts going back to the basic of why are guys like me even in the hobby? I am an old grey haired guy who has done this for years. Sometimes I quit for long periods of time. Sometime I find someone I really enjoy and see them several times but normally when that happens I find myself saying I need to move on. Part of what I seek and I think it is the same with many other guys is the thrill of the unknown. That plays against knowing that the second visit with a really good provider is usually the best. There is also the money issue. If you are like me you have to play with hidden funds. Try spending a couple of hundred dollars two or three times a month and you might have to do a lot of explaining. I am also able to get free on short notice and I know that makes it difficult to see ladies who are top providers like Katee and Dallas. Part of the whole deal for me and I expect many guys is finding that new lady that is really fun. In my experience if you use BP and don't find reviews anywhere your odds are 10-1 against you. I try to see only ladies with reviews. I use P411 and have used it for years. I try to give honest reviews here to help both other guys out and to give really great ladies the credit they deserve for bring an hour or so worth of joy and pleasure to guys like me. Springfield is really a small pond compared to even to St. Louis. I don't know how many guys are really in the hobby here? I know this doesn't answer Dallas' question but I hope it sheds some light on the mind or mindlessness of an old time guy in the hobby.
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I agree with much of what you said. I too often have to resort to hidden funds and it may have been months since I have seen a provider. Will that provider even remember me when she gets a call for a reference? Often I end up with a few hours of free time because of weather conditions and wish I had a regular to get a quick BnG I have found it impossible to do sometimes and BP is so hit and miss. Great topic btw.