The Appeal of Gang Bang

[!VI!]

I have been in 3 gangbangs before

at first i did it because i wanted to prove a point.

the second time i did it it was at a frat party. honestly the feeling of being the center of attention and the feeling of outlasting 6 guys is amazing. it is like an intense workout.

the first two guys are just normal blah blah blah,, its when you as a woman start to feel exhausted, and starts to feel like you are getting raw that it kicks up. its like adding a second gear to a sex drive. to me its almost a great as making love to someone.

i think it is a if the shoe fits thing, but i would say everyone should try i once, honestly if you don't like i don't do it again, but at least you know you experienced it

[Ray-Ray]

I'm like the seagulls from finding Nemo , mine , mine , mine.... don't like sharing. But to each their own , have been asked a couple of times to participate in one from an utr provider but every time she asks I just lol her and ask her if she wants go to the movies this weekend... so far two movies , 0 gangbangs... kinda hope she ask's soon , as I want to go see Thor...

[DallasRain]

I used to have gangbangs and would love to try one again but but schedules can be a bitch

[Guest092216]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I used to have gangbangs and would love to try one again but but schedules can be a bitch

Can you tell us what the appeal is, DR? We are mostly all just speculating here and I would definitely vote you as most qualified to speak on this. What excites you/motivates you to participate in a GB? What do you find the most thrilling and satisfying about the GB you have been in? I'm so fascinated by this topic! )

[samantha thom]

I'm too scared, sissy and too romantic to try a gang bang. I think I would start crying in the middle of it. I am not suited for it.

[SD2011]

Originally Posted by samantha thom

I'm too scared, sissy and too romantic to try a gang bang. I think I would start crying in the middle of it. I am not suited for it.

And you're better for it...(stay like you are)

Romance...what a novel idea these days!

[DallasRain]

I liked them because of the "thrill of sexual openness" and the "power trip" or "sexual high" I got from being able to do something so sexually uninhibiting! Now I prefer a more intimate setting such as a mfm or a mmfm session.

[L.A.]

Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

but i would say everyone should try i once, honestly if you don't like i don't do it again, but at least you know you experienced it

Not in a million years.

Even the idea of MFM is a turn off for me.

Another thought is as a client would you hesitate to see a provider who participates in these? I admit it would be a factor in my decision to schedule with a provider who I know is into such things.....that's just me.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

I have been in 3 gangbangs before

at first i did it because i wanted to prove a point.

the second time i did it it ... honestly the feeling of being the center of attention and the feeling of outlasting 6 guys is amazing. ...

the first two guys are just normal blah blah blah,, its when you as a woman start to feel exhausted, and starts to feel like you are getting raw that it kicks up. its like adding a second gear to a sex drive. to me its almost a great as making love to someone.

i think it is a if the shoe fits thing, but i would say everyone should try i once, honestly if you don't like i don't do it again, but at least you know you experienced it

thanks for sharing - and glad that it was a good experience for you!

is part of it a control thing?. if you initiate it or agree to it, then do you feel more in control of how much you want to experience?

i would think that if the woman has less control over the situation, the less sexually satisfying it would be. people would be using her, doing things to her, NOT having sex or making love WITH her.

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I used to have gangbangs and would love to try one again but but schedules can be a bitch

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I liked them because of the "thrill of sexual openness" and the "power trip" or "sexual high" I got from being able to do something so sexually uninhibiting! Now I prefer a more intimate setting such as a mfm or a mmfm session.

thanks, too, for sharing your thoughts on these.

there is an incredible feeling when one gets to do things sexually, esp when they are in or have control and it turns out to be an enjoyable/deliteful experience. having visited w/ you, i can see why you enjoy/like that sexual openness!!


to Wulf_Princess and DallasRain, who decided on the number of guys? at what number might it just become too much to deal with??


personally, i've never been involved in a gang bang and havent decided if i'd want to.
but, in the hobby, i've been involved in many threesomes and some foursomes. in the real world, i've been involved in a few threesomes, some group sex parties, and some swinger parties [all w/ my SO].

in all but a few cases, everyone consented [no one was forced] and we generally had a very enjoyable sexually filled time. people felt good about the sexual interactions, watching, participating, receiving, giving, etc. very little jealousy or issues or pettiness.

in the few cases where it didnt turn out so deliteful, it was either due to a) jealousy, b) being forced into it [a Mistress lesbian ordering her submissive lesbian girlfriend to felate a guy when she really didnt want to], or c) lack of communication about physical boundaries. we got thru it or we ended it - it changed our perceptions about each others for a long time.

it's not for everyone, but it can be delitefully pleasing.

[crashkopf]

I love the idea of sexualizing the woman, knowing and watching her get fucked by numerous cocks, over and over.

I have met several women who really are insatiable, and to watch them get what they so greedily desire, and to participate, is a turn on. Seeing her become ' dick-matized ', endorphins pumping thru her system, begging and craving for more cock, is amazing.

I do mean this in the most pleasurable way possible, not mechanical, going for the record, whatever. I have found some women to have a much stronger sex drive than I could ever imagine. Being in a relationship with this type of woman soon uncovers that I could never satisfy her on a consistent basis. Similar to thinking one pussy could ever really satisfy me. This type of person needs to be free'd to examine her own sexual prowess, hence a GB. To see a fellow human being satisfied in the most intense avenue delights me.

For those women who desire it, I am of the position to assist her in her own path of self discovery. Its just fucking. And if she desires multiple cocks, filling her every hole and hand, bucking and riding over and over again to ecstacy, filled with man milk in and on her body, cumming like a rapid fire rifle, is groovy.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by L.A.

Not in a million years.

Even the idea of MFM is a turn off for me.

Another thought is as a client would you hesitate to see a provider who participates in these? I admit it would be a factor in my decision to schedule with a provider who I know is into such things.....that's just me.

like i said in prior post, sexual encounters w/ multiple partners is not for everyone. and whether or not you want to engage in it, that's fine w/ me.

but, and not saying that anyone in this thread has said so or did so, pls dont judge or castigate(*) anyone for doing any kind of sexual encounter, as long as it's consensual. cos the minute you judge someone else, you are judging yourself and perhaps someone will be judging you.

it's also fine if one decides not to visit w/ someone who says they engage in certain activities [not including unhealthy/unsafe activities]. but hopefully that doesnt imply that someone is a "bad" person for doing those activities. they're just doing something they think/feel is ok or right. they're just different. just like each one of us is different.


L.A., i have to ask, what is so different about a woman or a man who engages in gang bangs one weekend versus a woman or a man who engages in many one-on-one encounters in a month?? what is it about gang bangs that influences your decision one way or the other??



(* castigate: to criticize or reprimand severely.)

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by crashkopf

I love the idea of sexualizing the woman, knowing and watching her get fucked by numerous cocks, over and over.

I have met several women who really are insatiable, and to watch them get what they so greedily desire, and to participate, is a turn on. Seeing her become ' dick-matized ', endorphins pumping thru her system, begging and craving for more cock, is amazing.

I do mean this in the most pleasurable way possible, not mechanical, going for the record, whatever. I have found some women to have a much stronger sex drive than I could ever imagine. Being in a relationship with this type of woman soon uncovers that I could never satisfy her on a consistent basis. Similar to thinking one pussy could ever really satisfy me. This type of person needs to be free'd to examine her own sexual prowess, hence a GB. To see a fellow human being satisfied in the most intense avenue delights me.

For those women who desire it, I am of the position to assist her in her own path of self discovery. Its just fucking. And if she desires multiple cocks, filling her every hole and hand, bucking and riding over and over again to ecstacy, filled with man milk in and on her body, cumming like a rapid fire rifle, is groovy.

well said!!!!!

[L.A.]

Originally Posted by pmdelites

L.A., i have to ask, what is so different about a woman or a man who engages in gang bangs one weekend versus a woman or a man who engages in many one-on-one encounters in a month?? what is it about gang bangs that influences your decision one way or the other??



(* castigate: to criticize or reprimand severely.)

It's simple. I don't like it and I would prefer not to see somebody who does like it (if I'm even aware of it).

In my mind and I could be wrong but it's how I feel so that makes it hard to be wrong....it seems like a form of men dominating a woman and that's not something I'm into.

Am I judging others who do it? Of course! Everybody in one way or another judges others especially when you're deciding on a good client/provider match, and where to spend your time and money. Maybe I'm not judging the individual (how could I if I don't even know them) but yes I'm judging the sexual activities they engage in.

Having said all of that.....by all means do whatever consensual adults like to do...that's what it's all about around here. I guarantee most guys are not into the type of session I'm into and that's fine too.

[Solemate62]

No interest at all and I had an offer last year to take part in one by the sweet lady who is also my Avatar model. Have seen her 1 on 1 and would see her in Doubles which she does offer, but GB? Nope!!

[Guest092216]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I liked them because of the "thrill of sexual openness" and the "power trip" or "sexual high" I got from being able to do something so sexually uninhibiting! Now I prefer a more intimate setting such as a mfm or a mmfm session.

Thank you. That makes a lot of sense. You have a very confident persona which (I think) changes the landscape of a GB from humiliation/domination OVER a woman into more of an extreme sport/adreneline rush FOR a woman. I don't see myself ever participating in one but I can definitely identify with your perception of it.