Holiday gift ideas

[Kay of Houston]

I have a small business on the side. I make home made scented candles. Seems to be great gifts. For the holidays, I package them in a really nice holiday box or in a holiday bag. Great thing is they can be re gifted. Also do special orders. Any ladies or gents have interest, shoot me a pm.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Tex9401

Knock off Unnecessary Rudeness...This is not the political forum.

But the necessary rudeness is still okay?


Taint photos would be a wonderful gift ...

[Tex9401]

No, It is Not Okay. Because of his recent actions, he doesn't get full reign in other forums.

Originally Posted by pyramider

But the necessary rudeness is still okay?


Taint photos would be a wonderful gift ...

[Guest021817-2]

Originally Posted by Kay of Houston

I have a small business on the side. I make home made scented candles. Seems to be great gifts. For the holidays, I package them in a really nice holiday box or in a holiday bag. Great thing is they can be re gifted. Also do special orders. Any ladies or gents have interest, shoot me a pm.

Cookies? Can I come get one?

[slinmo]

Originally Posted by Kay of Houston

I have a small business on the side. I make home made scented candles. Seems to be great gifts. For the holidays, I package them in a really nice holiday box or in a holiday bag. Great thing is they can be re gifted. Also do special orders. Any ladies or gents have interest, shoot me a pm.

this is a great idea for the guys to give something to the ladies. I don't think I know a female who is not into scented candles. Being handmade and personalized makes it that much better.

You should think of something that you can crafts for the ladies to give to the guys. maybe something edible, I like the cookies idea.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by MsChayse

Thanks for this reply. I would only add the providers certainly deserve a special gift from one another as well. Many of us play a key role in looking out for one another on a daily basis. Be it through providing references, exchanging information when they encounter dangerous clients or helping one another with necessities, bills etc. I have been amazed at the "sisterhood" I have experienced & witnessed throughout the years as a provider.

How come sisterhood don't help other hookers with bills and whatever else?Instead hookers ask clients for help and gifts..Sisterhood in adult business.All in competititon to get clients and cash.You wrote this topic holiday gifts.Pay gifts forward to the less fortunate.Not to professionals hookers get out make money.

[Grace Preston]

Her post LITERALLY said that the sisterhood has helped others with references, necessities and bills. And you quoted the post where she says that. And then asked why we don't. Did you not read what you quoted?

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by GracePreston

Her post LITERALLY said that the sisterhood has helped others with references, necessities and bills. And you quoted the post where she says that. And then asked why we don't. Did you not read what you quoted?

I did this cause I knew your ass going to get on board starting talking shit since you been prostiute for 10 yrs. Prostiutes only ask each other for references. Prostitutes ask clients to help with bills and gifts

[Kay of Houston]

Originally Posted by Fancylady

How come sisterhood don't help other hookers with bills and whatever else?Instead hookers ask clients for help and gifts..Sisterhood in adult business.All in competititon to get clients and cash.You wrote this topic holiday gifts.Pay gifts forward to the less fortunate.Not to professionals hookers get out make money.

As far as candles, I've found that a lot of gents don't really like to shop. With these, they can give them to family members, co-workers etc.. And yes I do contribute to the less fortunate.

[Kay of Houston]

Maybe I miss read it. Part of what I was referring to was about the less fortunate. I do my best to give o.k.'s or info when requested.

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Fancylady

I did this cause I knew your ass going to get on board starting talking shit since you been prostiute for 10 yrs. Prostiutes only ask each other for references. Prostitutes ask clients to help with bills and gifts

I've helped more than one lady pay her rent, pay her heat, and helped provide a Christmas on more than one occasion. Fortunately, most don't agree with your assessment of "how it is".

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by GracePreston

I've helped more than one lady pay her rent, pay her heat, and helped provide a Christmas on more than one occasion. Fortunately, most don't agree with your assessment of "how it is".

Damn help me pay my bills and christmas..Your in the business to make money.Your going to give your money to another hookers to pay food and christmas.That's new one.Unfortunately needs it more than hookers with hourly rate and gift.

[Grace Preston]

Hookers are people. People from all walks of life can fall upon bad times. I don't base my willingness to help someone who needs help on their chosen occupation. Have I ended up giving to someone who was just playing others? Yup. But that won't stop me from being a kind person.

Lawyers are in business to make money. Many lawyers still donate money to those less fortunate.

Doctors are in the business to make money. Many doctors still donate money to those less fortunate.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by GracePreston

Hookers are people. People from all walks of life can fall upon bad times. I don't base my willingness to help someone who needs help on their chosen occupation. Have I ended up giving to someone who was just playing others? Yup. But that won't stop me from being a kind person.

Lawyers are in business to make money. Many lawyers still donate money to those less fortunate.

Doctors are in the business to make money. Many doctors still donate money to those less fortunate.

Welcome to business about money.Kindness for poor on holidays.Kindness to each others.Clients do whatever makes you happy it's your dime.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Fancylady

I did this cause I knew your ass going to get on board starting talking shit since you been prostiute for 10 yrs.

Originally Posted by Fancylady

Damn help me pay my bills and christmas..Your in the business to make money.Your going to give your money to another hookers to pay food and christmas.That's new one.Unfortunately needs it more than hookers with hourly rate and gift.

Your posts leave me--and I assume many others here--shaking my head.

You are a poor speller, you do not use spell check, but you then complain that people attack you for your spelling--even when they don't. But you have no problem repeatedly saying that other posters "talk shit" because they disagree with you. Personally I find the latter to be more hostile.

You continue to describe the vast majority of ladies on here--and the vast majority of ladies in the business--as cold and heartless, especially towards each other. And when people point out numerous examples counter to your narrow world view, you either ignore the post or you say they are wrong.

Personally, if you have the same attitude when you interact with people in person as you do here, it does not surprise me that you have a negative view of folks in general. It certainly does not match my view of the ladies I have met. They tend to be more generous, more understanding, and more giving than the average member of the broader community I have met. At least the ones I have had the privilege of meeting. THAT is the main reason I tend to be more generous giving them gifts be it at Christmas, their birthdays, or for no special occasion.

Yes, I easily believe that Grace helps some other ladies with rent and food, because I know many who do exactly that. I have a friend who was struggling to make ends meet, but put a homeless man up in her outcall apartment because he was injured and not in any position to live on the street until he was well. That put a severe cramp in her income for a month, and threatened her being evicted. It was other ladies and clients who collected enough money to cover her rent for the month the homeless man was in her incall.

Another lady I know--a former madam--rents apartments to two of her former ladies who are on hard times because of poor life choices not connected to this work. In both cases she is renting to them at a loss because she knows they can't afford more.

So it does not surprise me at all when ladies like this get gifts from men who appreciate their service, but also know that they are themselves generous people at heart. So no, they don't fit the narrow stereotype you seem to have formed of ladies in the business.

But to bring it back to the OP, which in many ways YOU hijacked while accusing others of doing precisely that, here are some of the Christmas presents I have already bought and am waiting to hand out to different ladies closer to Christmas:

--Books for a lady to read to her children (this one always brings a huge smile. Shel Silverstein is one of my favorites to give out and best received
--A food basket--fancy things I know she likes but usually can't justify buying
--A gift certificate to an art supply store


I am sorry for you if you don't understand, or if you think these things are anomalies. They really aren't. There are a lot of wonderful ladies here, and men actually enjoy giving gifts to ladies they like.