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oldmarine · 03-09-2017, 05:16 PM

I like it both ways. My ATF and I will sometimes trade roles during a session. We don't plan it out and just go with the flow. During our last session, she was in a dominant mood but rather than using me, she took control and did everything in her power to maximize my pleasure and it was fucking awesome. On other occasions I will choke her and pin her down and maintain control but pain is not part of the equation. Dirty talking is hot too. We know each other's limits and stay within the boundaries.

netman · 03-09-2017, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Tara Evans

I like telling someone to get behind me and fuck me doggy style.

Ummmm.... OK!

netman

PS: YUMMY!!!

KissableMelissa · 03-09-2017, 05:34 PM

I'm very submissive by nature bcd. I even like some pain. But it would be hot to switch it up maybe once and be the dominant one! I just might have to try that!

Gemineye · 03-09-2017, 06:59 PM

I LOVE being dominated, having a woman on top being so aggressive that she grits her teeth and pins my arms back behind me head. Biting me, pulling my hair, even scratching me. Alluring Stacy I've always been curious about you. It would be hot to one day be dominated by you (not where pain is inflicted.) But it'd be so alluring to be tied to the bed with you teasing me with your illustrious hair and nails dragging all over me giving me goosebumps, with you looking at me with your intense gaze like in this

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Does that sound like a style you'd be game for?

Tee hee

London-James · 03-09-2017, 08:04 PM

Like many of the gentlemen have commented, I am the second in the chain of command where I work and the Alpha Female. My direct supervisor would argue I'm the actual boss since I run the daily functions and he's the face. I digress. With that, by the time I get home, I just want to let go. I don't want to think, or make decisions. I just want to feel and be... used.

However, I am a switch, and I know how to take control. Though, I really adore topping from the bottom; being a brat and not obeying. Before I know it, I'm the one who has my partner's arms tied up, blindfolded, and in the middle of tease and denial... among other things.

Dolphin2300 · 03-09-2017, 10:37 PM

As long as respect, boundaries and safety words are established Dom or sub can be fun! The problem is a lot of people think it is about abusing or controlling someone against their will. That is illegal and can get you in big trouble!

Now electric play submission is fun��

AcidTripp · 03-10-2017, 03:05 AM

Since last year I have found that I prefer being Dom. Its not so much as my sub following my command, although that is part of it, but getting her to the point where she gives over complete control (trust and power). As a Dom this is very fulfilling and I believe provides a greater level of pleasure for both.

Tara Evans · 03-10-2017, 07:16 AM

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Originally Posted by netman

Ummmm.... OK!

netman

PS: YUMMY!!!

greekfreeke · 03-11-2017, 08:16 AM

Interesting revival of a thread. There are women who will dominate you because that's what you want & then there are women who will dominate you because it's their nature & what they want & like. When I find a lady in the second category, it's a very good day. It's all in the head game.

Guest091417 · 03-16-2017, 12:11 AM

I like to take turns. Must be the Gemini in me lol. Plus I love to switch things up and keep it exciting by trying new things, toys roleplays and such. I like to take control and tease a guy, punish him and until he can prove he is worthy, let him have the most amazing orgasm from such pleasurable denial. I also like to be pinned down, told what to do, punished, spanked and tied up and FF. Being able to find someone to let me do both in one session is always fun but unfortunetly hard to find a kinkster quite like me.

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MOCHAakaMOCHA · 03-17-2017, 02:45 AM

I think I come off as having an accommodating but 'strong' personality so I tend to get men who like to be dominated by me. My nature is more of a switch with domme tendencies.

mtabsw · 03-17-2017, 07:44 AM

It's amazing how the best subs are the ones who advertise a Dom experience.

In answer to the OP's question - zero, although I don't mind the girl being the sexual aggressor.

TexasCharm · 03-17-2017, 09:05 AM

I love to switch.. more sub but I'm pretty sure I exceed your level of kink.. lol

dfw harley · 03-17-2017, 09:24 AM

How about a woman that will be dominant when she is on top or doggie position? Give her a ridding crop, she can spank the crap out of you, and demand for it to be harder and faster!!

Cloudiee · 03-17-2017, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by La Vida

I like to take turns. Must be the Gemini in me lol. Plus I love to switch things up and keep it exciting by trying new things, toys roleplays and such. I like to take control and tease a guy, punish him and until he can prove he is worthy, let him have the most amazing orgasm from such pleasurable denial. I also like to be pinned down, told what to do, punished, spanked and tied up and FF. Being able to find someone to let me do both in one session is always fun but unfortunetly hard to find a kinkster quite like me.

Where have you been all my life!! I definitely need to schedule an appointment soon!