Why do providers have to be the one to buy condoms?

[Grizzly]

Originally Posted by skbinks

One provider told me she would never use a condom brought by a client for a lot of reasons that pyramider mentioned. She buys different sizes in bulk online and has both latex and latex free.

That is why i leave them in the box until she is present i usally buy the 3 pack. Ive known way to many providers not have them or they did not fit me because they were a little big.

[Iron Butterfly]

I always bring my own, it's to important to spin the wheel. The right fit and type makes a world of diferances.

IB

[buzzworm86]

Originally Posted by SpiceInTucson

Here's my speal


I don't know what size penis every man has and more often than not if a man has a large dick he doesn't think he does. Least that's what 90% of them claim.

That being said I don't see why men don't buy their own condoms. I have ran into that situation so many times where I just go to the store. Buy a combo pack and for what ever reason the guy doesn't fit into them. I would never ask a man to buy my a bra. He may get the general idea of my size but that doesn't mean it will fit?!?!

Okay. Thanks my rant :-)


Happy hobbying!!

well, why do restaurants have to supply dinnerware; seems simple enough to me!

[firelips]

Originally Posted by tia travels

If you let guys be the ones to bring the condoms,
and they knew they had the choice to do so,
then alot of them probably wouldn't bring one
or claim they forgot to....just to be able to BB.


You say you would never ask a guy to buy your bra,
but you're providing a service. And having supplies
is part of that service.


Just like when you go to get a massage (professional
or hobby related)...they aren't going to ask you to
bring your own towel, oils, lotions and table. If you
go to a nail salon, they provide the colors and callous
remover and hand lotion, etc. They don't ask you to
bring your own. If you go to a restaurant, they
don't ask you to bring your own food, plates, or utensils.
So it only stands to reason, that if you prefer protection,
you should provide it.


If this subject really was in etiquette books,
this would not the kind of conversation (see pic) to
have with your gentleman caller...
(boyfriend maybe, but not hobbyist.)



I'm not saying you have to buy 25 different sizes, but
do your best to get a few different kinds.
If they "still" don't fit, well you made a genuine
effort and if the gent knows he's a hard-to-fit guy
for your basic condoms you can buy most places
easily---and if he doesn't like cramming his "johnson"
in a Magnum XL for example, THEN ...maybe he
can bring his own.


But to say you think all men should provide something
that most people would provide normally as part of their
service, is kind of (let's just say)
...not the swiftest

Awesome post Tia

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

That was very informative and a nice little jab at the end there. LOL Not trying to start anything or take up for a lady, heaven forbid, but don't understand why it was necessary. I'm sincerely trying to figure out why folks here say things to each other that are informative and helpful, and then qualify by letting them know how they judge them. I'm learning to judge everyone for myself, as well, so it's important I understand what I'm doing...ya know?

Thanks tons!

Yoda is very good at this excluding herself.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Figure it out. I'm not really surprised you asked, as I've seen some other things ya posted that made me think, "Wow, did he really just say that?"



Think taint.....it does your heart good or sumthin. I prefer that, rather than you being confused, k?

As usual ... you got nothing ...

Carry on.

[jwood]

Had a lady pull the only 1 condom trick on me. Should have brought my own. She won't do it again.

[Laura Lynn]

Why is providing covers a big deal? For $6.50 you can get a box of 12 regular size and for another $6.50 you can get a box of 12 Magnums. Not a huge expense, doesn't take up a huge amount of space and you know where your covers are and have been.

In my experience, married men do not purchasing them. Kinda hard to explain, ya know

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

Why is providing covers a big deal? For $6.50 you can get a box of 12 regular size and for another $6.50 you can get a box of 12 Magnums. Not a huge expense, doesn't take up a huge amount of space and you know where your covers are and have been.

In my experience, married men do not purchasing them. Kinda hard to explain, ya know

Makes sense to me! If a gent prefers a certain brand, bring your own, still in the pkg which the ladies should be allowed to comfortably ensure as she sees fit, are safe to use. Might even be nice if the gent informs a lady, he'll be bringing his own, and why.

[atf searcher]

Originally Posted by D.G.

You have to buy them cause us guys dont mind getting caught in the rain without an umbrella or pancho or slicker or whatever you wanna call it .

This is very true. It's a ready made excuse that works on some providers.
Not my primary motive.

I bring the condoms I like best but a guys should never have to think about bringing lube, that's the girls responsibility.

[alaine]

^^^^^^^ for once WHAT HE SAID!

[D.G.]

Bringing your own condoms is like going to the amusemnt park and having to ring your own rollrcoaster .

[bule84]

I always bring my own, I don't trust the provider to clean it well after its last use. I am very particular about the cleaning process....I also like to alter the direction it is rolled, you can get lots more uses out of them

[tia travels]

<<-----Is this you airing out your used condoms after you clean them?? LOL

[bule84]

Originally Posted by tia travels

<<-----Is this you airing out your used condoms after you clean them?? LOL

exactly....the drying method revealed!! I see u use the same method