Oh goody!
Another poster who 'measures' a woman's worth by being toned and tight and and devalues her based on her motherly 'wear and tear'.
Refreshing, timely, and JUST what we need more of to add brevity and sensual fun to co-ed!
OP, I have no friggin idea what your motive in asking such an obtuse question.
I find these questions to be 'game playing' and attention-seeking in nature.
My answer. Being an provider does not define a woman nor her value/dreams/goals/past/etc. Some have a hard time grasping that a hoogar is a real person. That says more about the 'some' than it does about the woman.
I was and am a million things outside of this world.
I was a provider when I got into a relationship w/ a hobbyist (we both quit), we married, and (eek! he had pity on me even tho' I had a mommy- body!) we had a baby! Pretty simple.
I just realized the real reason I dislike the OP's question. I can't stand 'Why' questions.
They are a waste of time - no matter who you are. They have no point and who cares 'why' something happened.
But, why?? (insert whiney voice)
As always...a long answer...
Oh yeah...being pg meant being perpetually horny...I will have to re-read CK's post and try that.
Even tho' the baby factory is now closed and it is now a museum...please stay behind the velvet rope.