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Tony Gambino · 11-06-2010, 11:06 PM

Ashlee You have made a lot friends here, and everyone of Us want the best for You.
I've never even met You in person...only in chat, but You really had an impact on Me.
I ccouldn't imagine what was going thru the mind of your attacker, my brain just can't go there, but I am so glad that You made it out alive.
Your personality and demenor came out in chat talks, and I hope You take SJ's offer for help seriously, and make the most of it...I truly believe He has Your best interests at heart.

And on another note, I hope Your not feeling responsible in any way,there is no way You could predict the dark thoughts in that guys head. You were victimized, by a selfish man with no regard for others...
if You need anything at all pm me....and let jon help you, I truly believe He's thebest informed and experienced with situations like this

You are in My thoughts and prayers

Tony Gambino

CajunBoy · 11-06-2010, 11:13 PM

When this all first happen I contacted her via text and asked her if she needed anything and told her if she did in the future just let me know. But she said things were fine. If you need me to throw in a little something I am always good for financial assistance just pm me and let me know who is handling things and I will make an extra effort to get it to them

ErectionDemolitionSpclst · 11-07-2010, 02:33 AM

EDS has reached out and will bug her until she lets EDS help her....

EDS has endured a situation similar to that of what happened to Ashlee and trust EDS, wouldn't wish that on anyone!

~Ze~ · 11-07-2010, 10:57 AM

I am VERY happy Ashlee posted. We love you doll...

Ashlee has a lot to deal with right now, and Jon and I are discussing ways to set up a community fund for her.

I am going to ask that everyone hold off on calling/emailing her for a while. I hear she is overwhelmed. Even that word doesn't quite do enough..

My idea is - for now - until a system is in order to donate - I would like to start a list of those willing to help. That way, once everything has been arranged, and we know exactly what is needed, there will be more information to hand out about helping her.

I know there has been a bunch of you trying to get a hold of her. Her messages are probably full, and her phone should be too... let's leave her be for now so she can focus on herself.

Please shoot me a message if you would like to be notified once we have everything in order...

~Z~

trynagetlaid · 11-07-2010, 11:50 AM

I've already suggested a bank account be set up for her. This is quite common when a person suffers a tragedy.

I can pick up the phone and make a wire transfer from my credit union account and I don't get charged anything. All I need is a bank routing number and the account number.

With online Moneygrams the fees get to be a pain in the ass after a while, even with Rewards!!!

This isn't rocket science.

~Ze~ · 11-07-2010, 12:12 PM

I'm sorry... there is only so much I can do from over here. Maybe me not being local is bringing more harm to her cause than good.

I can't walk into a bank and set an account up for her. I don't have a personal relationship with her, so I don't know how easy it would be. I have never even heard of a Tragedy Fund until I googled it just now... I have a ton of questions about the possible exchange of real life info on both sides of this option...

I know you want to help, I do too and I am trying hard as hell to keep everyone interested in this without doing too much harm. I feel helpless.

Jon is up to his neck in real life things to deal with . Hobby stuff isn't even on his radar. Once he get's control of everything he already has a couple of ways worked out.

Please be patient, this is a very dynamic situation... Jon and I are dealing with it as it comes along...

Guest070213 · 11-07-2010, 05:27 PM

One thought: What about setting up a PO box at a UPS store or one of those other "Postal Options" kind of places?

Shea Veile · 11-07-2010, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by pilot4u

One thought: What about setting up a PO box at a UPS store or one of those other "Postal Options" kind of places?

Unless it's set up by the person(s) handling everything ...

The postal service and business centers require the person's real name and info or DBA. If the mail/packages aren't addressed correctly, they're not delivered.

I wondered about it too and asked. Just sharing what I was told.

ShysterJon · 11-07-2010, 05:52 PM

Today Ashlee agreed to let me take her to the Rape Crisis Center at Parkland Hospital. The facility is very overburdened with clients, but she should receive the help she needs during the next few days. She told me she's now living with her mother.

I agree with Ze that it's probably not a good idea to write Ashlee or try to call her at this time. Rest assured she's very aware of the many warm wishes she's received from members. But please understand that she is occupied with other matters at this time, making her unable to read and reply to messages. Please allow her the privacy she needs to work with professionals to heal.

While Ashlee welcomes and appreciates your best wishes, your best wishes and a financial contribution are even better. She still needs help to buy basic items such as food and medicine.

Making a financial contribution to help Ashlee should be a simple matter. PM me and I will give you an address to mail a check. If you wish to remain anonymous, you can mail a money order or a gift card. No one has to show ID to buy a money order or a gift card. If you want to ensure she received your contribution, I'll send you a receipt signed by her.

For anyone who previously sent Ashlee a MoneyGram: Please check again to see whether she's picked it up. Any MoneyGram previously sent should have been picked up by today. If yours wasn't, please let me know and I'll make sure she gets it.

trynagetlaid · 11-07-2010, 06:34 PM

Thanks SJ for everything you've done and continue to do for Ashlee...

Guest051711 · 11-07-2010, 10:33 PM

Meet with Ashley tonight, Her rent is paid for the month. But she still needs some more help, thanks for the work your doing to help her on her legal side SJ. Kind of hard for me to help on my professional side, not to many people can use caskets until its to late in life.

~Ze~ · 11-15-2010, 03:22 PM

Well, the rumor-mill FINALLY got back around to me.. seems there is something about Ashlee Summers and I being sisters. I can only guess that this is because of the title of the thread.

Let me explain-

The term "Twisted Sisters" was first spoken to me a few years ago by my VERY best friend. She used it when another young woman needed help. For us, it meant giving up our time, doing something "wicked", to help someone... our sister in need. Giving of our proceeds to help another..

As much as you guys would like to hear about "sister doubles".. I am sorry to say that I am NOT Ashlee's sister. I have never even met her. Until recently I haven't even spoken to her.

Since this is about Ashlee..

Speaking with her today, she has a few bills/expenses that are stacking up.

Ashlee does have a card. Which is a prepaid card. This means that all you need to do would be to go to a local store(Store Locator), and get the "reload pack".. You need to be very specific.. cause if you buy the "card" it will be very difficult for her to get the funds. Once you get the reload- all you need to do is send her the "code" and she can load it to her card and pay the bills... I have never seen one of these.. so if I explained something wrong, maybe someone can help me?

She is bouncing on and off boards and managed to chat with us today... please contact her or if you would like to help this way. OR Jon, if you would like to send in funds via gift card or other means.