Need to understand the eccie community...

[ManSlut]

Originally Posted by lily blake

Your saying the girls who get disrespected asked for it?? I personally havnt had any tiff on this board but I see it happen to many innocent girls.
But ok I'll let you sit on your high horse

Yes, you have had some very minor TIFFS regarding some of your posts and they were much the same as this one where you like to fire off smartass shots across the bow of someone who was being polite and helpful.

Seriously, do some of you people remember the SHIT you say on this board?

[!VI!]

Originally Posted by L.A.

There are probably hundreds of providers on this site that never (or very rarely) have a problem with anybody. They post ads, they provide good quality sessions, they post relevant content. They don't go looking for fights and controversy. They treat what they do as a business and rely in some part on eccie to function as a tool for their business. I'm not sure what providers are "talked to and treated like trash" that you're referring to but if you could point out a few examples I would be curious to see that provider's history.

due to a conversation i had with a moderator recently i can not respond to this in public or private. unless i could trust the other member ... but in this case it's wise to just let it be

Originally Posted by pmdelites

this site was set up by a guy partially in response to the impending demise of ASPD.
there are only "ECCIE Forum Guidelines", no rules, no regulations.
http://www.eccie.net/announcement.php?f=5

".....You will find various other items of policy and procedure which address a variety of topics placed in various forums across the board. Please pay attention to the stickied threads in each of the forums you visit to prepare yourself for the guidelines which may exist for that forum in particular. What you see here are the basic fundamentals. If each of us commits ourselves to abiding by the basic posted guidelines provided, our community will continue to grow and thrive. As the saying goes, you get out of something what you put into it. In that respect, we ask that each individual member, including our staff, to display a common respect for those around you and make yourself aware and familiar with the guidelines set forth for the community.

Thanks in advance,
ECCIE Staff"

my opinion is that on the internet, esp anonymous sites on the internet, people act however they want to act - nice, decent, immature, disrespectful, downright hostile, whatever.

and whether or not you believe they are doing a "good job" at it, the moderators, administrators, and owner(s) are doing what they can and what they feel is the correct/appropriate application of the guidelines.


again my opinion, another aspect of this is how some men treat women in general and sex workers in particular. throughout ages, many men have treated women w/ little respect if not as chattel. look at how Mary Magdalene was treated in the bible. Look at what happened at the Salem Witch Trials. Look at what happened to those school girls kidnapped by Boku Harum (sp). Look at what the so-called Islamic State fighters are doing to women in Syria and Iraq and Turkey. Look at how women are treated in the USA in business, advertising, etc.
when some women become educated, gain power, or gain money (a form of power), some men dont like being upstaged, dont like losing power/money, etc. and then attack women, either specifically or generally.

throw in some anonymity and very lax application of consequences here in eccie, and it's no wonder why some guys act the way they do.

so, in my opinion, to think that people will behave in the most respectful manner here is to ignore history and to not think rationally.
to hope that they will act "nice" is laudable. to educate them about "nice" behavior is also laudable.


i think dallaswill and iaintliein said it best
* "The moral of the story, there are ppl who are rude, whether they know it or not. Don't let them drag you down."
* "It's always been a jungle out there, but the internet allows the claws to reach anywhere, anytime."


while that may be the thought of some guys, it doesnt read like you are stupid.
and pls dont paint all the other women on this site w/ that brush.


while i agree w/ your thought/opinion, there is "should" and there is "reality".
if you see something that you think is not in keeping w/ the guidelines, i suggest that you report it to a moderator, admin, and/or owner citing the specific guideline.
or just accept what you read here.
or ignore some of what you read here.
or leave.
your choice.


bottom line, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
but dont be surprised [upset? yes] if someone does something "wrong".

read... aknowledged, but it's allowing BS like this to happen that ends up creating the fucked up mind state that people have.

i'm a fighter it's what i do, i love sex but if my partner is a asshole it will reflect in my attitude lol

this is MANY girls lively hood, and because of that people get away with what they want just because some girls NEED the money.

I honestly don't care, with only seeing one person a day 22 days a month my life is easy, that on top of my IRL income lol i'll take a few blows to try to hope that maybe someone in the world will see that this is unacceptable.


i will say this, i may bend over because i love doggy but i'll NEVER bow down to the narcssistic dicks that seem to control this board. You can't run me off because

1. most of the big talkers are cowards
2. the last one that tried it in person got shut down hard
3. and honestly everytime i make a post and watch it unravel people get to see some of these dicks for who they truly are, and honestly it's a start

Originally Posted by pmdelites

as well as the history of the people treating them like trash.

Originally Posted by lily blake

So because we aren't to take this site seriously we let men attack women and sometimes take advantage of them? I don't see how a woman thinks it's ok to take disrespect. Smh
This environment will only create more sickos

Lily this is going to be a lost battle, it goes further then ANY lady could fight...

out society has created an enviorment where this is okay, because people accept it. Positive note, thanks to you and a few others at least i know that not all everyone here is gonna sit and be a mindless zombie...

[Kendall4U]

Originally Posted by L.A.

Thanks for your insight Kendall. I'm not sure why she's trying to turn your obvious positive intent into something negative.

Thanks L.A. I'm not too worried about it. I have been around for almost 4 yrs and have seen quite a lot. I have always conducted myself in such a way that I don't disrespect anyone. Everyone can have and voice their opinions. Matters not to me. I can say, I have not had to "go away" or reinvent myself and come back with a new name because I can't refrain from acting like an ass on a hooker board.

Happy Hump Day people!

[Guest070818-1]

I tell you what - By reading some of the commentary I've seen, a couple of hobbyist have ended up on my DNS see list.

One is on this thread.

[lily blake]

Originally Posted by ManSlut

Yes, you have had some very minor TIFFS regarding some of your posts and they were much the same as this one where you like to fire off smartass shots across the bow of someone who was being polite and helpful.

Seriously, do some of you people remember the SHIT you say on this board?

-__-
Lmfao
That's my only response for you cool guy

Oh wait are you still enjoying passing up all my ads on your way to the bank?

[ManSlut]

Originally Posted by lily blake

-__-
Lmfao
That's my only response for you cool guy

Oh wait are you still enjoying passing up all my ads on your way to the bank?

Yes, my banker said it is an even smarter decision now as it was then because I guess you went up on your rates, yet again...We laughed about it over lunch.

[EZ.]

Originally Posted by lily blake

Your saying the girls who get disrespected asked for it?? I personally havnt had any tiff on this board but I see it happen to many innocent girls.
But ok I'll let you sit on your high horse

I'm curious as to where this is happening? Is it in the Welcome Wagon? I look at the pictures but not the comments. I'm either interested or not.

You have pages of positive reviews (100% like Kendall). Is there a relationship in how you are treated and reviews?

[Papacorn]

Originally Posted by EasyLover214

You're a true lady - and expect that's why you're treated as such.

I think many of the issues that occur depends on your purpose of this board. From a lady's standpoint, I would think it's to sell her goods. For those that go beyond it being for sales they usually lose because irregardless of how idiotic a man they're fighting with, many paying guys avoid ladies that have ANY drama associated with them...can't chance that drama affecting out RW.

From a guy's perspective, for some it is their life - so they respond to everything regardless if they should (like the BBW white girl that reponds to an ISO for a black spinner) - they're both desperate for something.

Some guys don't hobby but come here for kicks - they have absolutely nothing to lose by getting into it with girls - that's dangerous to the gal because the drama could lose real business.

Keep in mind people - for 99.9% here they could stop coming here tomorrow and after a week be forgotten (exception - been a year and I'm still wondering when Kitty will return). So to the point of "it's just a hooker board" - really has merit. If it's truly upsetting someone to be here they need to move on - have some fun, look at some hotties, enjoy a fight here and there, but at the end of the day this isn't my whole life.

Well said. Eccie is not so different from the rest of the world...you end up being treated in the way that you treat others. Not a platitude but a reality. If one is confrontational they should expect that in return, if they are passive they should not.

Threre are no victims here. If Kendall is treated well, and treats others well, a correlation can be concluded. If I have different results, I will start by examining my own behavior.

I also choose to chat/associate with people I observe to be open, pleasant and respectful, and avoid others I don't perceive that way. Is another solution there somewhere ?

Male your own reality, no one else is making it for you

[DownForWhatever]

So...last week the OP set off a shit storm between Sweet.Treat and Tara Evans...and now we've got Lilly and Kendall at odds.

Seems like we've got a pattern here...I'm just surprised we're this deep into it without points or bans yet.

Wulf has a unique way of promoting the Community.

[Guest062316]

Do what the rest of the bullies do pay 300+ every couple of months to host your own forum on here, add people so they can feel special and they will kiss your ass. This works for providers and pimps. If you watch carefully there is a trend.

Wulf Princess forums, then you don't have to post, rant or rave out in front of those who don't care to read it! problem solved for everyone!

[mydallas1]

Lightning rods are designed to attract lightning.
Maybe some posters have made themselves lightning rods.

[Luke Skywalker]

Originally Posted by SNL9933

Statements like...fat, whore, bitch, etc. by board trolls makes it embarrassing to be a man and its those trolls that always "f" with me because I have called them out on their shit. I view them as very sad people who hate women and are the guys who were always rejected by girls in life...or rode the short bus to school.

Wise words sir. I feel the same way.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by Lolabrea01

Do what the rest of the bullies do pay 300+ every couple of months to host your own forum on here, add people so they can feel special and they will kiss your ass. This works for providers and pimps. If you watch carefully there is a trend.

Wulf Princess forums, then you don't have to post, rant or rave out in front of those who don't care to read it! problem solved for everyone!

why haven't I seen you yet? smh..

[!VI!]

Originally Posted by Lolabrea01

Do what the rest of the bullies do pay 300+ every couple of months to host your own forum on here, add people so they can feel special and they will kiss your ass. This works for providers and pimps. If you watch carefully there is a trend.

Wulf Princess forums, then you don't have to post, rant or rave out in front of those who don't care to read it! problem solved for everyone!

wait .... nope read it four times and still don't quite understand the meaning

Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

So...last week the OP set off a shit storm between Sweet.Treat and Tara Evans...and now we've got Lilly and Kendall at odds.

Seems like we've got a pattern here...I'm just surprised we're this deep into it without points or bans yet.

Wulf has a unique way of promoting the Community.

I mean *private* for a reason lol, don't really have that option... and even if i did i wouldn't use it often, because i'm just saying what a lot of people are thinking

and i've recieved 13 points since returning 2 weeks ago, all in the last 24 hours lol

i didn't know something was against the rules and regulations because i swear i have seen it many times but w/e can't touche what we can't see

oh no the community is a great idea just there are too many dirt bags that tend to get away with *edited due to lack of tact* and honestly it's bs. I do take pride in knowing people seeing the real me and then actually seeing me have started seeing these. "gentleman" for who they are and taking it with a grain of salt


HONESTLY no one has to respond to this in a negative way, i asked a fairly basic question. my question is MOD's i didn't know cyberstalking was against TOS... so is that gender specific? because there are 3 people in this thread alone that have done nothing but put insulting and harassing remarks on a pretty regular basis ....

Originally Posted by OldLRRP

I'm curious as to where this is happening? Is it in the Welcome Wagon? I look at the pictures but not the comments. I'm either interested or not.

You have pages of positive reviews (100% like Kendall). Is there a relationship in how you are treated and reviews?

lol makes you wonder if the private tags didn't exist ... how many people would be banned lol

[DownForWhatever]

Originally Posted by Lolabrea01

Do what the rest of the bullies do pay 300+ every couple of months to host your own forum on here, add people so they can feel special and they will kiss your ass. This works for providers and pimps. If you watch carefully there is a trend.

Wulf Princess forums, then you don't have to post, rant or rave out in front of those who don't care to read it! problem solved for everyone!

Suggested Title: The Wulf's Lair