Question of the day fake a "O" or have a real "O" during sessions?

[3daygetaway]

They say it has to do with a married woman's diet...there is an ingredient in wedding cake that kills their sex drive!

[Austins1hobby]

lmfao

[bearf15amc]

Originally Posted by Britttany_love

So a question for you and other hobbyist... Do you book a session to get the provider off or do you book so you can get off?

Only reason I see the ladies... It doesn't always happen but goal none the less. Mechanical, no chemistry or just in it for the money normally means no repeat customer. I may be the short fall but that is not as relevant. It's the attempt to enjoy mutually that drives me. My most memorable events were the unexpected enjoyment from my partner.

[Fratelli]

Originally Posted by Britttany_love

So a question for you and other hobbyist... Do you book a session to get the provider off or do you book so you can get off?

I book in hopes of having a great sexual experience. For me, great sexual experiences are all about mutual pleasure. But I've heard it enough times to believe that a woman doesn't necessarily have to orgasm in order to enjoy the experience. Still, I'm very pleased when it happens.

[Austins1hobby]

Ladies usually put 2cents in all the time but when something that guys would like to know comes up it gets silent?

[Secret_Amore]

Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

A lot changes when you get married.

I have a great story about a co-worker. This guy was dating 2-3 girls at once and liked them all because each had their own little benefit. They all were pretty equal in the bedroom (not at the same time) until one asked if he wanted to try anal! HELL yea was his response she allowed greek she allowed CIM and she started to swallow. Now he of course decided she was the one and married her and guess what happen?

After they got married the BJ's to CIM ended lol now it's BJ's till she wants to stop. The greek was never ever seen or done. They only do mish, cg, and the occasional K9. Sad sad sad. I laughed so hard when he told me this.

T_T I don't understand why people change when they get married...I mean with divorce rates so high you would think you'd try and do everything you can to keep the person from wanting to leave you. I dunno maybe that's my own insecurities.

now for something more on topic I personally hate it (too strong a word) when I'm with a guy and I ask him what turns him on and he says something like making a girl "O" I just wanna roll my eyes and go God damnit. Now i feel pressured (doesn't matter if that was the intent) to "O" or I've let you down. because if I don't "O" with you then I didn't give you the sexual experience you were looking for, which means I'm not worth the money you spent. >_>
besides I am more of a you have to seduce my mind kinda girl. you can you can kiss me, suck, fondle, lick my boobs, spank my ass, throw me on the bed and give it to me all you want. and I'll have a great time but have you ever read or listened to a good book with a steamy hot sex scene that made you go Damn! :O or watch your favorite porn scene that makes you cum.
if you don't trigger the sexual arousal in my mind, the body won't follow.
arouse the mind, arouse the body.

Originally Posted by Fratelli

I book in hopes of having a great sexual experience. For me, great sexual experiences are all about mutual pleasure. But I've heard it enough times to believe that a woman doesn't necessarily have to orgasm in order to enjoy the experience. Still, I'm very pleased when it happens.

I dunno if it just me but that "o" yea, it feels good, but it's just a moment and then it's gone and you move one. it's not like a woman's "O" last an entire week on cloud nine. I've had make out sessions that have had a longer lasting euphoric feeling. guys should stop making out this giving a woman an Orgasm to be the ultimate thing. instead give her great sexual experience that she'll remember and crave later. I've had great sex that I've craved later that didn't involve having an "O".

I say fuck the "O!" I just want great sex! >:O

besides, while you guys are putting the female "O" on some magical pedestal for the ultimate achievement have anyone ever bothered to ask the girl if she wants you to make her cum??? Hmmm? no.

unlike guys I'm not chasing the "O" feeling I'm chasing the great sex I'll crave later when I'm horny and thinking of all the things you did to me feeling.

anyways that's just my uh....input
how's that for blunt? I don't want a fucking orgasm, I just want great sex.

I hope this fixation with the female "O" isn't based around the idea that if you get a provider to "O" with you then it was somehow more authentic? not just the "illusion" of passion, but genuine passion....