Routine in Sex - Providing the New ~ Or New Provider?

[guest011409-2]

I like it when I get to see a guy multiple times because we learn to trust each other and open up to new things.

I like that I get to know the guy and they get to know more about me...I guess it's like any relationship. The more you see someone the more they get to know. I'm still careful about what I tell people, but talking about general interests.

But in return visits, I try new outfits, a little role play, toys, and better kissing (which just comes with knowing someone.)

[Kelly TNT]

Alright, I am seriously crushing on you guys!!!! I love hearing that you enjoy the connection with a lady. It makes me Sooooo happy knowing that swinging from the chandelier isn't what keeps you coming back. What a turn on that is for me! The connection, comfortability-not the chandelier swinging. (Well??....Nah, no. The first one)

I do like it when someone asks to try something that they've heard about. Or that they saw in a movie...
It can be something small like...asking me to wear my hair in a ponytail, or something a bit adventurous, like them trying a Double for the first time.
Mixing even the tiniest thing up...like someone mentioned...
Telling your guy that you'd like to try this new position, toy, outfit, music, hairstyle, shower together, or whatever..the Next time you see him! That in itself sounds exciting. Ha! I like it.

Have said All that. I have tried the showering "Together" thing with someone I've become close to. I see him on a regular basis. And one of the things I love the most is the Before or After shower together.
We are playful, silly and sometimes a little naughty. (Ahem) But, it's really more about the connection we have. It's nice. It always leaves me feeling good. He puts a smile on my face, and leaves me looking forward to seeing him again soon.


Thanks everyone.


~Kelly TNT

[CoHorn]

You mean there is more than one position?
I need to get out more

[AcidTripp]

Although I am new to the hobby I must say that if you are able to connect with a provider then I think the sex will never get routine. The connection alone will provide something to desire and you feel comfortable enough to try the most tantalizing of things. That is why I always look for that extra GFE++ type service. For me sometimes the Foreplay is more exciting then the actual deed. Although I am not complaining about the deed itself.

[piquant2009]

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml

[CSI]

Good site, piquant. Too bad they don't include positions with liberator gear. Even the wedge and ramp are great fun and change up the good loving. Right Kelly?

http://www.liberator.com/eng/product...mp-combo/10023

CSI

Originally Posted by piquant2009

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml

[berkleigh]

Kelly - Thank you - Great Thread!

You have given me some new ideas!

[Chainsaw Anthropologist]

Originally Posted by TinMan

Two words: hand puppets.

There is a Kamasutra "app" available free for the iPhone that uses flexible puppets to depict various positions.

[Shelby Lynn]

Good one Kelly!!! Things that make you go hummm.....