Young Hobbyists

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

I know that may not be exactly what you were trying to convey, but what I gathered from this piece of your quote was the actual intercourse part of your sessions you would prefer to be catetered to short stamina and premature one shot one kill ejaculators; but a through GFE/PSE sex romp is scoffed at. Wow.

I guess when booking im figuring the top notch ladys I seek wont have any issues like those at all, figured they would overwhelm me service wise.

It's not a matter of less work. Trust me. These guys make us very, very sore!

Originally Posted by gimme_that

The impression factor is to feed their own messed up egos Im sure. No dispute their thats messed up reasoning.

Have you ever thought maybe sexually, ur other younger demographic of client might just not be a selfish lover (sexer) perhaps? If as a provider or civilian chick you are accustomed to guys coming fast upon insertion, encountering someone whos actually considerate enough to stave off ejaculation to enjoy the joyous splendor that is sex may be percieved to you preference wise as a bad thing. I can overstand your stance in that case.

Perhaps a few individuals try to last for this reason, but I have only once had a younger client who seemed to be interested in my orgasm and pleasure. I've also straight out asked two younger hobbyists how they lasted so long. They both said that they masturbated beforehand to make sure that they could enjoy me for as long as possible. I understand that logic, but I'd be crazy to see a guy again when he leaves me sittin' on an ice pack for the rest of the night. It's one thing to go on for 45 minutes with a slow, sensual rhythm, taking the time to enjoy each other. It's another to be grabbed at the hipbones and pounded nonstop until you can't bear the pain anymore.

[China Doll]

Podcastfan, here is something I said in a thread a while back. Hopefully this puts things into perspective.

"This is a great question! I am going to give you some reasons that apply to many providers, but I am not necessarily speaking for myself. I do not have an age requirement. Some of these things have applied to my experiences as well, though.
Younger clients:
- Expect to be able to pound a woman as hard, as long, and as many times as he wants
- Are more likely to be aggressive and inexperienced enough to accidentally hurt us
- Often expect a PSE from a girl who only advertises the GFE
- Ask for discounts and/or more time because they are “young and hot” (This is a fact!)
- Often verbally express the idea that we are or must feel lucky to be seeing them
- Feel the need to explain over and over that they’re not with us because they “can’t get some” on their own
- Often don’t know the rules of the game

It has been my personal experience that they tend to respect us less. Most of the younger men I have seen (most, not all), see me as a delicious piece of meat. Now, I most certainly am that very thing, but the older gents see that there is so much more that goes along with it! "

Then, later:

"I don't appreciate the "Wham, bam, thank you ma'am" attitude. Some ladies probably prefer that, now that I think of it, but I don't. When these clients ask if they can see me again, I have been known to be brutal in explaining exactly why that won't be happening. [shrugs] They have to learn somehow."

It really is too bad that a few people can ruin something for everybody. Here's the thread I was referring to, in case you are interested:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=44881

[SneakyCancer]

that would be nice to jackhammer a woman for 45 minutes, but those days are far and few between. plenty of alcohol and maybe..... i think it is all about perception youngster. even though old guys play games to....statistically it is the younger crew that tries to get away with crap, like smash and dash, name calling, rudeness, etc....

but ur right, the green is the same color no matter what age or race passes it over. take it in stride and show em that your mature for your age and you will do well. As long as the green comes with it.

[gimme_that]

Ok maybe Im a lil biased cause I have mostly been spoiled on first time meets via multihours and overnights. And most of those ladies eluded a sheer confidence in their abilities to overwhelm me sexually relations wise and mentally with ambiance. But its not a one-sided escapade either since I'm more BFE, otherwise their would be no incenitve besides money for her right?

Im somewhat very surprised by the responses here thus far intercourse wise given the amount of providers advertising overnight availiability which seems to be a new norm. I wonder what happens then when they are booked for an overnight,...do they hold hands, cuddle, massage, pillow talk,and sing kumbaya having sex only twice in 10 minute increments a piece.

Im sure ladies of a older demographic might have their reservations with a more active session. But there are a certain providers, usually with rave multi-hour reviews (some none) who can speak to the contrary. I do wish they might chime in. Im shocked and appualled. lol

[SlowHand49]

This is a very instructive thread . . . Interesting comments . . .

[charlestudor2005]

45 minutes!!! Damn!

I'd be lucky to pound more than 4.5 seconds. LOL

But, then, I was never much of an expert in bed (which is probly why I'm paying these days...in more ways than one).

[sonitus]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I enjoy all ages...as long as you have valid references......the younger ones give me a chance to play "Mrs Robinson"....lol!!!

Coo, coo, ca-choo... I look forward to one day being your slightly older, slightly larger Mr. Braddock.

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

45 minutes!!! Damn!

I'd be lucky to pound more than 4.5 seconds. LOL

Quality... not quantity. At least that's what I've convinced myself of.

[DallasRain]

woohooo sonitus--bring it one babe..I would love it!!!

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by RachaelBenedict

I think that older men are often a bit more emotionally mature, a little easier going, easier to please, a little less flakey...

I love newbies. They are just so cute.

[Alex Lieberman]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Have you ever thought maybe sexually, ur other younger demographic of client might just not be a selfish lover (sexer) perhaps? If as a provider or civilian chick you are accustomed to guys coming fast upon insertion, encountering someone whos actually considerate enough to stave off ejaculation to enjoy the joyous splendor that is sex may be percieved to you preference wise as a bad thing. I can overstand your stance in that case.

Don't get me wrong, I love extended sessions where variety is key and you get breaks from the rabbit treatment. But in my experience the younger crowd is too focused on the one act, over, and over, and over, and over.

And April, I've tried guidance. I have no patience for it. Sorry. I don't expect them to know everything when I see them, but between bruising their egos and taking my time up with teaching, I'd prefer they sort all that out with their therapist!!

kisses, Alex

[RachaelBenedict]

I have a dinner date minimal, do alot of cuddle-full overnights, and see men of all ages... so far, there has been no correlation with anything and a guy's age. I think maybe the under 35 set tends to have higher standards, but then alot of older guys do, too, so I can't make any generalizations there.

On overnights, it's just different. Regardless of the age, sometimes, I want more sex than the guy I'm with. Sometimes men over-state and over-think how long/many-times/etc. they can do the deed, and sometimes it's really about other things once the "edge" is taken off.

If a guy wants a goal oriented session, he will book a chick for one hour, regardless of how old he is. Maybe younger men are more physically fit and so can be more demanding, or maybe the types of younger men who book shorter sessions are different than the types of men who book longer sessions- I can't speak from the one-hour experience. I think many men are touch starved, and maybe mistake their needs for affection with their sex drives (since sex is a way to get touch).

The only correlation I can maybe make as far as younger guys go, is in my own head: with someone close to my own age, I easily get completely sucked into the BoyFriend Experience, and it often takes me longer to decompress from our Experience... but then, statistically, there are far fewer under 35 year old men participating, so that could also be just a random coincidence (like rolling snake-eyes) or the novelty factor. Maybe if only 10% or so were over 35, this discussion would be about "older men".

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Ok maybe Im a lil biased cause I have mostly been spoiled on first time meets via multihours and overnights. And most of those ladies eluded a sheer confidence in their abilities to overwhelm me sexually relations wise and mentally with ambiance. But its not a one-sided escapade either since I'm more BFE, otherwise their would be no incenitve besides money for her right?

Im somewhat very surprised by the responses here thus far intercourse wise given the amount of providers advertising overnight availiability which seems to be a new norm. I wonder what happens then when they are booked for an overnight,...do they hold hands, cuddle, massage, pillow talk,and sing kumbaya having sex only twice in 10 minute increments a piece.

Im sure ladies of a older demographic might have their reservations with a more active session. But there are a certain providers, usually with rave multi-hour reviews (some none) who can speak to the contrary. I do wish they might chime in. Im shocked and appualled. lol

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

45 minutes!!! Damn!

I'd be lucky to pound more than 4.5 seconds. LOL

I doubt a young un will go 45 minutes. Now the 4.5 seconds might feel like 45 minutes . . .

[DallasRain]

I love a good pounding...by young or old!!!{lol}woooohoooooo

[Alex Lieberman]

Originally Posted by China Doll

Podcastfan, here is something I said in a thread a while back. Hopefully this puts things into perspective.

"This is a great question! I am going to give you some reasons that apply to many providers, but I am not necessarily speaking for myself. I do not have an age requirement. Some of these things have applied to my experiences as well, though.
Younger clients:
- Expect to be able to pound a woman as hard, as long, and as many times as he wants
- Are more likely to be aggressive and inexperienced enough to accidentally hurt us
- Often expect a PSE from a girl who only advertises the GFE
- Ask for discounts and/or more time because they are “young and hot” (This is a fact!)
- Often verbally express the idea that we are or must feel lucky to be seeing them
- Feel the need to explain over and over that they’re not with us because they “can’t get some” on their own
- Often don’t know the rules of the game

It has been my personal experience that they tend to respect us less. Most of the younger men I have seen (most, not all), see me as a delicious piece of meat. Now, I most certainly am that very thing, but the older gents see that there is so much more that goes along with it! "

Then, later:

"I don't appreciate the "Wham, bam, thank you ma'am" attitude. Some ladies probably prefer that, now that I think of it, but I don't. When these clients ask if they can see me again, I have been known to be brutal in explaining exactly why that won't be happening. [shrugs] They have to learn somehow."

It really is too bad that a few people can ruin something for everybody. Here's the thread I was referring to, in case you are interested:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=44881

AMEN

[guest060911]

While I am not strictly opposed to seeing someone under 30 years old, I have found that I'm typically compatible with gentlemen who are older than me. I suppose if it were the right gentleman who's wise beyond his years (from extraordinary life experiences), confident in himself and able to hold an intelligent conversation, I might consider seeing him.