Allright, gents: your honest answers please!

[waverunner234]

I live for kisses

[cumalot]

This is a trick question right??

[dwl318]

like on fellow provider lover stated. hide the guns or make sure your burial policy is up to date.

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by alluringava

Here's an obvious question. If it's been posted before please forgive me.

Here's the questions. What would happen if your wife or SO found out you were hobbying and what would her response be?

If it happens to any of your present or past clients you'll just end up being their personnal therapist, lol.

[MasterBaiter1996]

Bobbit? Divorce no question, and take me for everything.lol

[Guest102513]

I think this question should be answered by a provider. What would you do
If you found out that your significant other was seeing a provider? My ex that was a
Provider would of kicked my assistance if she knew.

[offshoredrilling]

mmmmmm where is "you better not be paying her more"

[funagain2]

My SO would be disappointed and hurt first....then she would be mad as hell after she figured out that she was not at fault in some way.

I'm just horny...and I love beautiful women...that's all.

By the way AlluringAva---You're Hot !! When's your Indianapolis tour gonna be ?

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by Dr. Olney

I think this question should be answered by a provider. What would you do
If you found out that your significant other was seeing a provider? My ex that was a
Provider would of kicked my assistance if she knew.

Since I'm a provider myself, I didn't care if my SO's saw other girls. It's hypocritical of me to say " You can't see other girls but I can see other guys even if it's for money." But I've always been open-minded in general as a person, and I wouldn't mind if I WASN'T a provider either if he wanted to fool around once in a while and bring someone home for a threesome. I did that before I got into this business. That's one of the reasons why I got into providing, because I've always been fascinated with alternative lifestyles.

I think MOST MEN'S wives would be far more angry if the guy had a mistress in which he was really emotionally involved with. That implies he has feelings for her, even love, and with providers, it's just a sex thing. I think the 'payment' part ( even if he supports a mistress, I still think there's more emotions involved with her) may take away a lot of the emotional component, since most men technically pay girls to 'leave' in that sense, not 'stay'.

[Lovelyelle_01]

I can't speak on being a Provider in a relationship because I've never done so. But, as far as relationships in general, I agree with Ava on bringing in a Provider to play (been there, done that) and seeing a Provider vs. Mistress relationship. I would have loved for my ex to be faithful to me like I was to him. But, his cheating isn't what drove me away in the end. It was the fact that he wasn't just screwing other women. He was living completely double lives with each and every woman he got involved with while we were married. Even though he claimed his emotional involvement was only faked to get what he wanted from them (even admitting this to their faces when it ended in a three-way confrontation), the fact that he didn't eve have enough respect for me to do his dirt in a way that would at least keep me feeling safe and secure in our marriage is what led to my departure. I don't understand the concept of not being able to openly communicate about what we want/need/are lacking when I am committed and in love with someone, so I can't lie and say that I don't care if the person I'm with cheats or not because I DO care. I CAN, however, say that I don't care HOW you go about your dirt as long as I never come in contact with it and it doesn't have any affect at all on our life at home. Sometimes, ignorance really is bliss.

[bladtinzu]

First wife would have joined in with me.

Second wife.. Well that one only lasted six months so who knows. Waking up sober one morning and thinking "WTF did you do?) ended that one.

Third wife. She would have thrown a fit but wouldn't have left. She never knew where the money was hidden..

[Cpalmson]

I'd be dead or holding a sign asking for food.

[Laz]

Not a problem for me anymore but if I had hobbied when married, which I did not do, I think she might have considered divorce to easy. She might have wanted to stay married so that she could dedicate her life to making me miserable every day. She was good at that already so god knows what she would have done then.

[EmilyofHouston]

so noooooooooooooooot cooooool.

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by MasterBaiter1996

Bobbit? Divorce no question, and take me for everything.lol

Would it be safe to say marriage to you now is just a convienience. Or because of this hobby now an inconvienience.