Originally Posted by pmdelites
69er and all others,
no one is twisting your arm to go see any provider, no matter what her consistency or lack of in pricing is.
either go w/ what she lists [wherever you find it] or move on.
it really is that simple.
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Originally Posted by 69er
How do you get what I've said so twisted? I never stated that in any way who to see was not my choice. I do make my choices, and have found lots of fun to be had here in Dallas.
Anyway, I hope the ladies that need this info find it, and get some value. Don't feel accused if it doesn't pertain to you. If you think I'm wasting my time, why are you here wasting yours by telling me I'm wasting mine?
===>pmd: remember, i already said "and i just missed out on an incredible french lesson :^("
besides, i didnt say you were wasting your time. i didnt even say "wasting". i said ...
"any time spent attempting to figure out pricing rules is time that could better be spent in a deliteful consultation session."
As far as you telling me that I need to "go w/ what she lists or move on.", you do not get to make that choice. This board is here for the exchange of information. Nobody forced you to read this thread. If you don't like what I had to say, move on. It won't hurt my feelings!
I've seen ladies before who had crazy pricing structures, for the 1 hour time as that is all that made sense to me based on their rates. At the appointment I've pointed out their rate "issue". The two that I've done this with were happy that I brought it up, and changed their rates. I thought that posting this here might catch a couple more. If not, this is hardly the biggest waste of bandwidth on ECCIE.
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i apologize to you 69er and to the readers for taking you all on a prime example of why written communication is a poor substitute for face-to-face discussions....
while i do feel it's a good idea to put info out here for people to read and perhaps learn from, that's completely separate from the probability that people will actually seek it out and actually learn from it. some will, most wont. there are lots of examples on this board of people who were given the opportunity to learn yet either didnt take the opportunity or did but didnt learn it. that's life.
69er, i responded to your opinion [pointing it out so they will hopefully get it] cos i believed/thought it was not very realistic and/or probabilistic, given the desired audience.
69er, i responded to your comment "Having a bad day? If that's your attitude" cos i believed/thought you were assuming too much about dannie's thought process/mood/feelings. you could have made your point/asked a question without making that comment.
i read something, made a judgement about it, and wanted to state my point.
so, yes, i was responding to your thoughts, 69er, but wrt i wrote at the end and which you quoted, i really meant for anyone reading this thread, not explicitly you. [note that i wrote "
69er and all others"]
i apologize that i didnt write it more explicitly and clearly.
here are my revised statements / suggestions.
* no one is twisting ANYONE'S arm to go see any provider, no matter what her consistency or lack of in pricing is.
* EVERYONE decides for themselves either a) to go visit a woman for her listed fee [wherever one finds it] or b) to move on. [among other criteria]
however, i do disagree w/ your recent statement "If you don't like what I had to say, move on."
most times when i read something that i dont like, i do move on.
but sometimes, when i read something that according to my ideas, opinions, experience, etc. seems ... not appropriate or logical or reasonable or respectful, i comment on it.
sometimes to call someone on disrespectful behavior, sometimes to point out they're posting on old threads, sometimes to state my opinion, sometimes to call bullshit when i see it, sometimes to put forth a different viewpoint.
sure i could move on, but i felt i should comment on it and thus, posted my opinion. remember, you said an "exchange of information."
so, it's not you that i wrote about. i dont even know you except thru some of your posts.
it was the thought you put forth that i wrote about.
regardless, time to go get that french lesson, dont you think??
Now that shit is funny! I would love to see that! 
If that's your attitude, then almost every topic that could possibly come up, has been addressed. So, let us close down all the areas except for the review forums. No, I think the "Wipe your Ass" threads will never grow old!
