"He goes on a rant saying that he feels like he may need to reevaluate the appt. because he's paying a large amount of $$$ and the whole idea is to feel spoiled by me".......and the rest of this sentence should read During Your Visit!
" My good friends do it regardless of an impending appointment or not." exactly, rank hath its priveldge, within reason. If you see this lady for multiple hour visits often or weekly shorter visits every week for the last series of months or some such then yes, you can expect a bit of chit chat via text or phone.
"Outside of the session it is good business to have communication with the client. But there is a limit to anything." yes, and said conversation should be along the lines of "shall we have Indian food or Italian?" and "would you prefer to see a play or go dancing?". Or, a quick "can't wait to see you on Tues!".
"I would have some issues with this. I think having ongoing communication with a client should be reserved to the better regulars. If a lady were to have communication with all clients in some way or another, her time would like be easily exhausted." Exactly!
" Having said that, I believe the session time should start when both are in the bedroom, not the knock on the door, etc. and it's nice when the SP doesn't mention time's up until 5 minutes after the official session time has ended."
I'm afraid not. Let's say you took an hour visit. You wake through the door at 5p for a 5p visit. You then sit on the couch for pleasant chit chat and a glass of wine, let's say for 15 minutes. You then ajourn to the bedroom. You then play from 515 till 605. She then gently suggests that time is running out. You then take, let's underestimate, 5 min to finish activities. 5 min to dress. 5 min to shower. (and, that's building in a 2.5 min shower before and after so you are fresh for festivities and ready to leave in good condition). And, 5 min of "God, that was great!" chit chat on the way out the door. These are All Low estimates. She just Gave you a Minimum of a half hour off the clock on an hour donation, ie half again the time for the same donation.
There's reasons many providers have two hour minimums. I strongly reccomend you evaluate what amount of time you Truly intend to spend with the lady of your choice and donate accordingly.
"I've been the beneficiary of this system. Not all ladies do this, but it is a nice way to "watch the time." But it's not needed for me. I keep a clock next to the bed. I know what time she walked through the door, and I start winding things up at about 45 minutes. Both of us need time to get dressed and cleaned up. Unless she lingers (this is her initiative and generally no skin off my nose), she can be out the door by the 60th minute." Charles Tudor, you are a gentleman. Nice to meet you.
And, I bet your professional, friendly and gentlemanly attitude has been rewarded more than once with a lady who Chooses, as opposed to is Expected to, stay and enjoy one more glass of wine!
Kat
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