gwenetx fair is fair

[Fastcars1966]

Originally Posted by onedaddy

So basically you kiss and tell keep records
and you only have one review at last check your not well reviewed yet.with that attitude. You want be

Basic businesses 101 if all parties are not honest and open someone always loses now who will it be

You need to learn how to research a lady, she has many good reviews.

Gwen If you ever tour TN, I will let you meet me at my office if that's what it takes.

[causewaycommuter]

Screening goes both ways. The providers screen the guys to make sure they are safe & compatible and the guys screen the girls for the same reasons. Both the providers and the guys use different screening methods. Some may not agree with or like the screening methods, and in those cases it perfectly fine for either party to back out (as long as you don't ncns the other person). There are plenty of fish in the sea on both sides, so don't get all hung up and bent out of shape when you run into someone you don't see eye-to-eye with. Just keep your head up and eyes open, and move on.

[onedaddy]

Originally Posted by causewaycommuter

Screening goes both ways. The providers screen the guys to make sure they are safe & compatible and the guys screen the girls for the same reasons. Both the providers and the guys use different screening methods. Some may not agree with or like the screening methods, and in those cases it perfectly fine for either party to back out (as long as you don't ncns the other person). There are plenty of fish in the sea on both sides, so don't get all hung up and bent out of shape when you run into someone you don't see eye-to-eye with. Just keep your head up and eyes open, and move on.

Very well spoken thank you

[DallasRain]

+1!

[Bertrichard2000]

all i was tryig todo was wake up lafayette not start a bruhaha .

[heidilynnla]

Bigdaddy aka onedaddy is umm...well, he has issues. Look at his posting history. If you don't like a lady's screening methods, you don't have to see her. Chances are she WON'T see you anyway.

I rejected a guy's screening last week and he threatened to write a bad review of me. You should respect a lady who screens carefully because it ulimately keeps you and everyone here safer.

The best advice for newbies is to join p411.

[onedaddy]

Originally Posted by heidilynnla

Bigdaddy aka onedaddy is umm...well, he has issues. Look at his posting history. If you don't like a lady's screening methods, you don't have to see her. Chances are she WON'T see you anyway.

I rejected a guy's screening last week and he threatened to write a bad review of me. You should respect a lady who screens carefully because it ulimately keeps you and everyone here safer.

The best advice for newbies is to join p411.

Show your proof last time I checked bigdaddy was at pride port hudson national 6 ft under

[RichardNixon]

Looking at her web page, that IS quite a bit of personal info required.

She is a hottie and if guys are giving it up, then all the more power to her.

But when you demand enough info from a customer to actually pull a credit bureau on him--and you do--then I guess I'll just have to pass.

That's a shame, because I'd sure like to meet you when you're in Louisiana, but as Causeway said, if either party is uneasy with the method, just move on.

I guess I'll have to move on.

With a first and last name and a DOB, one can just about figure out how to pull a credit bureau, if you know what you are doing.

I was born in the dark, but I assure you, it wasn't last night.

[onedaddy]

Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

A provider can screen any way she desires, IMHO. I have to make the decision whether or not I am goning to see her or not. If she asks for info I am not comfortable giving I move on, simple.

I do not see a need to complain publicly, but that's just me. I had one lady insist on calling my place of employment to verify me - not gonna happen. I haev over 10 reviews on this site, I am a mod, i have more than 2 refs and that is all I am comfortable with releasing, that's it. If that is not enough for the provider, I tell her "No, I will not see you." Simple.

Do you have refs you can supply to her? Because I know people have had that problem where hobbyiest is regular of one lady but she gets upset when you see another lady (loss of income in her mind) and yes this does happen. So, maybe reluctant to give recent ref, idk?

Either way, I agree being honest and straightforward is the way to go, and if she still will not see you - so what! Plenty of other ladies here! I would tell her what I am willing to release and ask her for info I need, if she is unwilling to release - have a good day!

Well spoken understand thank you theirs really is not a right or wrong if both sides can't agree
all I've ever stated is don't ask of me what your not willing to do yourself

[SimplyGwen]

Originally Posted by RichardNixon

Looking at her web page, that IS quite a bit of personal info required.

She is a hottie and if guys are giving it up, then all the more power to her.

But when you demand enough info from a customer to actually pull a credit bureau on him--and you do--then I guess I'll just have to pass.

That's a shame, because I'd sure like to meet you when you're in Louisiana, but as Causeway said, if either party is uneasy with the method, just move on.

I guess I'll have to move on.

With a first and last name and a DOB, one can just about figure out how to pull a credit bureau, if you know what you are doing.

I was born in the dark, but I assure you, it wasn't last night.

I can't say that I've ever pulled anyone's credit report based on the information given for appointment screening. I'm smart enough to say that if that were my objective, I would probably come up with a much easier, less public way of stealing one's information to do so...

As for you, RichardNixon or any other guy cowering behind your computer, if you don't have the tenacity to contact me directly regarding screening, I can't do anything for you nor offer any alternatives. Oh, I believe the cliché you are looking for is, "I may have been born at night, but it wasn't last night."

As for the OP, if you want to blast me, at least spell my name right!

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by onedaddy

Well spoken understand thank you theirs really is not a right or wrong if both sides can't agree
all I've ever stated is don't ask of me what your not willing to do yourself

If you had done proper research you would have been aware of her screening criteria- but if you are not going to go with it just move on, because making a thread criticizing a providers screening is not going to cast a favorable light on you. Just move on.

[RichardNixon]

I can't say that I've ever pulled anyone's credit report based on the information given for appointment screening.

My, how very considerate of you.

I'm smart enough to say that if that were my objective, I would probably come up with a much easier, less public way of stealing one's information to do so...

Uh, once again ... did I SAY that was your objective? Let me elaborate on what I did say. A combination of an individual's first name, last name and ANY of the "big three"--ss number, DOB, or driver's license number--is enough information for informed individuals to pull credit bureaus. I'm not sure the average dawg here wants even the POTENTIAL of that happening, but hey, I could be wrong.

Now ... there are a lot of people that I do not necessarily think are bad folks that I won't give that information to. Those who are giving that information to you are ... let's just say, being a bit more rash than I care to be.

As for you, RichardNixon or any other guy cowering behind your computer,

Uh, Honey, I think you have your syntax mixed up. I assure you I'm not "cowering" behind my computer. What you call "cowardice" I call "prudence." Whether anyone else can discern the difference as far as giving their full name and date of birth to a provider over the computer ... well, I guess that depends on them.

Oh, I believe the cliché you are looking for is, "I may have been born at night, but it wasn't last night."

Thanks again for the proffered help, sweetie, but I assure you, the "cliche" I originally spouted was structured EXACTLY like I wanted it.


Now Gwen, my intention after my initial post was to simply do what others in this thread suggested: just, in so many words, say "have a nice day" and move on.

But hey, since you decided to reply in an apparent attempt to share your rapier-like wit, well, I guess I just had to respond.

But let's try it again, okay?

"Have a nice day."

[SimplyGwen]

Originally Posted by RichardNixon

My, how very considerate of you.



Uh, once again ... did I SAY that was your objective? Let me elaborate on what I did say. A combination of an individual's first name, last name and ANY of the "big three"--ss number, DOB, or driver's license number--is enough information for informed individuals to pull credit bureaus. I'm not sure the average dawg here wants even the POTENTIAL of that happening, but hey, I could be wrong.

Now ... there are a lot of people that I do not necessarily think are bad folks that I won't give that information to. Those who are giving that information to you are ... let's just say, being a bit more rash than I care to be.



Uh, Honey, I think you have your syntax mixed up. I assure you I'm not "cowering" behind my computer. What you call "cowardice" I call "prudence." Whether anyone else can discern the difference as far as giving their full name and date of birth to a provider over the computer ... well, I guess that depends on them.



Thanks again for the proffered help, sweetie, but I assure you, the "cliche" I originally spouted was structured EXACTLY like I wanted it.


Now Gwen, my intention after my initial post was to simply do what others in this thread suggested: just, in so many words, say "have a nice day" and move on.

But hey, since you decided to reply in an apparent attempt to share your rapier-like wit, well, I guess I just had to respond.

But let's try it again, okay?

"Have a nice day."

Feel better, "Sweetie"? LOL

You go find some more posts to reply to...I'm going to have a shower and go visit one of these guys who's credit report I just ran! lol

[Bertrichard2000]

hey can i feel out a credit app i may need more time lol i am looking forward to our visit even if you did not ask were i worked or were i am from what gives i had not problems with her screening . i juss i am just treating the ladies i have seen wright you have to under stand just be nice or go play alone

[SimplyGwen]

Originally Posted by Bertrichard2000

hey can i feel out a credit app i may need more time lol i am looking forward to our visit even if you did not ask were i worked or were i am from what gives i had not problems with her screening . i juss i am just treating the ladies i have seen wright you have to under stand just be nice or go play alone

No prob! You only need a FICO of 650 or more to see me... You pass!