Registering my wife as a Provider

[fawn]

If your wife really wants to become a provider tell her to pm me and I will tell her what she needs to do to get set up....

[gman44]

Originally Posted by Chevalier

Since you presumably share a computer, there are obvious concerns if you have Premium Access (since that would give her access to the Men's Lounge) or if she has access to the Powder Room (since that would give you access as well).

Not necessarily

I'm sure several people on use shared computers either at home or the library and you have to click on "don't remember password" and such

I've used a computer at the library before and have never accidentally posted from someone else's account

[Chevalier]

That's why I said "presumably.". But a married couple's computer is different from a library computer.

Maybe the staff/owners would trust their promise not to let the other access restricted areas. I don't know. But disclosure to the staff/owners is important; it's their decision -- not mine, not yours, and not unipac's -- whether to trust him and his wife, or whether to limit their access.

[lisa.lisa0302]

Do you want her to be a provider?

She should register herself. Its a matter of minutes, quick and easy. :-)

Maybe you want her UTR, that way she can control the volume she wants. I know you like it and you thinks its hot and a turn on. But once the reviews go flying up, will you two have time to be together and actually have sex with each other.

If she does provide, will she join P411?

Will she post in the welcome wagon?

Either, have fun with it :-)

Lisa

[unipac69]

We really appreciate everyones concerns. That is why I like the site so much. Most of the people in here actually care about others. Yes, we are both in agreement. That has always been a long standing agreement. If one does not want to do something then neither of us do.

We also understand the concern with her access and my access. That is why I said that we didnt want to break any rules or cause any trouble. We will probably not register her, but stay UTR as recommended.

Also, yes I can handle her being a provider and no I am not a pimp just her husband. If she decides its something she doesnt want to do anymore than that is ok, we both havea huge sexual drive and there is shortage of other activities we can partake in. We even go to the Lido sometimes.

We really do appreciate all of the sincere concerns and all of the helpful advice. I think I am one of the lucky guys in here, and she and I are always looking out for each other.

[Guest070413]

I knew about the hobby for a long time before I joined. When I finally did I had spent so much time considering it and learning about it that I was very sure I was ready to give it all a try first hand. If the idea turns her on, but you have to encourage her to give it a try or do things for her to help her along then in my opinion she may not be ready.

If no encouragement is needed then it would probably be a really good idea to take Fawn up on her offer of help. She would need to learn some basics for her safety. Not all money is good money. Learning to screen is very important for not only her safety, but for her continued enjoyment.

[fawn]

unipac69, this is just my opinion but this spells disaster in my book for any marriage.. .. (but there is always
an exception to the rule..) But if you both are that turned on by this, why don't you just book a provider to come and
play with y'all....Cause once you both cross that line, there is no turning back, she cant take it back baby, I just want you to understand that.. I am just saying you should think long and hard before she jumps into anything... I would love to meet with the both of you and just talk to you both and be your sounding board, the objective one that can throw things out there you probably haven't even thought about.. Yes I understand this is your decision but I wanted to give her my 2 cents.....
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[unipac69]

I have played in the hobby for several years UTR and she is very cool with it. She and I both are always seeking new sexual heights. We love going to the Lido in Dallas sometimes on couples night.

Her doing this is a mutual agreement. We have never forced or pushed the other to do anything we didnt want to do. If she decides that she doesnt like being a provider than ok. We are both equally into the sexual scene. Now that doesnt mean we do not have boundaries because we do. This is simply something she and I have talked about and she wants to do it.

If I can be ok with her being with other guys on a sexual bases and they pay nothing, why would I have an issue if she makes some money at it? If she enjoys it, then I enjoy it. When she no longer enjoys it then we stop and move on to something else, and she feels the same towards me. I have to admit, we are not what many in society would label an average couple.

As I have said before and will continue to do. Thank each of you again for your thoughts and guidance.

[flarestar]

ah Lido's it's been a while since i've been there. never really saw any hot couples the times i did go even on couple's night :/

[Guest100513-2]

Sounds like an ad to me, no pimpin I coed

[Guest010712-2]

Hobbying, like swinging, can work if everyone is honest and open.

I am just wondering why she doesn't setup things herself. Like the rest of us independent girls did when we started.

[unipac69]

She is setting things up her self. We already talked about it.

[grnhrn]

Unipac69. Could you let us know her provider name? Inquiring minds want to know. Thanks

[unipac69]

unipac69's wife Lisa Cox

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

sounds like fun