Negotiation ok or not

[PetrusMaximus]

Originally Posted by BlacksmithRay50

You sir are boring, you might as well grab a warm rag or tube sock, your favorite sex idol 80's poster and just stay your ass at home!

Haha, yes, the ideal nice boy.

Idealism is so cool.

[DFW_Ladies_Man]

I only negotiate with ladies who have it posted to "ask about my specials" but some still get the nerve to have an attitude because I asked. Also my regulars...i may say "Hey I have this much...can you see me"

Honestly I hate the recent price hikes because they go up, and never come down. I recently gave the dueces to a favorite of mine because she went up $100 extra an hour.

[BlacksmithRay50]

Seriously go read the top like 10 providers last 10 reviews, almost all of them have at least 2 or 3 comments of I miss her but her prices are to high now, I used to see her all the time til she hiked up her prices, she used to be affordable but not anymore. Maybe the girls don't pay attention to those comments but we do.
And for someone who used to spend 1200 to 1500 a month in the hobby, now I spend maybe 600 because it's just not as fun. I used to get 6 or 7 good visits a month in there and feel like I accomplished some shit. Now even if I spend the same I'm at 5, 4 with addons, fuck that. I got better odds dating and she's teachable. Gonna send me back to find sugar babies in Denny's is what they are gonna do. And before you say it can't be done, dare me, done that shit before, fuckin married her. Fun few years. I'm just sayin, we all, guys included better get our shit in check or we all might be scratching our heads wondering what happened. Us guys gonna be dumpster diving on BP and y'all girls gonna be wondering where we all went.

[rexdutchman]

I think again honest non-WK reviews , and Not see providers that are very high priced would cause the prices to self regulate , now what that point would be ?

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Haggle my donation I'll haggle with your session... Short me so I'll short you

[BlacksmithRay50]

When I negotiate, generally it means "will you offer a review special, will you offer a holiday special, will you offer a veteran discount?" I don't get crazy with it. Sometimes I only have 240 on me instead of 250, which I'll never understand why we do't work in 20's and not 10's anyway, atm's work off 20's people but that's a tangent for a different day. So I might have 240 and say can I see you for that? I don't say will you knock off 100 from 250 for the hell of it, or your fatter than you was 6 months ago so you need to drop your price 50 bucks. I ain't talking about haggling like that, but maybe I should. Maybe if a John said, you gained 20 lbs, I ain't paying 300 prices would drop in hurry....

But lets get real, too, if we're supposed to be paying for what we see in the pics, very very few should be getting asking rates. Those air brushed photo shopped 5 year old pics are false advertising. I know girls on here that have had the same pics up for over 5 years, and if you ask for an updated pic they won't send one, and they still want the high rates. And y'all shitty ass dudes get on here talking about pics are accurate. BULLSHIT. Ain't no chick look the exact same as her already photo shopped studio pics from 5 years ago. It's the hobby, it's the business, it's the name of the game, we all get that, but y'all taking this shit to far is all I'm saying.

[melannie_star]

Grandfathered Rates always apply..
Good times

[texassapper]

Everything and I mean Every-fucking-thing is negotiable. I recommend reading a book called Getting More by Stuart Diamond. I was a student of his at Wharton. Part of successfully negotiating anything relies on having established a relationship first. That can be tough. Much like another commenter mentioned, never on the first meeting. Pay what's asked. If you plan on seeing her again, feel free to negotiate lower price for guaranteed dates. Sky is the limit. You just need to understand her goals.

[Randall Creed]

I've never negotiated in the hobby. I don't know how. It's just a skill that I don't have. If your rate isn't something I can work with, I'll just say it (tactfully), or will simply look for more affordable avenues.

All I ask (mostly) is that women look hot, as their pictures suggest. The wonderful thing about the human body is that we can control the appearance of it. I don't want to hear shit about how 'big' anyone's bones are. All of our skeletons are virtually the exact same density. Some are longer than others. This is the only real difference.

If your body is the way you make money (i.e. model, pro athlete, ballet dancer, escort, etc), then it would behoove of you to take care of it. Imagine a fat, slimy, cheeseburger eating joker trying to play in the NBA. He would get ridiculed for not taking care of his body, and would be eventually cut from the team.

I'm not a fat shamer. I just don't GLORIFY being overweight, nor expect to make top dollar while ignoring my appearance, or how others who may view my appearance as an attribute based on whether or not to see me. Oh, btw, it's HEALTHIER to shed excessive fat.

I respect you ladies for what you do. I just want you to look the part for the money you ask for. No one else makes hundreds of dollars an hour, except doctors, CEO's, actors, musicians, politicians, pro athletes, and a couple others I might be forgetting. Us other jokers have to make money the old fashioned way, a few bucks an hour at a time, before taxes.

Most of you claim to be low volume, which [typically] means no more than a couple appointments a day. Ok, what are you doing during the other 10 hours of daylight. Every major city has gyms that are now open 24/7, or close to it. Excuses are futile.

[Gentlemen Rendezvous]

I don't negotiate, but I will make a proposal if my desires are not exactly on the menu, such as 3 hour dinner date or ball game before BCD

[rexdutchman]

Think the point is if the price is to high for pic/services and providers aren't getting the business coming in , don't rise the price more so one person is paying rent / car , lower the cost so business with increase.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Short me so I'll short you

Kind of hard to short my 1.3" of dangling death.

Originally Posted by melannie_star

Grandfathered Rates always apply..
Good times

Is that for all grandpas?

[~Ze~]

If your attitude upfront is nickle and dime and hard to please... I sure as shit wouldn't schedule with your or ever THINK about discussing discounts etc.

Yeah, I would post your needy/demanding bullshit on a blacklist site. Luckily, you haven't tried that shit with me. Go ahead... double dog dare ya. Blame me for your lack of pussy if ya want. *snicker*

Give me the "boring but ideal" PetrusMaximus over the bored with adventure Blacksmith any day.

Guys.. THIS is why it is super important to fill out your P411 profile or compose a note telling the lady what you are into. Find a lady in the price point you like, then let her know what you are looking for and just leave it to her to say if you are a match or not. Don't ask her to itemize.

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by BlacksmithRay50

You sir are boring, you might as well grab a warm rag or tube sock, your favorite sex idol 80's poster and just stay your ass at home!

He sounds more like someone than can afford the price of admission. Maybe your budget has taken a hit but I make more every year and would never think of negotiating. Sounds like it's time you surf BP and take your chances or not see providers here as often but actually enjoy appointments versus seeing whoever has the lowest price.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Haggle my donation I'll haggle with your session... Short me so I'll short you

Keep that up and get ready to flip them burgers or season up them curly fries lol

I say short me, I go elsewhere....simple