one more note on this survery before i head out on vacation.
a couple of folks have commented to me that posting lists like this [or the top faves for a woman as 1Janessa discussed] slights people whose name doesnt show up on the list. one woman even pm'd me and said something like "i've got lots of reviews on eccie and my name is not on your list" [emphasis mine]. first of all, it's not my list. second of all, does that matter?? [and, is anyone complaining that their nipples are not included in the "who has the prettiest nipples" thread??]
remember, this is a very limited and in no way controlled polling of some guys who sit around the pond and shoot the breeze.
so, to think that this list has any major importance or impact or significance is misguided and shortsighted, in my opinion. it's not much different from lists like "top 5 hairdressers on cedar springs" or "top 10 cosmetic dermatologists in park cities" or "top 5 hamburgers in dallas" or "top 100 movies of all time". they are all SUBJECTIVE!!!
one major difference is that our kinds of lists involve people, not faceless corporations or businesses.
so, yes, someone may, repeat MAY, get slighted by not being on someone's list. prolly cos we generally like to be recognized for being good, nice, sexy, rich, athletic, funny, whatever.
but, and this is strictly my opinion, not that of the guys who answered the question, nor the guy who compiled the results, nor anyone else....
if you get slighted AND/OR upset by not being on a list of "faves", then i suggest you look within yourself and ask yourself "self, why are i letting a cockamamie list affect me so?" your answer may tell you a lot about yourself. start your own list, if you need to.
so, as you spend your lifetime here on earth, dont sweat the small stuff. and most of it is small stuff [think about the indonesians, the chinese miners, the japanese near sendai, the libyans, the cote d'ivorie-ans, etc.]
amplify love
dissipate hate
(found address labels w/ that thought at the World Trade Center site on Sep 11, 2002]
[and that applies to positive energy and negative energy, respectively]
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