Proper ediquitte, when to write a review

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by ElleW

It sure has, so far down even Next is part of the male lesbian club, he joined about a week or so ago.

What worries me is that I've been identified as a male lesbian by someone who surrounds herself with male lesbians.

I need to bang out an upstate look-at-me hook stat, before I start questioning myself.

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

What worries me is that I've been identified as a male lesbian by someone who surrounds herself with male lesbians.

I need to bang out an upstate look-at-me hook stat, before I start questioning myself.

What should worry you is that you're worried about that...

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by ElleW

What should worry you is that you're worried about that...

If I had never heard of or completely misunderstood the concept of "context" it probably would.

How's the website going?

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

If I had never heard of or completely misunderstood the concept of "context" it probably would.

How's the website going?

My websites are just lovely, thinking of building another one so I can retire early.

[Next Best Thing]

I know the feeling.

The one regret I have professionally is that I never got the privilege of having physically repulsive members of the opposite sex pay me to fuck them.

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

I know the feeling.

The one regret I have professionally is that I never got the privilege of having physically repulsive members of the opposite sex pay me to fuck them.

I was talking general retirement. LOL. You already know this is not my only job.

Also while many fellas are not my cup of tea personally I dont find them repulsive in any way. A nice man will trump looks any day.

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by ElleW

A nice man will trump looks any day.

a line only a cuck ...would buy

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by ElleW

I was talking general retirement. LOL. You already know this is not my only job.

Also while many fellas are not my cup of tea personally I dont find them repulsive in any way. A nice man will trump looks any day.

Funny but I seem to remember you telling me that women are visual creatures.

I understand what you're saying about nice people though. I prefer them as well. Just not when I'm trying to become aroused and bang out a female.

I also agree that mid-forties is definitely too late in the game to not be thinking about retirement.

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Funny but I seem to remember you telling me that women are visual creatures.

I understand what you're saying sabout nice people though. I prefer them as well. Just not when I'm trying to become aroused and bang out a female.

I also agree that mid-forties is definitely too late in the game to not be thinking about retirement.

I said people are visual, not just women. And when it comes to people, visuals only go so far and even you know this.

Someone who is nice makes them better looking just like those that are hot but nasty makes them look ugly. Its human nature.

Plasi, how clueless you are with that comment. LOL



Sorry OP, derailed this thread.

[Carlos Danger]

Proper ediquitte says put an alert on her ass. Way better exposure higher on the page, and more red ink to help us understand her complexities. Whew

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by ElleW

I said people are visual, not just women. And when it comes to people, visuals only go so far and even you know this.

Someone who is nice makes them better looking just like those that are hot but nasty makes them look ugly. Its human nature.

Plasi, how clueless you are with that comment. LOL



Sorry OP, derailed this thread.

When "it comes to people". Very broad stroke there Elle.

Personally I can't be fooled into thinking fat ugly women are sexually attractive no matter how nice and sweet they are. I work with several nice, sweet, intelligent women who are nearly as dog-ugly as the typical upstate NY hook. I enjoy their company and their conversation but wouldn't fuck them under any circumstances except (possibly) if there were no such thing as internet porn or media in general.

Go Giants.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

I mean really unless the provider has no review policy then ... write it.
I feel like if a client is gonna do one he's gonna do it.
Not that complicated to me.
I don't use someone's reviews to verify identity....mainly to get a feel for compatibility to a degree (like if I see he highly regards some type service/fetish I don't do or he has a penchant for seeing women who look nothing like me etc).
And in general if you're a gent esp someone whose already a reviewer benefiting off of the info from the contributions of others (their reviews) well imo you should be giving back as well.

Originally Posted by lovesbooty

So who is responsible for when a review should be written? Is the burden on the John to ask if it is OK to write a review or the provider to specify that they do not want a review written?

My take is that the burden is on the provider to specify they do not want a review written and I have had some in the past specify that. Does it change anything if the provider uses your past reviews as a way of verifying your identity? They know you do reviews so does the burden fall more on their shoulders at that point?

What is everyone else's take on the issue.

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

The GENTLEMAN thing is to ask the provider if she would like a review...

You PAID for time..rolls eyes services....you didn't pay to write about all the illegal activities that happen...

Maybe she wants to stay low key, maybe she has an asshole stalking her posts, her reviews..etc.

Maybe she gave you a service or extra time and you go blabbing all about it...and every guy thinks he is entitled to the special treatment..

Totally agree with you!! I prefer to be asked if I would or would not like a review and if something happens as far as cash, time or service that is not the norm it's best to ask the provider what she would like posted or included.. esp when reviewing a vp..
Yes the client is paying for our time but it's common courtesy to ask when it comes to a review.. imo

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by KaylaRyder

Totally agree with you!! I prefer to be asked if I would or would not like a review and if something happens as far as cash, time or service that is not the norm it's best to ask the provider what she would like posted or included.. esp when reviewing a vp..
Yes the client is paying for our time but it's common courtesy to ask when it comes to a review.. imo

But like why.

[Gotyour6]

I write it as I am fucking her.
That way I dont miss anything in the review.

Kind of hard to hide it from her but I try and see whores with long hair.