..An open letter to the ladies....

[Sternomancer]

Originally Posted by Dagney D.E.W.

The only reason to use that against them is if you are raped, beat up or killed (so the cops can find them) during the appt.

Great post, but the part above is a bit sensationalist and fear mongering.

[Sir Hardin Thicke]

Originally Posted by Sternomancer

Great post, but the part above is a bit sensationalist and fear mongering.

Imagine if that information above is used for revenge?

[VictoriaLyn]

Originally Posted by Sternomancer

Great post, but the part above is a bit sensationalist and fear mongering.

Why is that?Us ladies have to deal with that kinda of danger more then we let you gents know.........

[knotty man]

Originally Posted by Sternomancer

Great post, but the part above is a bit sensationalist and fear mongering.

i wouldnt say that. theres a recent post in the dallas alerts that can show the real danger of providing and why screening is so important, esp. why info should be kept atleast till tha 1st date is over. the pic is very graphic and she is ok now. i wont give out her name but you can go to the dallas alerts and see for yourself. and ,before any of you give out your opinions of this lady. there is NO EXCUSE for doing this to a lady. i value my privacy, but i dont place it above any lady's safety JMO.

[Likinikki]

Wow, I am speechless! I'm seeing an end to an era as you are a true Legend! I've always had so much respect and affinity for you...you are truly a CLASS ACT and I value your thoughts and appreciate your insight. Thank you for gracing us with your magnificent aura and professionalism through all these years...you will be sorely missed, my friend! Much luck and happiness always!

[Monk Rasputin]

Dagny dear, you are a class act, a true Austin Adorable. I have enjoyed the many times we've been together. You always knew how to put a smile on my face. Thanks for all of it.

Godspeed.

Monk

[Carl]

I'll miss you, sugarbritches.

[maxieryan]

Now who will I call to help me with screening info?????????? Boo Hoo, I'm all alone!

You will be sorely missed but I promise to keep in touch.

[Dagny D.E.W.]

the next installment: oh no face pics LOL


I recommend no face pics. Now there are some (a few, very lucky few) who can show their face, they have families and friends who all know what they do. We are all independents and can make our decisions as to how we D.E.W. our business…. But think… if you don’t want the family, your friends to know what you do, maybe D.E.W not have a face pic.

D.E.W. you know what you will be doing in 20 years? That you won’t want to run for politics, get married… who knows what? Please no face pics. There are many who have been stalked etc. and they never met those guys but the guys know who they are because their face pic is there on the escort site net. You can DENY if your face isn’t there. Now I will admit that I gave this advice to a lovely lady who has her ducks in a row, all fam & friends know… she can show her face with no problems. But not all of us have that advantage. Most want to keep it from someone in our lives.

On the flip side I have heard many, many stories of ladies who have had problems and are pulling their face pics from everywhere (do you remember everywhere you posted an ad and pictures?). Maybe you can, after screening, send a face pic but remember that guy can post that pic everywhere HE thinks is fun.

D.E.W. not let any hobbyist or provider have access to your computer and log-in codes. EVER!!!! NO ONE!!! EVER! Read that again. Some are computer literate and can take your strokes and later have access to your code/pass to secret locations and either read or copy tons of info… bad idea. Keep your computer at home, private from everyone! It’s safer that way.

On the same theme, D.EW. NOT let a hobbyist or any providers know your real name, your personal info, your life…. Many times those gals have trusted someone & have been outed to the family, friends, caused trouble in one way or the other. Be safe, don’t tell them who you are, don’t ask who the other providers are…. It’s Safer to not know!
Be friendly without being PERSONAL.

[KlassyKelliAnn]

I recently have hung up my hat as well. I will miss many of you all!

Wishing you a wonderful future in all your chosen endeavors!!!!

It was nice knowing you!!!!!


KKA


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[1kewlkat]

Dagny, I wish you the best in all your future endeavors may you find pleasure in whatever activities you pursue.

I can agree with most everything stated in your list.

[Nightcrawler29]

Hey Dagny, I never met you, and I wish I had, but thanks for your honesty, and good luck on whatever you decide to do in the future. I do totally agree with what you said, and in regards to providers showing faces, we hobbyists would definitely like to see faces, but some things have to be left to our imagination and curiosity as well. You never know where those pictures might end up, or what you will do in the future that could put you in a position where you would have to explain yourself.

[Guest041611]

Oh Dagney say it isn't so! Awesome thread though.

[Yssup Rider]

When is the actual date of departure?