1000's visit here daily and are well balanced enjoying what ECCIE offers. What seperates you from them? A few of you are pretty pathetic. Why do sell your soul in the pursuit of a whore's affection when it can so easily be purchased for a few bucks?

[Observing]

Originally Posted by Whispers

For 15 years I've posted and participated on this and similar boards across the country and because of my feelings in regards to what a whore's place is in a man's life I get labeled a woman hater or misogynist. It's a certain subset of the community though that gets vocal about it and in reality they are the ones with a problem.

To me a whore is simply a whore. The time spent with one is a transaction and the money spent relieves me of any and all responsibility for the physical or mental well being of that whore when I walk out the door. I know I am getting exactly what I am paying for. Nothing more or less provided I did my homework.

I've attended hundreds of socials, spent nights and weekends with whores and had a couple travel with me over the years for an extended period of time.

Constant socialization with and/or close proximity with whores has led to more than one relationship of sorts.

But I have never once fallen in love with or forgot for even a moment that they are whores. That I am never taking them around my real friends. I am never taking them around my family.

Here on the boards since almost my first day back in 2000 I have kept whores in the same place. Although I have met and reviewed hundreds over the years I have always maintained the same attitude. Whether a woman was an escort or a stripper, if she accepted my cash in exchange for a sexual act she was a whore and could never be anything more to me.

As controversial as that is for some to accept it has kept this all in balance for me over the years. I do not "lose myself" to championing some whore's cause.

Most importantly, remaining honest to myself and my views has never once gotten in the way of meeting people, male as well as female, from this and similar communities and building lasting relationships with them over the years.

There are men and women I've met at luncheons, socials and private parties over the last 15 years that I've come to know. Some I see regularly when I go out and hit the clubs..... A few are people I probably have lunch or dinner with a couple of times a month.... Others I might chat with several times a week.... Some a few times a year..... Every once in a while some guy from Houston is traveling here on business and reaches out for some information or to get together for a drink.... and we catch up after not talking for a couple of years....

As I said... lasting friends.....

227 IRL names and phone numbers in my phone at the moment.

I know that is something many of you long for in the passion and emotion that you put into some of what you share here. Yet you are not finding it and there are those of us here that have it and the idea of us having it and you not infuriates you to the point of trying to prove in some way that it is us that are wrong in the way we approach it..

So...... What makes me and some like me different? In my mind it's a good personal life without a shortage of relationships with members of the opposite sex and a healthy understanding of why whores and these communities appeal to me.

Really guys...... Some of you really are clueless as to the needs you have that drive you.

Everyday 1000s of men log onto ECCIE, research whores, make selections and go see them..... Many of them read more than just that in other forums...... A few choose to participate outside of the sexual act by posting... Some go to socials as well to meet prospective whores..... Many write reviews, hang out in the locker room, high five each other in a normal and healthy male banter.....

But within the subset of guys that actually post here, which I believe is very very small in comparison to the numbers seeing whores every day, are guys that go to those socials for other reasons..... guys that participate here for other reasons.....

Those are the guys that get overly involved in this whole thing..... Guys that get overly involved emotionally here on the board IMO have lost their way and seeing whores has become a replacement for something essential in their lives that they are clueless as to how to find and/or maintain.

I think its very very sad that so many of you lack a satisfying life and are lead down a path where here, on an anonymous website, you seek to please the whores and gain their admiration and develop relationships with them that are outside the "norm" for most.

For the overwhelming majority of men prostitutes appeal to them because after payment is made, she is experienced as completely devoted to the him -- to his pleasure, his satisfaction, his care, his happiness. A guy does not have to please a whore. You don't have to make her happy or worry about her emotional needs or demands. You can give or take without the burden of reciprocity. You can be entirely selfish. You can be especially aggressive or especially passive, and not only will the whore not get upset, she will act aroused. You are not responsible for her in any way. You paid and for that time she is entirely focused on you. You are the center of her world. Naturally, these interactions are scripted. The whore is acting. But it doesn't matter. For men who like whores the illusion of passion is enough.

I think that description applies fairly to the thousands of men logging on here ever day, fucking whores every day and returning to their lives...... I know it describes me.

I think men in relationships can have sexual needs unfulfilled in those relationships and manage their sexual needs or needs for attention from a whore without ever crossing over into areas the transaction was never meant to take them.

But for many of you here that post with passion over the way a whore should be treated here on the board or how we have a responsibility to not share negative things that might affect their business I think you are seeing them for a different reason...... I don't believe you actually have a stable emotional relationship with a member of the opposite sex in your real life that is fulfilling to you.

You may have come here for the sex but what you also found here are women that IN YOUR MIND need a big strong man to protect them. You have no one to care for in the real world so here you can nourish your needs to have someone to "take care of". You feel an obligation to make a woman happy, to please her, to become her hero.

With many of you those beliefs are out of control. You were probably raised to believe that women were helpless, unhappy and dissatisfied with what they have in life and are incapable of defending themselves. You confuse a whore conducting a business for a lady IRL that you are missing a connection with. You probably feel guilty in any real relationship and don't believe you deserve much without giving a lot and pay way too much to get what you need if and when you find it. You compromise yourself as a man in a never ending display of actions trying to appeal to those "needs" you think they have. Your beliefs are far more chauvinistic and belittling of a woman then mine.

I don't believe in real life women find pansy asses like you appealing but you get the illusion from the whore that knows her financial well being is tied you believing whatever it is you want to. Especially here in CoEd.

The young, attractive, fresh, ever changing pool of whores never post in CoEd because their ONLY real need, cash, is met when they post in the Welcome Wagon and run ads by the 1000s of well balanced guys here to get laid.

The ones past their prime years or lacking in desirability due to weight or appearance that DO post here regularly and troll the ISOs work you and cater to that need and create the atmosphere that leads away from accurate information and into much confusion for many. They will always tell you what you want to hear. You are not only paying for it but YOU have a need to "matter" that most others do not and they can turn that need into opportunity better than the young ones that don't know it or need the hassle of it.

I don't think you ever really see a whore in a real light. I have many whores as friends. They understand my use of the word and consider me well balanced. I understand them as well.

Those here that thrive on catering to the emotional needs of you pansy asses will always say and post what they need to here in order to satisfy what it is some of you need in hopes of garnering a session from you.

I don't expect any of you to all of a sudden do a 180 and grow a set and put this place and these whores in the proper prospective in your lives. Maybe one or two might be able to have an honest exchange on the issue but taking a look at yourselves in the mirror and addressing how pathetic you really are both in your personal lives as well as your interaction here with the whores as well as other men is probably nothing you can face.

I stopped reading at this line here:

"But I have never once fallen in love with or forgot for even a moment that they are whores. That I am never taking them around my real friends. I am never taking them around my family."

Straight up,right here right NOW.
What "label","name","category" do you put on the current hawt young thing that you are with now(supposedly).
You know,the one you have openly bragged on this board right here that is bait for other fine young pussy for your supposed hedonistic bacchanals.

[Whispers]

Which one?

[God's Gift]

Oh good. Thanks Observing, for posting the whole blowhard post again. That'll take up most of page 2 on this thread. Sweet.

[God's Gift]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Which one?

Touche, Stud.

[Miss Valentina]

In the minds of the rich, white, influential men in the dusk of their lives are still stuck on pre-k-level binarism who have created this inherently racist, patrimonial capitalism, ALL women are reduced to what y'all perceive is the value of our pussies. Doesn't matter if we're to be wives, daughters, prudes or hookers . Some hookers are here because frankly there is little else they can do and some of us bitches understand and reject all of these tedious outdated social workings and cut through the bullshit and commoditized the pussy.

It's a woman's fault if she's used for sex, her fault if she withholds it, and a woman's fault if she refuses to be used. An Ambitchous little tart like me understood this early and decided if that was the case might as well make that $$$. But most everyone here knows by now I'm the kind of little slopabotomous who likes to make a lot of $$$ in my real world business as well. It's a goal I set for myself because I like earning a dynamic and self-supporting portfolio.

If a man has such a poor view of female sexuality that he discounts the humanity of sex workers in this late-capitalist hellscape, (which the chauvinists created and then also created the hypocritical double standard they expect mindless sheep brains to conform to) consider two things: Successful survivors of this bullshit leverage all assets creatively and ruthlessly. And,
You fucking cowboys never needed the approval and blessings from people to make money and neither do I.

Dick and $$$ is super abundant. Male approval is not hard currency. Dudes get laid and I get paid. It's a one of the most exciting fungible exchanges.

I know Whispers gets this. He's a very successful businessman. He just likes getting twats twisted.

[Observing]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Which one?

pros·ti·tute
ˈprästəˌt(y)o͞ot/Submit
noun
1.
a person, typically a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment.
synonyms: call girl, whore; More
a person who misuses their talents or who sacrifices their self-respect for the sake of personal or financial gain.
"careerist political prostitutes"
verb
verb: prostitute; 3rd person present: prostitutes; past tense: prostituted; past participle: prostituted; gerund or present participle: prostituting
1.
offer (someone, typically a woman) for sexual activity in exchange for payment.
"although she was paid $15 to join a man at his table, she never prostituted herself"

[justabloke]

I nominate this for the single most patronising post on Eccie. Even by your own standards Whispers, this one is something special. I wonder if there is a single person that you managed not to insult?

[Observing]

Originally Posted by God's Gift

Oh good. Thanks Observing, for posting the whole blowhard post again. That'll take up most of page 2 on this thread. Sweet.

My bad.
You are correct and I'll do a better job.
Just think,if his long winded ramblings were printed on toilet paper rolls,we could wipe our asses with them......

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by justabloke

I nominate this for the single most patronising post on Eccie. Even by your own standards Whispers, this one is something special. I wonder if there is a single person that you managed not to insult?

The only possibility for someone to take offense or feel insulted is if they see them self in the material presented.

[budman33]

Actually I just got a little dizzy from all the facepalms I suffered. you are certainly entitles to all the "I think's" but when you wax poetic and tell me and others what "they think" ....

I've known some narcissists but you sir are out there on a whole other level.

If I had to go out and tell you what i think about you, as you've spent far too much time trying to dissect us/me.

your a bit homophobic, and you hate women.

why would I come to such crazy opinion.... anyone mentions protate and you freak out. and you only refer to providers as whores which is a wholly derogatory term to 90% of us even if some providers love being called that.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Miss Valentina

In the minds of the rich, white, influential men in the dusk of their lives are still stuck on pre-k-level binarism who have created this inherently racist, patrimonial capitalism, ALL women are reduced to what y'all perceive is the value of our pussies. Doesn't matter if we're to be wives, daughters, prudes or hookers . Some hookers are here because frankly there is little else they can do and some of us bitches understand and reject all of these tedious outdated social workings and cut through the bullshit and commoditized the pussy.

It's a woman's fault if she's used for sex, her fault if she withholds it, and a woman's fault if she refuses to be used. An Ambitchous little tart like me understood this early and decided if that was the case might as well make that $$$. But most everyone here knows by now I'm the kind of little slopabotomous who likes to make a lot of $$$ in my real world business as well. It's a goal I set for myself because I like earning a dynamic and self-supporting portfolio.

If a man has such a poor view of female sexuality that he discounts the humanity of sex workers in this late-capitalist hellscape, (which the chauvinists created and then also created the hypocritical double standard they expect mindless sheep brains to conform to) consider two things: Successful survivors of this bullshit leverage all assets creatively and ruthlessly. And,
You fucking cowboys never needed the approval and blessings from people to make money and neither do I.

Dick and $$$ is super abundant. Male approval is not hard currency. Dudes get laid and I get paid. It's a one of the most exciting fungible exchanges.

I know Whispers gets this. He's a very successful businessman. He just likes getting twats twisted.

If you had a daughter and she was of age would it be OK with you if she shared your out look on pussy?

[Observing]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

If you had a daughter and she was of age would it be OK with you if she shared your out look on pussy?

"If you had a daughter and she was of age would it be OK with you if she shared your out look on pussy?"

If you had a daughter and she was of age would it be OK with you if she sold her pussy to "husky" older gentlemen with seemingly unlimited "hobby" funds?