Outing.... Seems to be a topic people have on their mind... What is an appropriate response?

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by universalenergy

Wait for it.....There will be more revealed soon....
If I was so worried about being outed I wouldn't be here...
Or I would not put myself in the position to be outed....
You know you have the right to be silent ....
Anything you say can be used against you...
Just be the bigger person and forgive the other person
Sometimes people know not what they are doing.
It is all about forgiveness

Ya think? Personally, from experience, I've done that knowing the emotional mindset of the individual involved at the time. Mod reaction was swift in removing the information on the site where it occurred ..... any potential damage was minimized....... In that case I felt it was appropriate and accepted his apology and it was done with......

This time around though we have Toyz rallying others and tossing the idea around for the 2nd time in just a few months...... He learned nothing the first time it seems.

When the person suggesting or doing the outing is guilty of having done it before and it is born in pettiness for the sake of grandstanding here on the boards for lack of the ability to successfully debate a topic or as a tantrum for losing face over and over..... well.... He and the others involved surely deserve something MORE appropriate wouldn't you think?

[Camille Fox]

In Houston Co-Ed, there were some interesting things brought up about outing, whether on board or off board...



http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=147


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=150


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=159

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Ya think? Personally, from experience, I've done that knowing the emotional mindset of the individual involved at the time. Mod reaction was swift in removing the information on the site where it occurred ..... any potential damage was minimized....... In that case I felt it was appropriate and accepted his apology and it was done with......

This time around though we have Toyz rallying others and tossing the idea around for the 2nd time in just a few months...... He learned nothing the first time it seems.

When the person suggesting or doing the outing is guilty of having done it before and it is born in pettiness for the sake of grandstanding here on the boards for lack of the ability to successfully debate a topic or as a tantrum for losing face over and over..... well.... He and the others involved surely deserve something MORE appropriate wouldn't you think?

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Camille Fox

In Houston Co-Ed, there were some interesting things brought up about outing, whether on board or off board...


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=147


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=150


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=159

Thank-you for sharing.. I wonder why others seem to have no qualms making light of it....

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Toyz

Wow!

Paranoid much? Or is this another lightly veiled threat?

No. not all. I try to stay with the guidelines..... Paranoia is a medical condition by the way. You really houldn't make such assumptions about any member in a post you know...


Oh.... Wait.....

You DO know now!:laughbounce 2:

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Camille Fox

In Houston Co-Ed, there were some interesting things brought up about outing, whether on board or off board...



http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=147


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=150


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=159

When I first read these I thought they were tightening up on it.... In light of things today I tend to wonder.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Whispers

How would you respond to being outed? If your personal information or the personal information of others in your family or friends was shared with others here or made public?