why do i keep getting stood up?

[Rockydoc]

Originally Posted by boneshaker2600

Maybe they think about how they can't handle those wonderful long legs of yours and get cold feet.

But really, there are some flakes out there, and eventually you'll weed them out.

Very rude behavior. Unfortunately, the world is full of knuckleheads.

[theotherguy1]

So Sarah what do you think about the short, older guys?

[politebluefish]

With my limited hobbying opportunities, I have never stood up a provider and always call if there is a delay or change in plans.
With that said, I once had a provider go ballistic on me because by the time I got away from work and turned on my hobby phone (an hour or more before the scheduled appointment) she had blown up my phone with texts to confirm the mid-afternoon appointment that I had already believed was set in stone. She claimed that by not responding I screwed up her entire schedule and I should go straight to hell. WTF? We had an appointment. Maybe I'm not understanding the proper protocol, but is an agreement to meet at a certain time with a provider not really and agreement? I would be interested in learning the providers' perspective on this side of the whole issue.

[notequiteatroll]

Originally Posted by politebluefish

With my limited hobbying opportunities, I have never stood up a provider and always call if there is a delay or change in plans.
With that said, I once had a provider go ballistic on me because by the time I got away from work and turned on my hobby phone (an hour or more before the scheduled appointment) she had blown up my phone with texts to confirm the mid-afternoon appointment that I had already believed was set in stone. She claimed that by not responding I screwed up her entire schedule and I should go straight to hell. WTF? We had an appointment. Maybe I'm not understanding the proper protocol, but is an agreement to meet at a certain time with a provider not really and agreement? I would be interested in learning the providers' perspective on this side of the whole issue.

take you phone to the john and check in?
maybe even increase your stamina for later?

[Ginger Doll]

Sorry this is happening to you, Sarah. This kind of thing irritates me beyond belief.

Unfortunately, there are just a lot of rude, inconsiderate people out there...on both sides of the hobby fence. (M & F both)

Life happens, but when I see a pattern of last minute cancellations or a NCNS, I require that they pay a non-refundable 50% deposit before I will agree to schedule again.

Getting some money up front seems to work miracles for their manners! Lol

[scooter]

I say bust them out here and you ladies share the experiences back channels...guys are busting you ladies out...its uncalled for to have a no call no show...scoot

[Selena25]

I had a ncns Thursday pm'd back and fourth to the point of the app he has reviews up and everything then nothing I pm'd him saying atleast tell me something still nothing

[Sidinman78]

Originally Posted by Selena25

I had a ncns Thursday pm'd back and fourth to the point of the app he has reviews up and everything then nothing I pm'd him saying atleast tell me something still nothing

He must've had something VERY important to miss you!

[Selena25]

I hope to think so

[theotherguy1]

Originally Posted by Sidinman78

He must've had something VERY important to miss you!

I bet he had a "HARD" attack dreaming about her.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Selena25

I had a ncns Thursday pm'd back and fourth to the point of the app he has reviews up and everything then nothing I pm'd him saying atleast tell me something still nothing

Maybe he died ...

[Selena25]

wish that was the case but know that I see the reviews that went up today the guy that ncns me chose to see a backpage girl on the same day he ncns me

[scooter]

Now it makes sense...check out that handle...lol...scoot

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Selena25

wish that was the case but know that I see the reviews that went up today the guy that ncns me chose to see a backpage girl on the same day he ncns me

Oh wow! Gotta love that. Lol

As if standing you up wasn't rude enough...he has to slap you in the face with what he was doing instead by documenting it.

[nwaarguy]

Maybe their wife or girlfriend started asking them questions why are so happy why you out all hours of the night. It could be work as well either way it's rude to ncns.