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Originally Posted by davidfree986
Only one provider that I can recall wants to get as much info on both providers and hobbyists so they can get a pass to go to her private forum, and will use it against them later, not to mention has an agenda of wanting to out others if she could whom she does not like or do not agree with her opinions.
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This is very unfair and its getting old. I have never asked for anyone's private info to get into my forum and never will. The screening is two reputable references and i do not hold on to that info. I also do not extort favoritism via the forum or any other means. My forum is respectable and mature and I have occasionally had to remove members who have shown to have questionable motives for being in there.
If anyone from my secret squirel society can plz come out and tell the hungry hater squad what a tyrant I am that would be awesome. If anyone has ever been asked for private info or felt their privacy was compromised here is the chance to speak up!
Jillian, I suspended your access so i could ask you a few questions. I do not grant and revoke access in real time. It is up to the moderators. I had cleared you to cone back in and during the time I was waiting for admin to do their part a shit storm ensued surronding some of the people close to you who were upset that I supposedly kicked you out. After the fall out over simply suspending your access for a few days, it confirmed my concerns about your membership in the forum. Had you waited for your access to be reinstated instead of sending out your friends to attack me you would still be in the from and I would be none the wiser. Chica Chaser can confirm that I need to go through admin and access is not something I have real time control over. I have to wait - just like you. As far as coming after you...well I guess you can say anything you want and the ladies can read for themselves. Edit: and you are twisting why I suspended your access. I said I had to suspend it while I asked you some questions to protect others privacy - such people's pictures. I wasn't accusing you of that I was explaining why I suspended it in the interim. What happened during the time lapse is what confirmed my suspicions. Let it go. There are plenty of other forums on ECCIE.
There is a small group of you people that accuse me of so many things just to try and smear me and it is getting old. Let's get a few things straight:
Davidfree986: banned for life under a former handle for posting multiple fake reviews for a studio a few years back. Came back as another handle among others who have also been banned. I found out by accident when I tried to set him up for a free session with another provider after I got tired of his incessant whining as NHR. When he text me to say thanks, I didn't recognize the number so I searched it and it turned out he was one of the people who harassed me when I first started providing. He gave himself up and I went to the mods and Gina with it. Now he takes every shot he can get.
Tara Evans: banned multiple times (once for over a year for outting someone). Rather than coming back under a different name she keeps coming back and starting shit with everyone because she thinks all press is good press. Whatever.
And Sweaterpuppies...former provider and now super troll on here who outted her best friend and had to "retire". Has been banned and returned under multiple fake handles just to try and hurt another lady's business and damage my reputation through name calling, a poll and now this. No clue why she hooked her claws in me but she has.
If anyone has ever been asked personal information by me or if I have ever overstepped in regard to your privacy or security can you please validate these accusations by posting here or tell the mods privately so they can handle it from there end. I am more than confident that I have never ever tried to overstep my bounds or invade anyone's privacy. I am a very private person and expect the same from others. I have been sent private information voluntarily by others in the past and have advised them not to do so. Anyone even remotely familiar with the risks of the hobby should know not to do this.
Some people on here joke that I have imaginary enemies and made up conspiracies about others trying to damage my credibility and reputation. Take a good look. I'm not imagining. And no, it doesn't take much to figure it out. A handful of people on this board seems like they have made it their hobby goal. Its not the first time and won't be the last.
http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=136
I have been providing for two years and on this board just as long. I have an honest and credible reputation despite the repeated attempts to smear me but a small group of overzealous haters. The only thing I have ever been guilty of is sharing my opinion on this board. I say what i mean and i mean what i say. I do not lie, play the pm game to build my fan base or harbor an army of white knights.
I play fair because like most everyone else I have a life beyond this that is priceless to me. I cherish it and protect the people i love just like anyone would. When you out someone, you aren't damaging that person, you are only damaging and hurting the innocent people around them. If we couldn't take a beating from life then we wouldn't be here - plain and simple. Some of you need to really think about the innocent people that will get caught in the line of fire should you choose to really out someone. I find it almost impossible to believe that people who have already been banned for outting haven't learned anything from the collateral damage they caused before, but then again it could just be lack of conscience so there is nothing that will stop them. Hopefully some of you consider that before you continue on this crusade because it is getting out of hand.
I have always respected boundaries and privacy and security because I treat others how I would like to be treated: if someone harasses others via text and pm then its their own fault if one of their recipients finally have enough and posted it to twitter. If someone wrote multiple fake reviews and got banned for life then they should expect the other members to call them out if they tried to come back under other handles. That is how it goes. You don't get a free pass for lying to and cheating the members of the community. Maybe the mods will give you a pass but not the members here who make an effort to stay reputable and maintain their integrity. Don't try to drag others down because you went and pissed all over your own parade.
I will say again that I am confident I have never even come close to outting anyone and have heard who I have been accused of outting. This person and I were in contact as early as last week and I have notified the mods and admin of the accusations. To my knowledge this person said something entirely different as to why they chose to leave but then again you can't trust anyone can you? Im not even sure if thos person knows they are being brought into this but for all i know they could be neck deep in it. All I know is I have had very little to do with anything or anyone outside of their paid time with me. I keep to myself and have always maintained that stance. I can count on one hand the people I have hung out with outside of the hobby. I do not care about what people do in their real lives. Its none of my business.
the latest Eccie board game now?
