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Old 02-15-2015, 07:35 PM   #196
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gp, lol I said that in jest about the uhaul.



I was not given any pain at all from any provider lol, you have me confused and well, oh, lol we can get that another time, I think you missed the analogy and the uhaul.

I actually hold trish in high regard and would not even come close to comparing her to the uhaul girl, so You took it the wrong way, but that's ok you made your points, very well.

You done good GP.


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We will go out can catch up at some point over a pint or two, I will let goat know well hang again
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Nope..I get him first ; )
hmmm hes had tiff already, lol

but I don't think he goes back on that horse again.
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Oh boy

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burger don't tell tiff lol
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Don't be so sure, you have no clue who I will see until I write, if I write a review, otherwise who,I see honestly is none of your biz buddy

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I know until you tell me over a beer when we hang.

We will hang when you get back, im brining an old friend with me just but I got the tab its on me

just make sure you fuck and you leave
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Possibly

And of course f and l
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Old 02-15-2015, 08:29 PM   #203
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I know until you tell me over a beer when we hang.

We will hang when you get back, im brining an old friend with me just but I got the tab its on me

just make sure you fuck and you leave
Oh My!!!


hmmmmm
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Which part, the beer, or the fuck and leave? We are used to,this from him
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It's about receiving the maximum benefit for your actions. Outside of Fuck & Leave, there are three components to the relationship:

1. Sex
2. Emotional Support
3. Financial Support

Most men begin the interaction with a deficit of (1) whereas most providers begin with a deficit of (3). You exchange (3) for (1), and you both leave the interaction having gotten what you lacked.

When you engage a provider on a "deeper" level, you both provide each other emotional support(3).

On the surface, this is equitable and fine. It's problematic when one considers the quality and quantity of the emotional support the Jimmie receives vs what the provider receives.

A Jimmie's emotional support is largely based on the inflation of the ego, the belief of an attraction independent of financial support(2) as well as a deeply buried feeling of being special.

These relationships don't work for most because in reality the Jimmie's attraction is not independent of financial support(2)(it may be enhanced above what (2) can provide, but rarely independent) and the Jimmie is rarely special, the same story being told to other men.

From the providers perspective, this relationship is gold. Her "deeper" relationship results in further financial support(gifts, more regular visits), as well as positive attention, and a change in self-concept(somebody referred to this as feeling less like a whore). The true bonus is that she often has this relationship with multiple men, and therefore by being a non fuck and leave girl, her profits, emotional state and self-concept are radically boosted.


In Summary: Providers gain much more from having these deep relationships with multiple men, and Jimmies can gain, but it is based on rationalizations, false pretenses and a rotten core. Jimmies are also unlikely to see incredible returns on the investment of affection as well as increased financial activity. If you are emotionally starved, a girlfriend is likely a better choice.
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We will hang when you get back, im brining an old friend with me just but I got the tab its on me

just make sure you fuck and you leave



Off we goo......
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It's about receiving the maximum benefit for your actions. Outside of Fuck & Leave, there are three components to the relationship:

1. Sex
2. Emotional Support
3. Financial Support

Most men begin the interaction with a deficit of (1) whereas most providers begin with a deficit of (3). You exchange (3) for (1), and you both leave the interaction having gotten what you lacked.

When you engage a provider on a "deeper" level, you both provide each other emotional support(3).

On the surface, this is equitable and fine. It's problematic when one considers the quality and quantity of the emotional support the Jimmie receives vs what the provider receives.

A Jimmie's emotional support is largely based on the inflation of the ego, the belief of an attraction independent of financial support(2) as well as a deeply buried feeling of being special.

These relationships don't work for most because in reality the Jimmie's attraction is not independent of financial support(2)(it may be enhanced above what (2) can provide, but rarely independent) and the Jimmie is rarely special, the same story being told to other men.

From the providers perspective, this relationship is gold. Her "deeper" relationship results in further financial support(gifts, more regular visits), as well as positive attention, and a change in self-concept(somebody referred to this as feeling less like a whore). The true bonus is that she often has this relationship with multiple men, and therefore by being a non fuck and leave girl, her profits, emotional state and self-concept are radically boosted.


In Summary: Providers gain much more from having these deep relationships with multiple men, and Jimmies can gain, but it is based on rationalizations, false pretenses and a rotten core. Jimmies are also unlikely to see incredible returns on the investment of affection as well as increased financial activity. If you are emotionally starved, a girlfriend is likely a better choice.
Intersting, well thought out, nice job cant disagree with you.
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Which part, the beer, or the fuck and leave? We are used to,this from him
she wants to join us for the beer, burger will arrange
fuck and leave though burger, fuck and leave
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Intersting, well thought out, nice job cant disagree with you.
Just trying to be a top Jimmie.
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she wants to join us for the beer, burger will arrange
fuck and leave though burger, fuck and leave
Well gotta get thru the rest of my to see list first, I didn't even know who she was until that post, sorry miss Elizabeth.

F and l, only way to be
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