Do some ladies reps intimidate?

[Guest062124]

Awww Chevalier.....you make me happy!

[CoHorn]

Cathy and Reese are two of the most down to earth ladies that I have met while here.

[Guest062512]

Originally Posted by Ranchhand

There are two ladies in this thread that I will probably never see. Its not intimidation, its my own lack of self confidence. I know its a P4P world but everyone enjoys being liked, even you macho guys on here. My problem is age. I am 65 years old but still enjoy playing. To go see a young lady, would make me feel like she would be thinking, damn what a old fart. I dont need the comments about its P4P, I know what it is. I will mention the names, its Tara and Reese. I would give my eye teeth to see them, (and yes I still have my eye teeth). As far as Cathy, I was contacted by her to visit, I couldnt do it. Not intimidation, just lack of self confidence.

That's what I was trying (rather ineffectually apparently) to say. Self-confidence in a woman is not intimidating; in fact, I find it attractive. Hell, i married a woman that runs a large organization and could buy and sell most of us. The intimidation stems from my relative inexperience in the hobby and my own lack of confidence in my physical attributes and talents.

Some guys seem to just like pokin and squeezin and squirting a time or two - the whole physical act. For me, that's only a part of what I'm looking for. Yes, I want to be liked, but more so, I want to please the lady I'm with. I want her to enjoy our time together too. If a lady has entertained the "best Dallas has to offer" and seems to really prefer the athletic and energetic experience or the young and gifted partner, I don't fret or regret. I just move on to who may be less "out there" or less active or less "published".

My favorite ladies are confident and self-assured and show some interest in me or in the kind of session I enjoy. I'll probably eventually get to see those superstars of eccie, (if and when I unretire) but I'm sure I'll have to fret about it awhile first.

Ladies, may I suggest, that if there's a guy you'd like to meet, PM him. I know receiving a message from a beautiful and popular lady goes a long way toward alleviating that anxiety and intimidation. Just a suggestion.

Thanks for your time.

~~CR~~

[Chevalier]

Originally Posted by Crossroads

my own lack of confidence in my physical attributes and talents.

I want to please the lady I'm with. I want her to enjoy our time together too. If a lady has entertained the "best Dallas has to offer" and seems to really prefer the athletic and energetic experience or the young and gifted partner

Sex is not a competitve sport, despite all the reviews about how many O's he gave her. The idea is not to be the greatest lover she's ever experienced, it's that she enjoy sex with you. And as near as I can tell, how much a lady enjoys sex has much more to do with her than her partner. It's her sexuality, receptiveness, and being comfortable with her own body. If she has that, she'll enjoy sex quite a bit with most of her partners. If she doesn't, she may not enjoy sex even with the young studs.

And how much she enjoys sex with a particular partner does not necessarily correlate with the size of his equipment, his energy level, or particularly with his youth. In fact, many ladies say the young guys often are worse lovers -- more competitive, egotistical, and less receptive to feedback. The more sure you are about what a great lover you, the more likely it is that you're not and she may enjoy her time as much or more with an old fart like me. I'm not the world's greatest lover, but I've learned how to relax, listen, and not interfere with a lady's pleasure. That's all we have to do. Seriously. (Ladies, back me up here.)

And as far as what she seems to prefer? Don't assume unless she explicitly mentions her preferences. Particularly don't read too much into the reviews. Lots of reviewers are just legends in their own minds. And for sure don't make assumptions about "the best Dallas has to offer." Despite what you may read here, they're mostly tired old farts just like us. The biggest difference may be that they're more into flirting with the ladies here.

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by Gonzo DFW

I know it's only hobby love, but Elisabeth Whispers gets mine. What a doll! And thanks to Tara for the sweet PMs. Hold on, EW, I'm comin'!!!!

Anytime Gonzo, my new eccie friend

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by Ranchhand

There are two ladies in this thread that I will probably never see. Its not intimidation, its my own lack of self confidence. I know its a P4P world but everyone enjoys being liked, even you macho guys on here. My problem is age. I am 65 years old but still enjoy playing. To go see a young lady, would make me feel like she would be thinking, damn what a old fart. I dont need the comments about its P4P, I know what it is. I will mention the names, its Tara and Reese. I would give my eye teeth to see them, (and yes I still have my eye teeth). As far as Cathy, I was contacted by her to visit, I couldnt do it. Not intimidation, just lack of self confidence.

Hey Ranchhand let me say I see anybody of any age. I just saw a guy the other day that was 70. I would be more than happy to see you whenever you would like doll. TE

[1Curiousguy]

This has turned into a really interesting thread. Having said that and read some of the comments I now have to wonder if I have now made it impossible or far less likely for me to be able see some of the ladies who inhabit my fantasies.

OK, new question, ladies do you dread or dislike having to deal with men who lack confidence?

I will also say that I disagree that confidence is a choice. I believe it to be the result of past experience.

RanchHand, I do hope that you go for it and write a review. Both ladies have expressed an enthusiastic willingness to see you. Go for it and start the new year off right (it is New Year's Eve right now).

And since it is 10PM on New Year's Eve, Happy New Year to all who posted. Let's hope that 2011 is a great and lusty year for us all.

Gonzo, I agree with you, E.W. is a keeper, smart, intelligent and enthusiastic. I always enjoy my time with her, BCD or not.

[hotlips_houlihan]

Originally Posted by 1Curiousguy

OK, new question, ladies do you dread or dislike having to deal with men who lack confidence?

Not at all. Confidence is built through the experience of trial and error, successes and failures. I'm actually a "helper" type, so it's natural for me to deal with these types of gentlemen.

Dealing with men who lack confidence are easier to be around than arrogant men who think they are God's gift to women lol.

[GDLMAN]

There are some great posts in this thread that show the inner beauty of these ladies. Cudos Hotlips, Tara, Reese, Avery, and the rest of the beautiful ladies that make this a fun place.

[1Curiousguy]

Originally Posted by GDLMAN

There are some great posts in this thread that show the inner beauty of these ladies. Cudos Hotlips, Tara, Reese, Avery, and the rest of the beautiful ladies that make this a fun place.

I noticed a long time ago that the best ladies in the hobby tend to have truly nurturing souls. They really know how to handle the fragile male ego and provide just what any man needs because they understand us so well.

There are several ladies in this thread that I have been interested in for quite some time but 2010 was not a year that I made it to DFW or I would have seen at least one or two of them already. Ladies, I look forward to seeing several of you this year.

Yes, I am intimidated but these ladies are so alluring I cannot NOT see them if at all possible. I have seen others who have had that effect on me and I have never once been disappointed.

[lda523287]

Originally Posted by reese foster

I have been saying "Thank you" a lot over the last few days, but I will keep on saying it. Thank you!

Pure class!

[PODarkness]

Jessica Born2BaPornstar.

By the time I got myself into the right state of mind she was gone. One of my few regrets in the hobby. Never again.

[Randy4Candy]

1CG, these types are the ONLY ones to see because they have the chops to deal with any sort of client who might be coming at the session from any number of ways. The ones with the "intimidating" reps don't have intimidating reps, they have reputations for being great providers.

For the life of me, why would anyone who doesn't have bottomless pockets not go with the gold? There is absolutely no need to "settle" for a lady who seems to have trouble coping with "some" clients who do not perfectly fit their requirements (not talking about health or hygiene issues here). It's their right and I'm for 'em doing it, but they'll never be, regardless of the number or loudness of White Knights on staff, in the upper echelon of those who understand the true importance of what they have to offer and how they give it.

[Big Daddy Moose]

I would agree with the intimidating / self confidence item.

Some women just "look" unapproachable. Not just a beauty thing, but some just strike me that way. I am intimidated especially by a few AA women on here who I would love to meet, but I am intimidated by them.

Go figure, human nature.