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thunderrstrukk · 09-18-2010, 07:56 PM

Hello all,

I'm new to this and mostly just look and read. I've seen lots of rookies get blasted for posting material in the wrong area so before I put up my story I request that one of you experts please tell me where it should go.

I looked around and I didn't see an area that I thought was appropriate. My fault I'm sure. So please just straighten me out so that I can spread the word.

In short, I want to post a 'review/story/update' about a 'no-show/no-response' experience with a provider.

Thanks.

-TS

sixxbach · 09-18-2010, 08:08 PM

Thunderrstrukk,

Thanks for asking. Since, no session took place, its not a review. Alert section is for TRUE dangers to the hobby community. Co-ed would be the appropriate place for this. If you had premuim access, I would also recommend posting it in the men's lounge area. Always feel free to ask in the ask staff section or PM the mod staff...

Hope this helps....

sixx

Guest083013 · 09-18-2010, 08:46 PM

I personally feel its appropriate to place it in coed after waiting a judicious amount of time allowing for a reply from her about the planned event assuming you have contacted her to ask what happened. This allows her (and other female members who may have some insight) to reply. Just keep it in prose versus using a review template. sixxbach ==> not sure how you guys see it in Austin, but this has seemed to working rather well here in The Alamo City.

sixxbach · 09-18-2010, 08:52 PM

Totally agree dennisrn!

Can't wait to be in The Alamo City next weekend BTW...

sixx

Guest031811 · 09-19-2010, 01:41 AM

So, are the ladies allowed to post in the co-ed when men are no-shows?

Guest081519 · 09-19-2010, 05:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by brittanylennox

So, are the ladies allowed to post in the co-ed when men are no-shows?

No, because you are women. As such, you have no right to complain. Instead of complaining you should be baking pie!

Just kidding Love. I don't see why not.

Guest081519 · 09-19-2010, 05:59 AM

Hold on, I thought that you could post client no-shows in the powder room.

sixxbach · 09-19-2010, 09:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by brittanylennox

So, are the ladies allowed to post in the co-ed when men are no-shows?

Why not? Nothing in the rules, says you can't. This will also allow all members (including the accused) to be able to give insight and commentary if they choose to. Keep in mind that this a judgement call on the members end. The OP here does not have PA access and if they had it, MIGHT opt to post in the men's area. Since, that is not currently an option, co-ed is the best bet in that situation.

sixx

thunderrstrukk · 09-19-2010, 11:15 AM

SixxB and Dennis,

My thanks to you both for your feedback and guidance. I will post my 'prose' in the coed section. Excellent point, Dennis, about the waiting period...and yes, when I post (in a short while) it will have been 24hrs since the event or non-event as it were. I also tried several times (all of them professional and polite) to get a response/explanation.

I simply want to do my part to warn other gents. Like anything...this hobby is only as good as well all make. By ensuring the word gets out about less than stellar providers and clients we help to maintain and raise the quality of the hobby for everyone. Yes, I realize that I'm stating the obvious but I think it's important to say it.

Prose will be up within the next 2 hours.

Thanks for the help.

-TS

Guest031811 · 09-19-2010, 01:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JJ

Hold on, I thought that you could post client no-shows in the powder room.

There is a funny thing I noticed about a large majority of hobbyists on this board: they CARE a lot about what other MALE hobbyists think of them. In the ladies' powder room, a hobbyist's bad behavior may be revealed, and ladies may refuse to see him. But, it is unlikely for him to change his behavior toward escorts unless other men get involved.

I realize that different men hobby for different reasons. Some hobby to get the approval of other men.

Guest081519 · 09-19-2010, 04:29 PM

Miss Lennox, I don't necessarily think that we (males) specifically care what other males think of us. I think that we care what everyone (male and female) think if us. Bad rep with the community means that no one will agree to see them.

Then again as you stated. Different people hobby for different reasons.

thunderrstrukk · 09-19-2010, 05:09 PM

Didn't mean to start any beef if that's what's going on here. When I said 'the hobby is only as good as we all make it' the 'we' I was speaking was both providers and clients.

I am of the mind that unprofessional providers and unprofessional clients are equally harmful to the hobby environment as a whole. And for the record...I am certainly not here to impress anyone. I can't imagine who would be or why...but who knows.

Bottom line...I had a question, I got an answer (thanks again) and I put my info out there to help 'everyone.' I've said my piece. Thank you for reading.

-TS

Guest081519 · 09-19-2010, 06:23 PM

There is no beef or malice sir. I hold Miss Lennox in the highest esteem and have a great respect for her ideas and point of view.

I made my first remark in jest.

thunderrstrukk · 09-20-2010, 05:56 AM

All clear. Thanks again.