??? DATY ???

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by SP Hunter

Don't look at any porn outside of lipstick lesbian porn or make friends with a Bi lady and watch what she does.

Straight porn will teach you the wrong technique and some provider will bust your head open like a pecan in a vise when you chew on her clit.

Word
Let's do a double baby.. I'll teach you

[sexialexis86]

Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Well Eccie Addict

May I suggest asking the lady you see, what she likes, we all are different.

Some do not like that fingering stuff, some guys do not clip their nails, and they don't know what they are nothing, just cutting away.

Please not do bite the lady parts..unless she asked.

Start off slow, wait for the arch of her back, that stomach thing somebody mentioned, and go alittle faster. If she has you in a headlock and you find yourself not breathing, you are probably nothing a good job.

wow lisa you say that like you are experienced???!!! hehehehe....but great teaching that is right on the money!!!

[Sensual Sophia]

Every woman is different. And with a provider, or even a girlfriend who is super eager to please, she may not indicate what she really likes and doesn't like. She may moan with pleasure when it really hurts. She may even fake an orgasm quickly so as to get it over with sooner. So before you even start, have a frank talk with her.

Tell her that you aren't doing this solely for your own amusement -- that you would actually like to get her off and you only want to do what feels good for her. Make sure she knows that you won't get your feelings hurt or feel bossed around if she gives you direct instruction. Tell her to guide you verbally. You can't go wrong that way. Instructions like, harder, softer, up a little, a little to the left, less suction, etc, are the way you learn exactly what your partner likes. It saves a lot of time trying to read her subtle moans or hip movements. In my experience, when I tell a guy what I want in words he is far more effective than when I just hope he'll get it by my body language.

Also, be open to the fact that she may not be able to cum. A lot of women can't cum from DATY and it isn't because you lack skill. Many of the anti-depressants and birth control pills on the market make it difficult to have an orgasm. That doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy the pleasure... sometimes it's more about the journey than the finish line.

Finally, here is one piece of body language that should be unmistakable but is sadly often ignored... if she is pulling away from you it is because you are doing it too hard... don't compensate by moving towards her as she moves away. Similarly, if she is pressing herself up against you it is because she wants more pressure. Don't keep the same distance by moving away as she moves towards you. I can't tell you how many times I have had guys literally chasing me across the bed as I inch backward to avoid their aggressively painful DATY.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

Instructions like........... a little to the left............... .

Would that be my left or your left?

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

Finally, here is one piece of body language that should be unmistakable but is sadly often ignored... if she is pulling away from you it is because you are doing it too hard... don't compensate by moving towards her as she moves away. Similarly, if she is pressing herself up against you it is because she wants more pressure. Don't keep the same distance by moving away as she moves towards you. I can't tell you how many times I have had guys literally chasing me across the bed as I inch backward to avoid their aggressively painful DATY.

+1

[Eccie Addict]

This is great information

[thebodyguard_69]

sure is... cant wait to practice

[thebodyguard_69]

Originally Posted by Jackie S

I don't won't to taste pineapple, I want to taste WOMAN.!!

word..lol

[ThatManFromTexas]

I have a full beard and handlebar mustache... if the provider isn't smooth down below... I get all tangled up and takes hours to get loose.... when I humm my mustache vibrates ... but if she's a squirter... I come up looking remarkably like a wet mop... one time ... she was a clock watcher and I didn't have time to wash and dry my beard... later when I tried to get the pillow off of my face... it sounded like Velcro ripping ...

[DallasRain]

quote---when I humm my mustache vibrates

I THINK I LOVE YOU--lol!!!!

[ThatManFromTexas]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

quote---when I humm my mustache vibrates

I THINK I LOVE YOU--lol!!!!

Thank you ... but you have obviously not seen what I look like ...

[onehitwonder]

Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas

Thank you ... but you have obviously not seen what I look like ...

Looks ain't everything babe. The best way to ride a bike or a mustache is on the handlebars..........I'm just sayin

Back in my boot scootin' days I had a shirt that said " Champion Mustache Rider, Got the belt buckle to prove it"

[ThatManFromTexas]

Originally Posted by onehitwonder

Looks ain't everything babe. The best way to ride a bike or a mustache is on the handlebars..........I'm just sayin

Back in my boot scootin' days I had a shirt that said " Champion Mustache Rider, Got the belt buckle to prove it"

Sooooo ... you're a Tush Push kinda girl... cool ...

I'm bull rider kinda guy... I try to ride for all 8 seconds... "grin:

[onehitwonder]

More like a 2 steppn' fool. And the right guy can get a lot done in 8!

[sabre692]

I'm jealous of a person that can grow a moustache with handles...I sadly am not up to do such a thing at my age. Good show TMFT.