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Alex Lieberman · 08-23-2010, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Camille

I don't know the OP who you are responding to. I've glanced at your blog Alex but haven't read enough to know if her coment strikes me in the same way. I would say that pointing out any signs on a public forum is bad news. Big brother is always watching and the less info they get about certain things the better.

Camille

Erotic Emily made the comment so I was just curious to know why she is so sure that I'm not a provider. She is wrong but since she opened the door I'd like to hear what signs she is talking about. Clearly she can't back up her statement or she would have already done so.

Alex Lieberman · 08-23-2010, 07:40 PM

I wish you were right but that is not the case as I have tried to reach her to get to the bottom of it and she replied by saying that she doesn't plan to discuss it any further and wasn't very nice about it. I tried to reach her a few times and I know that she is in town.

atlcomedy · 08-23-2010, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

I've just experienced my first fight with a jealous provider. She tried to sabotage a week trip to the Bahamas with a client of mine. She had an appt with the client that I am planning to go away with and when she heard that he invited me on the trip she began to bad mouth me......trying to get the trip for herself.

Have you ever experienced a situation like this and if so how did you handle it?

Hobbyists have you ever been caught in the middle of a situation like this?

Alex

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Originally Posted by AidanMacKenna

That said, girls do get jealous when someone they see ventures out. Again, there is no room for jealousy, dissappointment, maybe, but not jealousy.

You folks act like there is some great provider code and all abide by it.

If that was the case it would be the only business in the world with such behavior.

Nobody likes to lose business - lawyers, accountants, realtors, car dealers, restaurants, etc. - so the level of cooperation varies. At least those businesses are regulated by the state or industry associations. So despite some gray areas, there are at least some norms that need to be followed.

But the escort biz is completely unregulated & we realistically expect better behavior than the balance of industry???

pjorourke · 08-23-2010, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

LOL...I probably should have started it with idiot instead of sweetie.

Then you would have confused 6 other people that would think you were addressing them.

Guest083011 · 08-23-2010, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

I wish you were right but that is not the case as I have tried to reach her to get to the bottom of it and she replied by saying that she doesn't plan to discuss it any further and wasn't very nice about it. I tried to reach her a few times and I know that she is in town.

Then she has decided to distance herself from you. Sad if she was a friend. That can hurt. Reach out in a couple of weeks and ask her what happened. You may not be happy with the answer, but at least maybe you'll know and then chalk it up as a life experience (and blog about it later

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Alex Lieberman · 08-23-2010, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by SR Only

Then she has decided to distance herself from you. Sad if she was a friend. That can hurt. Reach out in a couple of weeks and ask her what happened. You may not be happy with the answer, but at least maybe you'll know and then chalk it up as a life experience (and blog about it later

).

Exactly!!!!!

Alex Lieberman · 08-23-2010, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by pjorourke

Then you would have confused 6 other people that would think you were addressing them.

Hey PJ,

The only one I was talking about was the provider who gave a very direct opinion and chose not to back it up. That is idiotic.

Katy Alexander · 08-23-2010, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by SlowHand49

Why not? Maybe Ed was saying to himself, "I did it my way" . . .

I think that Ed may have to perform his own interpretation of I did it my way in the next beauty pageant he enters.

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Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

Hey PJ,

The only one I was talking about was the provider who gave a very direct opinion and chose not to back it up. That is idiotic.

Hi Alex,

long before I discovered aspd/eccie I posted on a local escort board using an alias.At first I did it because I was not even working yet, but later on I decided to stay anonymous because I found some of the people there to be kind of odd, and did not want to make myself vulnerable by posting under my real info .I found it funny that any time I posted an opinion that was not popular I would get accused of being anything from LE to a man pretending to be an escort.Most of the time it was other women who refused to believe I was legit .I wish people would realize that just because we are escorts it does not mean that we all think, and act the same way.

pjorourke · 08-23-2010, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

Hey PJ,

The only one I was talking about was the provider who gave a very direct opinion and chose not to back it up. That is idiotic.

Never mind darlin, obviously the joke missed you.

Here is a hint though -- idiots don't process information logically.

Alex Lieberman · 08-23-2010, 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by pjorourke

Never mind darlin, obviously the joke missed you.

Here is a hint though -- idiots don't process information logically.

LOL....Oy am I slow.

Sa_artman · 08-23-2010, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by pjorourke

Then you would have confused 6 other people that would think you were addressing them.

Well, she obviously got you to respond.

Hot to Trot Daphne · 08-24-2010, 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by RebeccaRothko

Well, the blog is an interesting read, nice over the top writing style. I'm bummed, this whole time I've missed out on this special sisterhood of escorts.

I'm glad RR already knows..there is no sisterhood; you can extend professional courtesy by working together, helping to protect each other from scum, sharing information.. but I always trip out when I hear providers say "sisterhood". When the going gets tough and it's a choice between your bills or theirs, I wonder how long that comradeship will last.

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Originally Posted by atlcomedy

You folks act like there is some great provider code and all abide by it.

If that was the case it would be the only business in the world with such behavior.

Nobody likes to lose business - lawyers, accountants, realtors, car dealers, restaurants, etc. - so the level of cooperation varies. At least those businesses are regulated by the state or industry associations. So despite some gray areas, there are at least some norms that need to be followed.

But the escort biz is completely unregulated & we realistically expect better behavior than the balance of industry???

pjorourke · 08-24-2010, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Sa_artman

Well, she obviously got you to respond.

Nice try nimrod!

But I didn't reply to the post she was referencing.

nevergaveitathought · 08-24-2010, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by pjorourke

Nice try nimrod!

But I didn't reply to the post she was referencing.

nimrod was a mighty man of the Bible...

Ansley · 08-24-2010, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by luxury daphne

I'm glad RR already knows..there is no sisterhood

Did you see this Becky? I knew we were right. They sure tried to get us to believe in the sisterhood didn't they?