It's at the top of the forum:
Let's keep these discussions on-topic, thought-provoking, and more importantly...entertaining!
I would add, to remember the purpose of this site:
1. Gentlemen share information on services received, as to safety, and value for the $.
2. Ladies to advertise their services. Yes, happens in co-ed forums too.

3. Everyone to banter and flirt, share a few laughs, warn others of troubles.
I know moderating is a hard, thankless job, but killing the drama threads early on, would be a big help too. And would save a BUNCH of server space.