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berkleigh · 07-06-2010, 09:12 PM

I've seriously had about enough of this.

If the "Community of Corpus" and whomever else wants to continue to sabotage myself and my reputation, go right on ahead.

You can continue to talk about me in whatever such manner you choose.

It doesn't bother me really.

What bothers me is that this was like so 3 months ago and its no ones business.

You guys should really focus on something a little more enlightening...like Life.

This keeps being brought up and I am here to defend myself and keep my head up.

My business WILL NOT SUFFER no matter what any of you guys choose to say BCD, in the Mens' Lounge, Email, Text, Open Discussions or the Palace on a Friday Afternoon.

I have recieved many calls, pm's and emails reguarding this issue and SERIOUSLY ya know I have tried to handle this like a Lady and I will continue to do so from here on out. I have several people backing me up on this.

It will take way more than this bs to break me.....I AGAIN suggest you stop challenging me because you are getting no where real fast.

No worries.....

XoXo Corpus

This has gone beyond pathetic!

XxSaviorxX · 07-06-2010, 11:04 PM

ok, ok, thanks for your response...Have a nice day..Deuce!

rjdiner · 07-07-2010, 09:01 AM

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=61065

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=66402

Thanks for weighing in.

For anybody who wants to refer to your adult behavior Berk I have supplied the above posts. The offer to apologize to our community for dissing it still stands by the way.

I also find it more than a little interesting that of all your posts on this subject, you have never denied that you outed a CC hobbyist out of vengence for him dumping you.
You have told us what a lady you are. You have told us how you rose above all this. You have told us other people have apparently supported you in outing a hobbyist. BUT, you have never said "I didn't do it."
Interesting indeed.

I guess this is the point where you call in your markers and notify your friends (Mods, Admins and Owners) to lock this thread instead of having to respond in a calm, reasonable fashion....2...3...4.

Quote:

Originally Posted by berkleigh

I've seriously had about enough of this.

If the "Community of Corpus" and whomever else wants to continue to sabotage myself and my reputation, go right on ahead.

You can continue to talk about me in whatever such manner you choose.

It doesn't bother me really.

What bothers me is that this was like so 3 months ago and its no ones business.

You guys should really focus on something a little more enlightening...like Life.

This keeps being brought up and I am here to defend myself and keep my head up.

My business WILL NOT SUFFER no matter what any of you guys choose to say BCD, in the Mens' Lounge, Email, Text, Open Discussions or the Palace on a Friday Afternoon.

I have recieved many calls, pm's and emails reguarding this issue and SERIOUSLY ya know I have tried to handle this like a Lady and I will continue to do so from here on out. I have several people backing me up on this.

It will take way more than this bs to break me.....I AGAIN suggest you stop challenging me because you are getting no where real fast.

No worries.....

XoXo Corpus

This has gone beyond pathetic!

nunyabidness · 07-07-2010, 10:31 AM

Here's the thing, Berk, we have something called free speech in this country. You have the right to defend yourself. Others have the right to talk about what you did. This board is private property and there are rules, so I hope what follows below complies with those rules. If not, free pass?

His alleged crimes: providing too much information to a provider and pissing her off.
His punishment: she has allegedly taken care of that.

Her alleged crime: using privileged information against him in a manner inconsistent with board rules.
Her punishment: people talking shit about her. Other that that, looks like a free pass to me.

Advice to providers: take your revenge, but do it creatively and intelligently. Hurt the person you intend to hurt, not those around him/her.

Advice to hobbyists: be careful with the information you provide to others. In terms of the provider in question, yes, she may have been provoked. However, if she's willing to do that to someone she used to call a friend, what is she willing to do to someone she cares absolutely nothing about?

Advice to Mods: this free pass thing is striking a nerve. I understand the victim might not want to pursue the matter, and it would be nice if we would just move forward. However, if you did more, we would probably talk less.

God Bless America, dammit!

TxBrandy · 07-07-2010, 12:21 PM

*Brandy gazes into her crystal ball and meditates....*

"I see, in the not so distant future, difficulties arising due to trusts being violated. One side will be hesitant at best to share information required by the other side. The sins of the few will affect the masses leading to a distrust across the spectrum of personalities. Baaaad mojo for a community where trust is key, for if it can happen to a few - particularly the ones who have experience, knowledge, and are known and loved - it can happen to many. If personal information is no longer sacred, how can we expect to provide and receive when not knowing who is worthy of trust AND not knowing if and when that tenuous bond will be broken.

Bad mojo indeed for everyone here. Ripples in the water. The butterfly effect......"

berkleigh · 07-07-2010, 01:09 PM

.......and where is the proof? I can produce anything and everything needed. I do NOT want any involvement with him nor have I in the past. This was a fantasy to him. I provided a service and went beyond that with him. I have been involved in a real world relationship for over a year and would never EVER leave him for a hobbyist. Point blank my personal boundries were overstepped one too many times and I could not find it in myself to futhermore have an intimate relationship with this man. Everything that is being said is nonsense and he thrives on this drama because his SO plays farmville on facebook all day so he has nothing else better to do. You don't see me worried about myself as he has allllllmy personal infomation. I could care less about this. I will be interested to see where this turns.......and for the record I am not the first provider he has done this too. In fact he was outed by a former female mod several months ago to the staff here. I would be curious to hear what she has to say as well about him......since you guys are oh so protective of him...........

berkleigh · 07-07-2010, 01:29 PM

C'mon........I'm waiting RJDINER.....since your the spokesperson for LAP.

rjdiner · 07-07-2010, 01:52 PM

Well that's all I wanted to know. You outed LAP to his wife. You admitted it and I'm done.
Thanks for confirming it.

TxBrandy · 07-07-2010, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by berkleigh

......and for the record I am not the first provider he has done this too. In fact he was outed by a former female mod several months ago to the staff here

Wait... so you are saying you DID out him? To his wife?

....holy crap....

rjdiner · 07-07-2010, 02:53 PM

It seems so Della

littlejoe · 07-07-2010, 03:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by berkleigh

...his SO plays farmville on facebook all day...

What does "farmville on facebook" mean, and how is it relevant?

berkleigh · 07-07-2010, 04:05 PM

No one outed anyone. Not me nor Caroline. I just spoke with her. I appreciate how professional she kept it with me as well as informing me about his obcession with me. 3 months ago I made the decision to no longer be involved with him. I don't know why this is coming about now and funny how he plays puppet master with all of y'all. My life took a different more positive direction at that time and he was no longer included. Once again, if I did anything wrong I suggest you dig real hard to produce something because I could care less about it. This is my business and I would never risk my reputation over some bullshit. Keep talking your shit.....your making me famous!

rjdiner · 07-07-2010, 05:13 PM

We'll approach this one point at a time:
1. We know how pissed you were that he shut you out of the CC social (all you have to do is look your rants about being excluded)
2. We know you sent him a threatening text about the social indicating you would get even.
3. We know about the call to the home phone from a familiar area code.
4. Most importantly, we know what an emotional train wreck you are. I could go all over this board and find innumerable posts where you have "gone off" on any number of people for little or no reason. Bottom line is, your board personna is one of an unstable individual and there is ample evidence to support that.
5. He just HAPPENED to get outed after years of uninterrupted hobbying when all these circumstances came together.

Let's just put that in front of a jury of our hobbyist/provider peers and see where the prevailing opinion falls.

As for doing LAP's bidding for him, I haven't spoken to him. However, I have heard through back channels he would like me to stop the assault. However, I won't. Why? Because the people on this board need to know what a risk they are taking with you. There is a hobbyists credo that says we will protect each other from emotionally unstable people like you.

Lastly, you may be right about famous if you put the letters "i-n" in front of the word. Remember, Mata Hari was infamous.

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Originally Posted by berkleigh

No one outed anyone. Not me nor Caroline. I just spoke with her. I appreciate how professional she kept it with me as well as informing me about his obcession with me. 3 months ago I made the decision to no longer be involved with him. I don't know why this is coming about now and funny how he plays puppet master with all of y'all. My life took a different more positive direction at that time and he was no longer included. Once again, if I did anything wrong I suggest you dig real hard to produce something because I could care less about it. This is my business and I would never risk my reputation over some bullshit. Keep talking your shit.....your making me famous!

XxSaviorxX · 07-07-2010, 05:31 PM

After all he did for you and ALL the money he just gave you, for help strictly, and you act like that.....Wow. Your a scam!

whatacrock · 07-07-2010, 06:18 PM

This goes to rjdiner and savior: What a bunch of pussys airing out their business! You guys are acting like a pair of little bitches, especially rj. If I didn't know any better, I would have thought lap was banging you two. If the chic did what she did, and she's "crazy" like you say she is, it will all eventually come out. I mean seriously, I'm sure there's two sides to the story and I'm sure Laps getting what is long deserved. Karma! Why do you think he's no longer posting? (i'm sure he's reading). If the admins were going to do something, they would have done it by now, so you're better of waisting your time on something more constructive like reprimanding people for "not writing a review in par to your unatainable standards".

"We'll approach this one point at a time:" WTF???? who do you think you are? Perry Mason?...you need to go back and get under laps nutsack, suck on his titty and stfu!