How to ask a woman about the hobby

[Guest082216-1]

If I suppected a woman might be a provider, is there something or some way I could ask her if is? Would want some key word or something that if she were, she would know and understand what I am asking, yet unlikly to understand if she is not. Don't want to make her feel upset or insulted.

Thanks

[oleguy]

Slip her a note, ask her if she knows what this might stand for --bbbjcimnqns.
If she knows, you are good to go.

[Judge Smails]

LOL, I was thinking the same thing, the hobby has so many acronyms, one has to be careful to not let them slip into everyday life!

Unless you do mind getting slapped around, probably best to stick to eccie

Originally Posted by oleguy

Slip her a note, ask her if she knows what this might stand for --bbbjcimnqns.
If she knows, you are good to go.

[DFWRaven]

Just ask her if she wants to make 20 Bucks the hard way....
If you feel a suddeen sting on your left cheek.. She aint a provider...
If she starts hob nobblin on your hob gobblin.. She's is..

[Lauren Lane]

Again, Leave Her Alone in her civilian world. Yes, there are some providers who do not mind be asked, but the majority of us do not like to be approached. It can be awkward and uncomfortable.

[Trey]

Originally Posted by oleguy

Slip her a note, ask her if she knows what this might stand for --bbbjcimnqns.
If she knows, you are good to go.

Shes gonna type that shit in her computer and come kick the shit out of you. Then get you fired for sexual harassment, if you dont get fired you just get to be known as the office pervert. Take the ladies advice and let it go.

[Guest082216-1]

LOL, Dont have to worry about that. Don't work with her. Just someone I chat with online. Traded a few pictures. Might get to meet face to face. Have not suggested we do more yet. But some of the things she says make me think she might be either a swinger or an escort. Don't want to offend her but would be VERY happy to make a donation to her. Guess I can just try the old fashion way and try to get her to meet for dinner and see what happens :-) Shes not in town much so did not want to waste an opp. :-)

[Trey]

cool dude thought it was a chick at work. Internet chick I guess I would just ask, depends as long as I dont care if she talks to me anymore, I mean just put it out there.

But you might be wrong, most likely you are wrong and she is not a working girl at all. I would not be surprised if when you meet she asks you for some cash in some way or form and you may get some action from the transaction but I dont know if you could put it as a escort type of thing.

Good luck

[hotlips_houlihan]

Don't say squat

[Guest082216-1]

So, the men say go for it as long as I don't care about never talking to her again.
The woman say don't say anything.

Another fine example of what brain men use for most of their thinking v what women use. LOL.

I think I will go with the women this time :-)

[Fiero]

Generally speaking I think the women have the better track record on these things...lol

[OldGrump]

Your idea of inviting her to dinner is fine. You obviously are attracted to her. I wouldn't discuss the hobby unless she does first. Women seem to have a more graceful way of handling touchy subjects than men. We usually bungle it.

[1thatgotaway]

Easy!!! you don't. (Unless you like getting slapped)

[mtabsw]

No need to ask. News Flash.. No one really gets it free. LMAO

[Randy4Candy]

You mean to say that blurting out "Do you fuck for bucks?" wouldn't get it?

No matter how you said it, from high'n'hard to oh, so smooth would probably get you a case of the blue balls - either from lackanookie or a size 5 to the nads.