Living with a former escort has various unique qualities depending on the background of the lady. I have lived with a retired escort for the past four years. When she was working she knew ladies who built their self esteem around the interest of men paying for their services. These ladies are also worried about giving up regulars in case the guy she is with "dumps" her.
In my lady's case, she was not that way. She met a lady who was an escort while working as a secretary following a divorce. That escort told her that being attractive she would make a lot more money as an escort than she did as a secretary. She wound up working for about four years but did not like what she was doing. She was worried about stopping escorting completely in case things between us did not work out. However, she decided to take the chance. She enjoys men flirting with her and trying to pick her up but has no interest in going any further. She did not enjoy having sex with men where she had to please them but they did not have to please her. When we have sex, she has to be given an orgasm before she starts trying to please me.
She does hear about other working ladies who had been escorts and more of them have had trouble with relations with one man than did not have trouble. Some picked the wrong man. Others are like the lady described in this section.
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