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JONBALLS · 09-19-2012, 04:04 PM

absolutly

JONBALLS · 09-19-2012, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Lexxxy

How are you proving any point by making catty comments in a sad little pathetic attempt at being funny? You have been slightly entertaining though, I will give you credit there. You hijacked a thread about a serious hobby related topic to be a silly sassy pants. Oh well, thanks for giving me something to smirk at in between my "exercises".

you screen your way and Ill screen mine

Lexxxy · 09-19-2012, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by JONBALLS

you screen your way and Ill screen mine

I am so confused here, bare with me, I know I can be a big boobed ditz sometimes. I can't figure out what you are talking about screening me for? I never hinted at or joked about wanting to spend my time with you.

JONBALLS · 09-19-2012, 04:31 PM

didnt say I was just screening you

I dont even come here to get dates

GP · 09-19-2012, 05:04 PM

I still don't know what Japped means.

JONBALLS · 09-19-2012, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by elghund

Hey Jon...what an improvement....didn't Ms. E. call you a lousy %&^&%&^&^*&$^% or something like that?

Just askin'.....

elg......

hehe..........yessir, there is a distinct difrence.........

and with that ..I am out.......

GP, your gonna have to figure out "japped " on your own, confident your up to the task

GP · 09-19-2012, 05:39 PM

I looked it up, but it has many meaning and I am not sure what context you were using it in. But if your afraid to answer, I understand.

JONBALLS · 09-19-2012, 05:42 PM

I wasnt afraid to go to the M&G, thats for damn sure, maybe thats what I meant by japped, but it just came out with the wrong definition in my mind?

why dont we just leave it at this

the next time you say your going to come , I will show also...........again

JONBALLS · 09-19-2012, 05:55 PM

I thinck you may have misunderstood my total boredom for scared as far as this thrAD is going

GP · 09-19-2012, 05:55 PM

Your pissed at me for not showing up at the M&G? REALLY???? Sorry, I had to work that day. I didn't find out about it until the night before. I will buy you a drink at the next one I can go to.

JONBALLS · 09-19-2012, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by GP

I am enjoying the new and improved JB.... Makes me want to setup an appointment with him.

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Originally Posted by JONBALLS

hey, I wasnt the one that japped the M&G

your misunderstanding a joke, my fucken eyes are rolling into the back of my head,

someone go and find GP

GP · 09-19-2012, 06:29 PM

I took a stupid pill this morning. I guess it worked.

heatherelite · 09-19-2012, 06:48 PM

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OK, I'll bite.... the title of the post is combative right off the bat. You retired in time for what? If you are retired, then why are you still posting on a SHMB?

Combative? I'm simply stating my feelings on the fact that I'm glad I no longer have to worry about running into such clients since I am retired. I wasn't aware that I was no longer able to contribute to this board even though I am retired-especially since none of the mods have either mentioned it nor deleted my post.

heatherelite · 09-19-2012, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by GP

Can I assume that I was right on in post 22? I mean normally by now, doove would have let me know how deficient a human being I am as well as jump at the chance to WK someone. I also assume Heather decided to jump in on this thread and throw in her 2 cents, then allowing me to politely, thoughtfully and thoroughly contradict her point by point, and probably not log back in for 6 months so she doesn't have to reply.

Actually, you seemed to have completely agreed with me in that it was ridiculous to make an alert on the orignial post. Hope you didn't put any money down on that 6 month bet.

heatherelite · 09-19-2012, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Lexxxy

I know I am going to sound like a total asshole ( not that I mind at all), BUT, I had to ask who Heather even was before I made a post.
I obviously don't agree with a word she had to say.
If it is okay to dye your hair with chemicals, wear makeup with chemicals, wear deodorant with cancer causing chemicals, use soap with chemicals, wash your clothes with chemicals that are treated and dyed with chemicals, get your nails done with chemicals, have your nail polish removed with more chemicals, brush your teeth with chemicals, clean your house with chemicals, breath in chemicals on the street, use condoms made with chemicals, use tampons and pads made with chemicals that can also give you toxic shock syndrome, use sun screen made with chemicals, go out in the sun or tanning bed with harmful cancer causing rays, have sex with strange men... it is okay to use some spermicide.
The morning after pill gives you your period, it is a system cleanse. Soy mimics estrogen so does olive oil, flax seeds, garlic, and hummus so she better not eat them because that is "putting hormones in her body". Oh, eating chocolate also messes with your hormones so she better stay FAR away from that!
I am pro choice, he made the choice not to have a child with her and went out of his way to take precautions to ensure it wouldn't happen. She made the choice to possibly get knocked up by some stranger and keep it. It is her choice to deal with it on her own, that is her "adult decision".
We aren't in the hobby to make illegitimate children, we are here to have fun as safely as possible. We all choose what risks we are comfortable taking, we are all aware of the risks involved with having sex and getting into the hobby. IMHO she WAS NOT hobbying safely, doing her "job" properly, or making smart choices.

While I agree that it's nearly impossible to avoid chemicals and toxic substances my point-and I think the provider in the story's point-is that it's her choice if she wants to add one more into/on to her. Just because she has/uses 1,001 substances a day doesn't give anybody the right to justify that "just one more" chemical is "okay." If you're pro-choice then you should support her stance on that.

He didn't make the choice to not have a child with her. Yes, it might have been completely unintentional as most accidents are but the fact remains he willingly consented to have sex with her knowing the risks. Birth control is not 100% and if he didn't want to have any children perhaps he should consider a vasectomy just as mush as she should consider a tubal ligation. He made the choice to run away and hide. As you said, we are all aware of the risks so isn't he just as much at fault as she? Yes, she did/or is possibly making the decision to be a single parent should she become pregnant but financially he is still responsible. Not wanting the kid and leaving the possible mother of your child with a tube of spermicide and the morning after pill in not a defense to not paying child support as I'm sure any family court judge will tell you.