So...whaddya do when a Hobbyist doesn't pay??

[QueenSophie]

Can you please close this thread?

[Jules Jaguar]

*edited* Dannie said exactly what I was going to say

[LazurusLong]

Originally Posted by QueenSophie

AND the winner IS....

Chevfet

Damn hated to do that.

Anyone wanting validation of communication, PM me.

All I can say to said hobbyist...toldya so and sorry.

QS

Don't close it till your post gets quoted a few more times in case any other provider misses it.

If the mods do decide to lock this finally, I suggest they put a link to the post where you name him in the first post in this thread because the discussion of who and when to collect rates would make many providers skip this.

[TinMan]

The thread shouldn't be closed until the accused has the opportunity to respond.

Your move, chevfet.

[Duke of G]

Originally Posted by LazurusLong

Don't close it till your post gets quoted a few more times in case any other provider misses it.

If the mods do decide to lock this finally, I suggest they put a link to the post where you name him in the first post in this thread because the discussion of who and when to collect rates would make many providers skip this.

Um..no. That would assume that it's the moderator's job to take sides in hobby business matters. Which is is NOT.

This thread needs to be taken for ALL it's worth. Not just some claim that a guy didn't pay. This isn't Judge Judy. Moderators aren't here to find fault. (Clearly, the membership will make a conclusion based on nothing but who said what first)

We should not lock threads just because we think a topic is "done." We lock threads when threads are hopelessly off-topic, or have degenerated into name calling. This can stay open forever if people want to be topical and civil. It has nothing to do with if or when this accused guy posts on it.

And a reminder to all: an OP requesting a thread to be closed is just that: a request. Following the above, the request may not be granted in some cases.

[S-Man]

Originally Posted by QueenSophie

AND the winner IS....

Chevfet

Damn hated to do that.

Anyone wanting validation of communication, PM me.

All I can say to said hobbyist...toldya so and sorry.

QS

As he saw CadenceAsh after seeing Sophie, did he remember to pay her?

[Guest041216]

Maybe its just me or is that just really weird or really messed up!!! Maybe some1 could remind him on there he may have forgot to give respect to the provider that was deserved uh-hmm (donation) IMO

[chevfet]

Queen Sophie, Wow. "The Rest of the Story" I have read and seen all your remarks, from the hobbyist and providers. QS, I think maybe you need to tell the Whole story. Did you receive funds for services? Yes, matter of fact did you not even receive a ride to your car after a night of drinking? This is your drama and your world. Karma? Really Karma is what you believe. Again you didn’t get stiffed any fees. I helped you out and you know it. Blowing up my phone and emails with threats on me and my kids was out of line and was wrong. You sending out of sew pm's is all good, though I too have pm's and emails from you and vm's Outside of the hobby, you were taken care of. The last of this is don’t threaten anymore, I don’t like you, what you wanted would never happen, I am sorry. You wanted this drama laid out in the public arena you did it. I wish you the best.

Too the rest of you decide what you want to believe what you want. I know what happened and QS has no gripe. If the Moderators, decide to disbann me then so be it.
Thank you, now you "Know the Rest of the Story"

[johnnylongcaulking]

Originally Posted by QueenSophie

Ok, so a Hobbyist "forgets" to leave donation.

You call and he says "OMG I'm sorry, I'll take care if it right away" and you give the opportunity to do so, and after a week....nothing.

You have communication thru PMs and HE asks where can he send the $, apologizing the whole time. You give the information he needs, and.....nothing.

You call again and he says he's out of town till a certain date, and again, you give the opportunity to take care of it, and still nothing.

You see a few posts from him including a "new" review from Hobbyist one week AFTER date he said he would be back in town and still .....nothing.

You contact AGAIN and.....yep, NOTHING.

Other than the obvious and post in the alert section, do you publicly out him here so the entire Hobby community knows who it is?? Is it petty to name him in coed discussions??

Do you chaulk it up to oh well, what's ONE Hobbyist getting away with it??

It's not so much the $ aspect, but it's the principle of it AND the fact that this is how we as providers pay the fucking bills and survive!

So I ask you....how much of a Bitch do have to be???

Originally Posted by chevfet

Queen Sophie, Wow. "The Rest of the Story" I have read and seen all your remarks, from the hobbyist and providers. QS, I think maybe you need to tell the Whole story. Did you receive funds for services? Yes, matter of fact did you not even receive a ride to your car after a night of drinking? This is your drama and your world. Karma? Really Karma is what you believe. Again you didn’t get stiffed any fees. I helped you out and you know it. Blowing up my phone and emails with threats on me and my kids was out of line and was wrong. You sending out of sew pm's is all good, though I too have pm's and emails from you and vm's Outside of the hobby, you were taken care of. The last of this is don’t threaten anymore, I don’t like you, what you wanted would never happen, I am sorry. You wanted this drama laid out in the public arena you did it. I wish you the best.

Too the rest of you decide what you want to believe what you want. I know what happened and QS has no gripe. If the Moderators, decide to disbann me then so be it.
Thank you, now you "Know the Rest of the Story"

Oh shit! Did this just turn into a he said / she said between a hooker and a john? Totally called it! Gina, get on it! You should have enough supposition and hearsay to totally figure this one out!

[trynagetlaid]

Originally Posted by chevfet

Did you receive funds for services? Yes, matter of fact did you not even receive a ride to your car after a night of drinking? ... Again you didn’t get stiffed any fees.

Do we need to start carrying receipt books with us to appointments now?

[LazurusLong]

Originally Posted by chevfet

Blowing up my phone and emails with threats on me and my kids was out of line and was wrong.

Making threats?

Where have I seen an accusation or something like that before from Sophie?

[Duke of G]

Originally Posted by chevfet

Blowing up my phone and emails with threats on me and my kids was out of line and was wrong. You sending out of sew pm's is all good, though I too have pm's and emails from you and vm's Outside of the hobby, you were taken care of. The last of this is don’t threaten anymore, I don’t like you, what you wanted would never happen, I am sorry. You wanted this drama laid out in the public arena you did it. I wish you the best.

While I'm not sure at some of the message you are trying to convey, if there were threats made, via email or PM, you should report those to the staff.

#5 - Outing or threats of outing are taken seriously. Membership here is anonymous and for the privacy of our members it will remain that way. That means any effort or attempt to connect a person's real world information to their username on this board will be dealt with swiftly and harshly. This includes real names, employment, medical info, addresses past or present, images, criminal or driving record, etc. We expect everyone who participates here to respect and go to great lengths to protect the anonymity and privacy of one another. Reckless disregard or accidental outing will also be taken very seriously.

Originally Posted by chevfet

If the Moderators, decide to disbann me then so be it.

I don't know why you think the moderators would "disbann" you, though. I'll repeat this important point: it's not the ECCIE moderators job to determine what did or did not happen in your visit. Who paid, who did not pay, etc. CANNOT be part of the staff's responsibility.

[QueenSophie]

I've got ALL the PMs if anyone cares to see them. Also have the VM/txt msg's ....

(glad my spidey sense gut feeling told me to hang on to them...)

Mods, I can forward them if you want also.

NEVER would I put someone's name out there if it weren't true. I've been on the end of something similar not too long ago, AND was proven to be innocent by the MODS and the originator admitted it wasn't me.
AND NEVER would I put anyone through what I went through no matter how much you make me wanna dry heave....!

SO...pm me and I'll send them your way.

QS

[sexydiamond]

Originally Posted by QueenSophie

I've got ALL the PMs if anyone cares to see them. Also have the VM/txt msg's ....

(glad my spidey sense gut feeling told me to hang on to them...)

Mods, I can forward them if you want also.

NEVER would I put someone's name out there if it weren't true. I've been on the end of something similar not too long ago, AND was proven to be innocent by the MODS and the originator admitted it wasn't me.
AND NEVER would I put anyone through what I went through no matter how much you make me wanna dry heave....!

SO...pm me and I'll send them your way.

QS

I'm sure that QS is telling the truth because he shorted me also! This was quite sometime ago, it wasn't the entire donation but regardless he shorted me. It was obvious that he planned it just from the way that it was handled. Lost his info but I know this is the same guy because I looked at his older posts & seen his post about his smoking fetish which is what we did also!

[QueenSophie]

Thank you SD. Sorry he got you too.
Wonder how many more are out there.
Makes ya wonder about his reviews....hmmm

So uhm, isn't this the part where the fat lady sings???

BOO-fucking-YAH !