Independent Ladies Only!!

[JDNorthface]

It is my pleasure to allow you to have the last word.

[Lady Scarlet]

I realize that and I appreciate your feedback. I think you are quite remarkable because it seems you both understand and appreciate us more upscale and more cautious ladies. I wish more gentlemen had your attitude. Thanks again for being so wonderful. Gentlemen like you is what keep ladies like myself to continue in this business.

[Gfe Juliette]

LOL. I so love your style.

[Gfe Juliette]

Thanks Babe and I know you meant no harm. You are a true gentleman and I appreciate you for your kindness, understanding, and attitude. I hope you have an awesome weekend.

Hugs,

Juliette

[big boi terry]

Back to the OP, I really don't give much thought to whether or not a provider has a pimp, handler, management etc,etc, as long as he/she doesn't interfere with the way that a lady handles her sessions. But, just recently I discovered that a provider that I would have to consider one of my ATF ladies is being handled. The last time that I visited with her a strange thing happened, about 20mins into our session there was a knock on the door. We were both startled, so she jumps up and goes to the window, as she pulled the curtain back I could see this young, short,slightly built blk guy was the one doing the knocking. She told him to go away, so I walked to the window and he slightly nodded at me and walked away. She was so upset that she dressed very quickly to go confront this gentleman, saying that she didn't need some pimp wanna be knocking on her door uninvited. Since that basically ended our session, mood was lost, I dressed myself. Since i've always had the utmost respect for her, the thought that he was HER pimp never crossed my mind, I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Fast forward a few months, I was talking to another one of my friends that also shares a tremendous like for this lady and we were basically comparing notes, he shared with me some of the "strange" happenings that he has experienced with her, and he actually saw her with the same, well based on the physical description that he gave me, young gentleman that I saw. To make matters worse, her phone accidentally called him one day, and he overheard a close to 20min conversation between the two. To his defense, he kept hollering hello,hello into the phone, but like I said, it was an accidental call. The nature of their conversation was one that he was convinced that it was a "Pimps UP, Ho's down" type of relationship. This was a real let down for me, like I said, as long as your way of treating me doesn't change, I really don't give it a second thought, but once your services start slipping, then I have a problem. Let's face it, who a provider is with is really something that none of us can control, but if your services slip because of that someone, then I can control whom I choose to spend my hard earned money with.

[mike1701]

I agree with you 100% on this. Respect is a two way street..I have had several "butt calls" and you learn alot.

[SweetSarah]

Now now .. let's not quibble over words. One can never know the inner workings of another's minds.. I have met girls who are "managed" in the biz through no coercion at all... And some who knew no ther way of life... Bottom line, in this biz their is no "typical" anything. Every situation is unique... That encompasses everything from encounters, clients, providers, streetwalkers, escorts....whatever the case may be.
What gets me most mad lately... Is I have had to lower my rates somewhat due to economy b.s.& the streetwalkers running to the internet that Amber called out..etc... And some guys still have the nerve to question my rate, as if its too high. .lol. if I have to put a price on something society as a whole and in general says Is pricess, then whatever price I deem fit to put on my priceless commodity should not be called into question. None of us ladies should have our rates questioned. We try to be accommodating to gentlemen, your not all made of money. But so many times on other boards I see men banding together saying if they drive the rate down by refusing to pay that high , we will have to lower our rates. If all the ladies band together and stand solid on our rates.. then men will pay! We have the commodity! The prices on everything else has gone up... Why should our prices go down! ?

Ok .. I'm off my soapbox.. I wish my phone had spell check.. word prediction can be tricky..lol

[SweetSarah]

The first part of my post was for jd northface and girl he was arguing with..oops

[SweetSarah]

Originally Posted by Abe Normal

And Sarah, since you will be checking these boards often, I hope you like tongue jobs, cause one of these days I'm gonna sit you on my face for hours, LOL

I happen to love tongue jobs...

[Guest032514-1]

My .02 (where's BCG?)

Had alot of people - clients - ask me about this, compare it to Ar etc blah blah. Here's what I've been saying:

I dont want to frackin hear your GD sobstory when you call some so-called 18yo high class educated low volume escort with no website (they're free people) no reviews lacking the ability to spell much less put together a coherent sentence (lets not ask for a paragraph) in English - with punctuation; who's advertising 80 all inclusive hour and a B&G or whatever....and she rips you off, or in some way cons you outta $$$$.

If you are NOT Brad Pitt or Antonio Banderas or Corbin Blue - then that girl is NOT in love with you, she does NOT give a damn what happens in your life, she does NOT want you to save her and and you are NOT special. She IS in love with your money, does care about what happens to your money and will treat you like gold .....as long as you have the gold.

Now, in theory - none of the above is my business. Really. Thats about the last crap I want to hear about. It's akin to bangin my head against a brick wall.

Business wide - aint no provider worth her salt not hit a "jackpot" or two. A pro will ride that client like Tonto and still leave him happy. There Is a difference between a good hit and swindling. I aint tellin you some crazy bs sob / love story & calling you every day asking for $$. I know you are laying down ks and you know we are gonna have a great damn time. Everybodys happy, nobody walks away feeling cheated. <- Thats good damn biz, whether it's 100 or 1k an hour.

And swindling (as described above) is on the lower end of the bad things. cash & dash, shorted in some way, outright robbery - more than the fee, blackmail...all that shit is outta some kind of thug mentality - that something for nothing.

It does become my business when a couple of things happen.
When some dumb wholeass calls me and @ 30 seconds gets pissed because I run my biz my way.
When someone I know calls me and starts whining about "how she done me wrong". She didnt do nothin but her "job". Her job as she understands it. So its my business when it impacts my dollars and/or my clients.

Yeah it sucks. But this is supposed to be an adult biz which means to play, you need to make adult decisons.

Y'all GD know that BP is eat the hell up with pimped, crackhos and sw. Its like driving down the strip, just online. Great. Groovy. If tahts for you rock on. Just dont GD bitch when you get taken advantage of.

Thats the troth you wanna eat out of...thats the slop you get.


Period.

I empathize with Amber & what shes saying. Somebody i know gets screwed - it pisses me off. but damn,,,,

[mike1701]

Damn, Babee, loved that post.I think that one should be required reading for the new guys.

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by mike1701

Damn, Babee, loved that post.I think that one should be required reading for the new guys.

Exactly. Unfortunately, newbies don't want to read this kind of information. I'm afraid this information is usually learned the hard way. Most gentlemen new to the hobby still post about their sessions like they are dates with future marriage partners. As time goes by, experience in the hobby tends to blanch that kind of language out of their posts and they'll discuss their sessions in more business-like terms like Babee has suggested.

[SweetSarah]

Lol... U go babee!! I agree!

[tammy4u]

It is disheartening to hear what has happened to some of the hobbyists. And to see so many "managed" girls, cash and dash, etc. that have entered into this business. While they are supporting their "habits".........some of us (or maybe just me) are struggling to keep our head above water.

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by tammy4u

...some of us (or maybe just me) are struggling to keep our head above water.

This is why a number of us believe that destiny is demanding you and Sarah move to Nashville...