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ALAYA · 07-26-2012, 07:28 PM

sees other girls. Do many guys have problems with this? And if so what is your opinion on it and maybe your a provider who is the one who request that client only sees you and gets angry if does otherwise,have had some complaints about this and was just wanting everyone's intake on this��very excited to see discussion on it ��

kenny356 · 07-26-2012, 08:02 PM

Well should a client get jealous when a girl sees other clients? I'm not sure I would understand the jealousy, but it would tend to make me not want to have to deal with that girl anymore.

chris1107 · 07-26-2012, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by ALAYA

sees other girls. Do many guys have problems with this? And if so what is your opinion on it and maybe your a provider who is the one who request that client only sees you and gets angry if does otherwise,have had some complaints about this and was just wanting everyone's intake on this��very excited to see discussion on it ��

She shouldn't get angry, I mean isn't she seeing other clients? That's a two way street!

Your Ebony Dream · 07-26-2012, 09:33 PM

I've ran into this issue before and all I have to say is:

This is a hobby there is a reason a guy is on this board, and believe it or not its not to find his soulmate, wife ect.

He wants to bangs girls ... multiple girls. Matter of fact probably all the girls who fit his taste and criteria.

I would never decline a reference in an attempt to stop your business & I would Never suggest that a client ONLY see me? Thats just petty and not professional to say the least.

Guest031213 · 07-27-2012, 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by AmberDoll

I've ran into this issue before and all I have to say is:

This is a hobby there is a reason a guy is on this board, and believe it or not its not to find his soulmate, wife ect.

He wants to bangs girls ... multiple girls. Matter of fact probably all the girls who fit his taste and criteria.

I would never decline a reference in an attempt to stop your business & I would Never suggest that a client ONLY see me? Thats just petty and not professional to say the least.

Well said!

Eva Damita · 07-27-2012, 07:36 AM

Honestly, there are millions of people in the world...and millions of women, and believe it or not, there are likely millions of providers - likewise Hobbyist. Jealousy should not be a problem in our world, but often is. Because this is a dangerous job, it is however, safer when we providers work together...besides, the whole rest of the society has hobbyists and providers especially at the bottom of the totem pole. Often, when someone calls me to use as a reference, they have clients that would be interested in me too (many clients like a certain "type" of provider). I've never dealt with jealousy issues - now keeping a tight lip on where to tour, advice, etc was problematic in my earlier years providing - you know the attitude - "The Game is to be Sold, Not Told" ... at first I never understood this, but now I can slightly see why that attitude was taken. The saying isnt literal, its just best to find out on your own. Also, for a better example, read this thread, read my attempt to help, and then the providers response to see what I mean : http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=501526 Great question/thread Alaya!

Headkeeper · 07-27-2012, 09:35 AM

Is this jealousy over the client or the clients money? I would tend to believe its over the money. I can't image ladies fighting over my sexual prowess although it does make for a nice fantasy. Especially with the providers posting so far.

ALAYA · 07-27-2012, 10:22 AM

I so agree with everyone and I just can't understand a provider being jealous or being rude to client cause he's been seeing me and not her anymore, I just think that's very Imature first off we all are here to make money and receive pleasure so if your the jealous one please stop being rude and harassing clients cause YOUR NOT WHO THEY SEE EVERYTIME

Eva Damita · 07-27-2012, 04:59 PM

Miss Alaya, dont even let the haters phase you! If they are being rude to the clients, it doesn't even matter because the client is finished with them, and likely for that reason - them being rude, and apparently not cut out for this industry.

Guest071313-5 · 07-27-2012, 11:55 PM

Could be the guys the girls get jealous over have a magic tongue?

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Sydney Pure · 07-28-2012, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by ALAYA

sees other girls. Do many guys have problems with this? And if so what is your opinion on it and maybe your a provider who is the one who request that client only sees you and gets angry if does otherwise,have had some complaints about this and was just wanting everyone's intake on this��very excited to see discussion on it ��

Honestly for some reason in this Biz there's always Jealousy those that will lowball you to get the date, not give a reference Just to call him later offering a special!!

To me!!! This is a Hobby there is enough for all of US. Now don't get me wrong some gents get their ATF and I Understand but for the majority it's about different experiences with all shapes of Nature!!

But for some reason some of these ladies get in their head that OWN the client!!

Good Luck with your situation!!

Sydney Pure · 07-28-2012, 02:49 PM

I've even told clients YOU have to see someone else!! That Clingy shit is for the Birds!!

Harley Diablo · 07-28-2012, 03:23 PM

Damn Sidney, I like being Clingy with you.

Sydney Pure · 07-30-2012, 10:29 AM

Hjones You know we are attached at the HIPBone!!

the pragmatist · 07-30-2012, 03:11 PM

I suspect that, with the exception of unique situations, that the only jealousy involved concerns "Ben"... Franklin that is. It's probably more a matter of financial territorality than emotion. Let's face it, every reference request represents $$ which are going to someone else. For some this may equate with emotion, I suspect that for most, this is a matter of "This is my ATM, you go find your own!"