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Waldo P. Emerson-Jones · 05-13-2012, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by still-asleep

Shut up already

I suspect eccie's resident drama queen can't help himself. I'm sure he'll be back on this thread and prove my point.

Waldo P. Emerson-Jones · 05-13-2012, 10:38 AM

And to get back on topic, sorry for your troubles Blade. You seem to be handing it much nicer than I would. Total BS for her to not tell you about her racial prejudice ahead of time and waste your time and effort in setting up a meet. Shows low class for her and her running mates.

LazurusLong · 05-13-2012, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by still-asleep

Shut up already

Listen. Your entire attitude is one that you think you are so cool and love getting the +1 from others for trying to talk smack.

I don't sit here at the keyboard waiting for others to kiss my ass or go attaboy like you do.

What about my question and response to those who are side tracking this into the "oh she should post it" bullshit needs to be quieted?

Are you the all powerful knowing going to jump into the bandwagon that what those who are already out there posting is that those who see black men should somehow force those who do not see black men are required to post it?

Sorry, how about you go back and try to Wake Up and you shut up unless you can actually fucking contribute something of value other than to try and get another +1 or some Likes.

This is not high school where popularity matters to those of us who are adults.

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Originally Posted by Waldo P. Emerson-Jones

I suspect eccie's resident drama queen can't help himself. I'm sure he'll be back on this thread and prove my point.

And another ass clown who feels better about his own self by not contributing or asking questions that are relevant but instead feel bigger because he too can simply try to take jabs.

Another perfect candidate for the spider hole.... Go make your home there and leave the adult conversation to the adults.

chipper · 05-13-2012, 07:57 PM

Communications is a very important part of transactions in this "Hobby". It is not necessary for anyone on this board to make any declarations. It is, however, helpful to both parties if they would just communicate. I am sure that if Blade had an accent the Lady would have made known her exceptions in Clients. The Lady obviously doesn't want to advertise that she doesn't see people of color I don't see the reason for her to come to that conclusion, but that is her decision. This will not be the only decision that the Ladies make that I do not completely understand. The, "I will go down on you but will not kiss you" is the strangest to me. I am sure that you will have others that you don't understand.

If you quit insulting each other I will quit giving points.

Chipper

Communicate and your problems will be mostly solved.

pyramider · 05-13-2012, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by chipper

If you quit insulting each other I will quit giving points.

Chipper

Communicate and your problems will be mostly solved.

Where is the fun in that?

shortblkguy · 05-13-2012, 10:33 PM

After a similar experience a few years ago, I ask if ladies see AA men early in the communication. True it should be posted in the ad and it is the lady's choice but I take it upon myself to discuss the topic. Though I have forgot a few times

Waldo P. Emerson-Jones · 05-14-2012, 01:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Waldo P. Emerson-Jones

I suspect eccie's resident drama queen can't help himself. I'm sure he'll be back on this thread and prove my point.

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Originally Posted by LazurusLong

And another ass clown who feels better about his own self by not contributing or asking questions that are relevant but instead feel bigger because he too can simply try to take jabs.

Another perfect candidate for the spider hole.... Go make your home there and leave the adult conversation to the adults.

LMAO. I knew you'd wouldn't be able to resist and would prove my point. So predictable.

yaddayadda · 05-14-2012, 08:37 AM

Well since the providers can't discuss Rates or Services perhaps a checklist of do's and don'ts, should be included on each AD .....

1. I do see AA men []
2. I do see Fat guys []
3. I am old guy friendly []
4. I do not mind guys that smoke []
5. I do have a shower you can use if you want to []

I am sure there are others but it would be good information. Just saying.....

Blade5150 · 05-14-2012, 08:39 AM

Hello there my fellow Hobbyist and Providers,

I would like to thank everyone for posting their comments and discussions on this topic matter, everyone has had some interesting points of view.

I have ALWAYS let a potential provider know prior to our meeting each other that I am AA, via eccie PM message or emails and many of the providers, thus far has been O.K. with it.

Let me clarify the communication aspect between myself and (AC9999). I attempted to send her a PM message on her showcase. However, I'm not sure if any of you have clicked on her showcase and click on her PM message their was an eccie message that is posted (AC9999) has chosen not to receive private messages or may not be allowed to receive private messages. Therefore you may not send your message to him/her.

Therefore, I proceeded to contact her at the number listed to speak with her about her services. We had communicated on two other occasions via phone and on the day of our appointment through the standard two call system for in-call location, apt # and gate code information. I assumed she would've been able to distinguish what ethnicity I was. Unfortunately, I was sadly mistaken once I arrived at her doorstep through her peep hole screening final process. IE... MonkMonk.

I'm not sure what her definition of her quote "I Did Not Sound Black" over the phone met to her. Just because I can string a two word sentences together using proper grammar and that I can articulate my words in a sentence. I'm not sure if her definition of Black people in general that we should be using more Ebonics in our grammar, in order for her to be able to determine my ethnicity or not.

I'm sure most of you are curious as to WHY..she flaked out on me. The only thing that I can determine is that she may have seen a previous Black client and took on to much dick then she was able to handle. As she stated through the door/peephole in her broken English.. Dick..Dick..Dick..LOL!

I want to say to the Lovely Luscious Lacy, I will diffidently consider your offer the next time you are in Dallas sweetie. "Guess Who's Cumming For Dinner" LOL!

RangoFett · 05-14-2012, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Blade5150

Hello there my fellow Hobbyist and Providers,

I would like to thank everyone for posting their comments and discussions on this topic matter, everyone has had some interesting points of view.

I have ALWAYS let a potential provider know prior to our meeting each other that I am AA, via eccie PM message or emails and many of the providers, thus far has been O.K. with it.

Let me clarify the communication aspect between myself and (AC9999). I attempted to send her a PM message on her showcase. However, I'm not sure if any of you have clicked on her showcase and click on her PM message their was an eccie message that is posted (AC9999) has chosen not to receive private messages or may not be allowed to receive private messages. Therefore you may not send your message to him/her.

Therefore, I proceeded to contact her at the number listed to speak with her about her services. We had communicated on two other occasions via phone and on the day of our appointment through the standard two call system for in-call location, apt # and gate code information. I assumed she would've been able to distinguish what ethnicity I was. Unfortunately, I was sadly mistaken once I arrived at her doorstep through her peep hole screening final process. IE... MonkMonk.

I'm not sure what her definition of her quote "I Did Not Sound Black" over the phone met to her. Just because I can string a two word sentences together using proper grammar and that I can articulate my words in a sentence. I'm not sure if her definition of Black people in general that we should be using more Ebonics in our grammar, in order for her to be able to determine my ethnicity or not.

I'm sure most of you are curious as to WHY..she flaked out on me. The only thing that I can determine is that she may have seen a previous Black client and took on to much dick then she was able to handle. As she stated through the door/peephole in her broken English.. Dick..Dick..Dick..LOL!

I want to say to the Lovely Luscious Lacy, I will diffidently consider your offer the next time you are in Dallas sweetie. "Guess Who's Cumming For Dinner" LOL!

Well said sir!

johnnylongcaulking · 05-14-2012, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Blade5150

I'm sure most of you are curious as to WHY..she flaked out on me. The only thing that I can determine is that she may have seen a previous Black client and took on to much dick then she was able to handle. As she stated through the door/peephole in her broken English.. Dick..Dick..Dick..LOL!

Too Bookoo!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gyGOJ1_kcI8

sweet.treat69 · 05-14-2012, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by BigEddie

Being black is not some sort of condition he should have to announce. If a lady doesn't want to see certain types of men - Asian, black, old, fat, whatever - she should handle it in screening. Just ask the question. I can't imagine how degrading it must be to have to proactively inform a lady that you are black as if there is something wrong with it.

+1, and Blade, I'm truly sorry that happened to you. For her to turn you away like that without even opening the door and then telling you that you didn't "sound black" is really a true waste of time and honestly insulting. She definitely should let guys know upfront or in her ads so that this doesn't happen again. If you're in Dallas again anytime soon, I'd love to show you a good time! I have jungle fever and I don't discriminate against anyone!

pmdelites · 05-14-2012, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Blade5150

Hello there my fellow Hobbyist and Providers,

I would like to thank everyone for posting their comments and discussions on this topic matter, everyone has had some interesting points of view.

I have ALWAYS let a potential provider know prior to our meeting each other that I am AA, via eccie PM message or emails and many of the providers, thus far has been O.K. with it.

Let me clarify the communication aspect between myself and (AC9999). I attempted to send her a PM message on her showcase. However, I'm not sure if any of you have clicked on her showcase and click on her PM message their was an eccie message that is posted (AC9999) has chosen not to receive private messages or may not be allowed to receive private messages. Therefore you may not send your message to him/her.

Therefore, I proceeded to contact her at the number listed to speak with her about her services. We had communicated on two other occasions via phone and on the day of our appointment through the standard two call system for in-call location, apt # and gate code information. I assumed she would've been able to distinguish what ethnicity I was. Unfortunately, I was sadly mistaken once I arrived at her doorstep through her peep hole screening final process. IE... MonkMonk.

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I'm sure most of you are curious as to WHY..she flaked out on me. The only thing that I can determine is that she may have seen a previous Black client and took on to much dick then she was able to handle. As she stated through the door/peephole in her broken English.. Dick..Dick..Dick..LOL!
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blade, sorry that happened to you. like you said, at least you werent out the funds, just the time.

so, from the above post, did you or did you not tell / inform her that you are african-american or of african heritage? it's not clear that you did.

wrt your guess as to why, rather than guess, just leave it as she said "through the door while over the phone that you Don't See Black Men!"

and while i believe it would be great if she informed potential clients that she does not see black me, i also believe that african-american or of african heritage men should inform the woman of that fact to be sure.
or any other condition that one might think the woman might not accept [midgets, balloons, whipped cream, etc., etc., etc.]

as chipper so wisely wrote...
"Communicate and your problems will be mostly solved."

they dont call it intercourse for nothing :^)

mtown8090 · 05-14-2012, 11:48 AM

Weird. In black and have seen her more than once. Each time was a delight

Guest022315 · 05-14-2012, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by pmdelites

and while i believe it would be great if she informed potential clients that she does not see black me, i also believe that african-american or of african heritage men should inform the woman of that fact to be sure.
or any other condition that one might think the woman might not accept [midgets, balloons, whipped cream, etc., etc., etc.]

as chipper so wisely wrote...
"Communicate and your problems will be mostly solved."

they dont call it intercourse for nothing :^)

I strongly disagree. What is the point of sending or requesting p411, references, and/or handle information

I am with Blade ladies your better off stating your prefence in your ads or screen your clients

and for the record the only preference the majority of ladies in dallas have is green