The discourse of absurdity

[RALPHEY BOY]

Joan, me thinks you are reading to much into what i posted,,

the burden is trying to set this all up.. I am 0-9 in the past 3 weeks,, hell I cant give my $$ away

6 cancels and 3 no returns of emails or texts...you tell me how I should feel

[cyrick]

Originally Posted by Joan

This should be Fun, not a burden! Disagree?

A truth that is lost on many around here lately...

Some people take themselves (and their "board persona") way too seriously.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by Joan

R.B

Worrying/lying (opinion) however, does not equal up to "fun mostly". Worrying should be the least of both male/female participants fears! Agreed?? .....This should be Fun, not a burden! Disagree?

Nailed it Joan.

I'm here for a few distinct things & need to keep my eye on the prize.

1). "To meet interesting women & enjoy their company"-& this phrase will mean something different to each of us...its not a singularly defined activity

2). "To destress from the rigors or work & life"-Pretty global in the meaning of this

3). "To have one more interesting & entertaining group of people to interact with"-Whether this is meeting for beers discussing the hobby, playing round on the board behind the keyboard, or enjoying non-BCD activities with the rare few we really connect with.

There really ARE some amazing people here. Its THRILLING at times to learn who "The person behind the name" is. Everyone here is a person with history, stories, a life...how we all got in this hobby might be different though.

At no time did I expect this to be a high stress/battle ready situation...I'm VERY active on some other chat sites (much more than here if you can believe that), some for over 10 years running...and I have rarely seen the issues we sometimes see here.

For my part, am doing the best I can to avoid confrontations, suggest everyone try and follow that lead...just turn the other cheek...it is that easy. (well not so easy, but it can be done...and you'll enjoy the board more if you do!)

[Joan]

"the burden is trying to set this all up.. I am 0-9 in the past 3 weeks,, hell I cant give my $$ away

6 cancels and 3 no returns of emails or texts...you tell me how I should feel"


Dear R.B;

I understand that you may feel "Rotten" (As all of us do), when you are stood up. It happens to Everyone....including to the "Hottest" women you may/could ever think of. ..Fact is, we are all Human, we all make mistakes/errors. Patience is easier said than done, but forgiveness is the key. Why hate?

-Anonymous

[RALPHEY BOY]

I dont hate, but I sure as hell dont forgive them for wasting my time,
if I did hate, I would come running to coed and post how Provider X, Y and Z all flaked on me with lame ass excuses only to have them try to turn it around. ...I simply just post my trials and tribulations on a thread like this...
and vote with my wallet..

I am kind of surprised the 'rent needers' have not texted me ,, I guess they did a better job this last month of handling their finances.. ( ;

[Sir Hardin Thicke]

RB said: I am kind of surprised the 'rent needers' have not texted me ,, I guess they did a better job this last month of handling their finances.. ( ;

Hey, don't feel bad. I never get a call or text from rent needers.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by Sir Hardin Thicke

Hey, don't feel bad. I never get a call or text from rent needers.

I was surprised...

Received IM's from 2 I consider in the top 10 of the available ladies (not ones I have seen before) and a serious UTR that I have LONG wanted to meet.

Alas, my dance card is packed at the moment & will have to juggle some things (or sell some shit), to make any of it happen...

[RALPHEY BOY]

all this $$ I am saving, I have put to good use,, paying down some debts..

[Joan]

"I dont hate, but I sure as hell dont forgive them for wasting my time,
if I did hate, I would come running to coed and post how Provider X, Y and Z all flaked on me with lame ass excuses only to have them try to turn it around. ...I simply just post my trials and tribulations on a thread like this...
and vote with my wallet..

I am kind of surprised the 'rent needers' have not texted me ,, I guess they did a better job this last month of handling their finances.. ( ;"

Dear Mr. Shake an' Bake;

Ha - Ha ah....Don't worry, I'm sure you will have no problem finding "rent needers" after what you just posted on this thread! LOL

Darn!, I'm sorry that was mean, wasn't it?

[RALPHEY BOY]

Joan, my skin WAY thicker than that,,I dont get offended, IMPOSSIBLE to offend me I have been in a sales my entire adult life,, 24 years now...nothing you say, do or imply that has not already been done to me...

[Nia Love]

Originally Posted by Sir Hardin Thicke

The recent discourse between members of this board has gotten dreadful, comments meant to sever the jugular to bleed out what little decency is left, all for the purposes of what appears to be the one who has the last word. I thought the purpose of this board was the exchange of information, not the exchange of insults. The diatribe between these members has left me with a bad taste for the parties involved; some not worthy of befriending while the others are hollow with discontent. The irony is the anonymity of what we all do (P4P) is left open to scrutiny because we don’t hesitate to ‘call out’ each other with flagrant insults, misogynistic slurs, and disgraceful smears of a member’s perceived personality. In the normal course of disagreement, there will be the “he said/she said” scenario. That is meant to prove one’s point over the other with fact. To throw personal insults at one another lacks decency and a panache for debate.

Thanks to those that have publicly apologized for what has been said about other members of this board.

I absolutely agree...and I have to say that I had the pleasure of meeting the two members in question and they were both seemed as if they truly cared for one another. I just think that it's sad. Life is too short to not hang on to a true friendship. Girls are so fucking catty....

[rockerrick]

Originally Posted by Nia Love

I absolutely agree...and I have to say that I had the pleasure of meeting the two members in question and they were both seemed as if they truly cared for one another. I just think that it's sad. Life is too short to not hang on to a true friendship. Girls are so fucking catty....

Only 1 decided to be catty and draw first blood, and do it publicly . And was called on it .