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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
It is very rude when a lady doesn't respond to an appointment request!
It doesn't happen very often, but it seems to be happening with more frequency. I make an appointment request (through her preferred method) or through P411 (my preferred method).
And she doesn't respond. At all. And I can tell (at least on P411) when it was she last visited the site, so I know she's seen the request. And, if it's through her website, I assume it's set up so she sees it immediately.
Now, it would be nice if the ladies actually had the gumption to reply. Several things: I'm busy then, I don't see guys your age, not just not now, but never. You know, some courtesy response that says look elsewhere. [BTW, some courtesy responses hurt, but at least the response is there. One lady laughed at my request and said "she was booked." Learned my lesson with her.]
Ladies, you have to realize, before requesting an appointment, most guys, me included, have invested a lot of time in researching the field. Getting a "no" is one thing. Hearing deafening silence is quite another.
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That sounds very frustrating.
I'm sure as a member of this board you approach ladies in a polite and satisfying way.
The kind of people I don't get back to are people who send terse phone messages like 'Are you around right now?'.
It must be frustrating for you, but maybe these ladies have a full time job or family commitments which impede their getting back to emails too fast. I know myself I can get caught up in things and it takes a few days to get back to an email - frustrating but true.
But on your side you might think - if it doesn't work out that's some kind of disaster avoided.
That's the way I think and sometimes I get the corroborating evidence.
