Have any Providers been caught by their husband?

[SCBOY]

Wow, that is so sad.
It's sad some people have such a hard time keeping their act together.

[Gabriel Uno]

I actually found it challenging to be in a relationship and still be in the hobby without my partner buliding up jealousy or being sarcastic about it.

I do have a friend that is also provider and she has been dating her boyfriend for about 4 going on 5 years. He knows exactly what she does and he is fine with it as long as she is completely honest with what goes on with her dates and what she offers on the menu. Sometimes he even helps her post ads and gives her the gentlemen's prospective. I dont know, I would find this a little weird.

I understand that a relationship without trust is dead so kudos to the providers that has their cake and eat it too. Guess that goes along with the guys too. When Im ready to settle, that is exactly what Im doing to do.

I find it a lot easier to be single in this field, on this end anyway. I also think thats why Im so GFE, if you know what I mean. LOL.....or am I missing something??? Hey, this is just IMHO.

[Owlman]

I provide business consulting services to various companies. One of these companies recently set me up with a provider for an all nighter. The lady was mature, sophisticated and very attractive. She told me that she does not advertise but only provides occasional services set up by a few companies that are trying to improve relations with vendors and customers. She only meets businessmen at high end hotels because of this arrangement.

Over dinner she told me that she had once worked through an agency. Now she is married to a very nice older man. He loves her but cannot satisfy her physically. She decided to go back to providing on the basis that she is because she gets out and has sex but does not consider it cheating because she has no emotional links to the guys and rarely sees them more than once. Her husband is not happy about the arrangement but she gives him no choice. She does not specifically tell him when she has dates but he can figure it out by seeing how she is dressed when she leaves the house. She loves her husband but needs the sex. Over time her husband has become less upset about things. Her neighbors and relatives have no idea.

[hornfreak]

well this thread has potential. look if I had an SO, I would be fine with it as long as I would be getting some of money out of it, and enjoy the ride while it lasted. Meanwhile I would be starting plan B....... yeap finding someone else.

[instfixer]

My ATF had this boyfriend...
Except she found out that he was cheating on her...
She was furiously mad and cut the relationship off cold...
Now between her and me there are a few more 'items on the menu'

[whitechocolate]

Just as MOST married civilians are cheating on their husbands, most providers with a serious SO are cheating on him. It is either cheat, have a very jealous SO or end the relationship. There are some married providers in an successful open marriage but that is the exception not the rule.