Hobbyist/Providers how comfortable are you with sharing personal information during visits??

[Zx]

A few questions that frequenly come up during the screening process, what's your name, what do you do? Does there ever come a point where you open up?

[Daen1304]

I am pretty much enough of a nobody that I don't really care. Personally info can't really be used against me in a negative fashion unless it is the type where you can commit identity theft. Some of the guys don't open up because personal stuff can be used against them and they don't want to take that chance of releasing it and getting screwed by it. I am also protected by my lack of giving a damn. Which may sound odd, but you can't blackmail someone whose response is "Ha! I'll tell them first!"

[Copierguy0]

Originally Posted by Zx

A few questions that frequenly come up during the screening process, what's your name, (Copierguy0) what do you do? (duh) Does there ever come a point where you open up? (her legs,yes)

I am Divorced and NO SO
Hell, I will even drive up to their incall in a company car. lol

Now for you married guy, I would protect my INFO if I were you.
Why would you give ANY provider YOUR real life INFO, If your Married?
They want your INFO to feel safe.
YOU don't want to give it to her to feel safe.
Get P411, Gina shreds that INFO after screening.
If thats not good enough for her, move on.

CG

[Incognito44]

Why would you share personal information? None of the girls will likely share their real name or other personal info for their own safety reasons. Now if you have LTR type of relationship, that might be different though. Maybe then you trust and she trusts you, it becomes a different matter.

[pyramider]

Because the little head likes to go to enclosed places that are hot and wet?

[Tony Patella]

Originally Posted by Copierguy0

I am Divorced and NO SO
Hell, I will even drive up to their incall in a company car. lol

Now for you married guy, I would protect my INFO if I were you.
Why would you give ANY provider YOUR real life INFO, If your Married?
They want your INFO to feel safe.
YOU don't want to give it to her to feel safe.
Get P411, Gina shreds that INFO after screening.
If thats not good enough for her, move on.

CG

Single, married, SO or not...hate to see a vindictive lady or her "manager" exert pressure on you with the suggestion they might call your boss with details about the "hobby" you've chosen. Careful...unless you're the boss man!

[S-Man]

Any personal info you provide may accidentally be mentioned to another client.

[Lunytunz]

Be kind to everyone, trust no one! There's plenty to talk about besides your personal information.

[slowmover]

It's best to make something up and use it all the time. If at some later date you want to do something different, you can share real info. I just always tell myself, a true sociopath is very hard to "read" and will easily be able to fool you.

[Zx]

Never have bad intentions, i feel like I treat providers well but this is good advice here. Frankly, I am suprised that I haven't seen more people post with differing opinions, as the perception I get is some hobbyist are really close to a provider or two.

[Vitruvian]

Originally Posted by Zx

as the perception I get is some hobbyist are really close to a provider or two.

That's the case with me.

I have no one to report to and the fact is most of my friends and family know I do this sometimes and the ones that don't wouldn't be surprised. So...who gives a shit? That being said, I generally mention nothing of the nature of my business or anything else personal 'cept vague generalities...its all business and nothing personal. That being said, there has only been one provider ever I have told more to and its because I trust her with that knowledge and she's trusted me with a large amount of her info as well. All things being considered, I prefer that....even if I am still paying her for her time.

[thx]

My experience is that the providers had cover stories on top of cover stories. Even my old ATF that reminded me 'we all lie all the time, about everything' would surprise me from time to time.

To be fair, she said that most hobbyists had there own cover stories.