it's a whole different world from p2p, gfe, pse, etc. very different!
there was one video i saw of a woman who was bound to a frame and sitting on a Sybian. the video was quite long [20 mins?] and she must have had a gazillion orgasms. at one point, the guy was badgering her about something. since she was wimpering and discombobulated and didnt respond immediately to her questions, he turned it up way high. she could only scream. the most disquieting part was at the end when he intimated that he would just turn up the Sybian and leave the building.
what's missing from an observer's point of view is ... how willing has she been to endure/undergo such treatment? well, if he's a good Dom and she's a good sub, then they both know how far it can go. but, it's against her will or out of her control, then i think it's downright degrading, dehumanizing, and cruel.
in the video's case, i'll never know.
in the case you described, i doubt she gave up TOTAL and COMPLETE control.
[watch some of the bondage videos, esp where they "interview" the woman at the end.
again, we'll never really know if she was a willing participant]
in any case, unless you know the backstory [and sometimes if you do], it can be disquieting.
and stimulating. that's the conundrum of D/s and B/D scenes.
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