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Originally Posted by stanky
To the guys who want to hobby - get on ECCIE and make a few pertinent posts. Get in chat and talk with some regulars. Maybe review an AMP or two or hit one of the madames up (Casey or Nora) for a non-indy encounter. Join RS2K or P411... There's so many damn ways to get verified, it's ludicrous.
Bottom-line, get your "hobby-cred" up before you call an indy out of the blue and wanna hook up in 15 minutes from now. That's just unreasonable.
- stanky
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When I finally decide I want to see a lady, I either send them an appointment request through p411 or I send an introductory email as follows-
Hello___,
I'm Pipefitter73. I would like to meet with you please. Below is my screening info. When you have screened me, let me know and we can schedule a date.
eccie link-
http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=53943
p411# ____ (only if they are on p411)
Date Check# ____ (only if they are on Date Check)
TER# ____ (only if they are on TER)
Reference#1, their contact email, and my last visit date with them.
Reference#2, their contact email, and my last visit date with them.
Reference#3, their contact email, and my last visit date with them.
Thank you and I look forward to meeting you.
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I have helped a few new ladies screen before and apparently no one sends in their screening stuff without some arm twisting. Most guys will want to find out when a lady is available and set an appointment without being screened first and I don't understand that.
I told the ladies to send an auto reply as follows and get the screening info first-
If you would like to schedule a meeting with me, let’s start out here. Unfortunately screening, referrals, or verification is required for both of our safety.
All information you provide is kept highly confidential. I am also listed on Preferred411 and eccie and utilize their sites as a screening method. Please contact me through p411 or please supply the following so we can schedule a meeting-
Hobby Name:
Hobby Handle:
Hobby email address:
Age:
Race:
Hobby Phone#:
City and State:
Date and Time You Want to Meet:
Meeting Length:
Which ad, site, or board did you find me on:
If applicable, what is your user ID there:
If you have seen other ladies within the last 6 months, Please include their information below and let them know that I will be contacting them for a reference.
Provider Reference # 1:
Email:
Phone:
Web Site:
Something to refresh her memory of your meeting?:
Provider Reference # 2:
Email:
Phone:
Web Site:
Something to refresh her memory of your meeting?:
Additional Comments?:
I will make every effort to make our meeting happen, but I do reserve the right to refuse to meet with anyone whom I don’t feel comfortable with. I’m flattered that you are contacting me, I trust that you have read over my site including the Donations and FAQ’s.
Please understand that in order to ensure my safety as well as yours I must screen all new guests…gently, I promise. I will not answer inquiry emails without the information I request.
Again, this is to ensure my safety.
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Originally Posted by JustaGuyinMS
+1 Stanky!
Heather - you set the rules on screening so you're comfortable. If the guy's not comfortable with your rules, he can go elsewhere.
JaG
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I agree.
Screening
p411 when traveling.... and having hobby friends who have the info on the local girls doesn't hurt either.
